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| How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by agoadiv(op): 5:26pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
wonderful nairalands,i just wanna go straight to the point... av been dating dis gurl for sometimes now.before she accepted me,she told me to promise her dat if we get to date dat sex is outta de book  i didn't promise but i rada promised her that i won't try sex until she agrees to it...and am de kind of guy that u can hold me by my word..now i nid sex from her and i nid it like seriously and de vexation am passing through is dat when we have a heated conversation abt sex,at last wen am getting angry she just say 'NO SEX N REMEMBER, U WON'T FORCE ME TO DO IT' ....in my house ooo... pls how do i convince her ?do i force her?cos she comes to ma house regularly or do i just..............go with ur ideas?? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by iceberylin(m): 5:29pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Naija babes frustrating us since 1960  6 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by blemon44(m): 5:29pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
if she really wants you as you want her she should give you what you want |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by angelsing(m): 5:31pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Must u have sex with her?....Would have love to teach u the best way to go about making her consent to having sex with u but it will be a bad thing for me to do that because its not right...wait for her till she is ready 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by elantraceey(f): 5:33pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
If you know you can't keep up with no sex then why did you go on with the relationship  naija guys deceiving themselves since 190ad  15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by naijaboiy: 5:34pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
angelsing:Guy tell him what you know about it. It's his choice if he wants to have sex with his girlfriend. The only bad thing I see is if he forces her. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Ab025(m): 5:35pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
dude....its ur word, u made the promise, so its kinda hard to go against ur word maybe u have to search outside if the thing don hook u like aggro....or rather, try to reason with her until she agrees# 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Lovexme(m): 5:37pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
You knew what you were getting into before you agreed into dating her. You can't possibly force her as that will further harden her stance on the 'no sex' subject. By the way, is she by any chance a virgin? 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by naijaboiy: 5:37pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
elantraceey:Probably because he saw other things in her beyond sex. It doesn't make him not to want it later on in the relationship. There is nothing like self-deceit there 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by eyeview: 5:38pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
My advice is simple. Do you want to be having sex with her? Marry her. Do the noble thing,go to her father's house and with your people do the necessary marriage rites. It is also necessary that you put a ring around her finger and walk her down the isle. If you don't want to do those,please let her go. She is somebody's daughter 14 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Mathematical(f): 5:38pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Sex ,sex,sex,...must you have sex with her?its obvious you don't want her,you just want to have her cookies..all iz well with You..... 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Genea(f): 5:38pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Oshi rada rada ,preventn is bera dan cure,u shouldnt av gone in ,in d first place..mtcheeeeew 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by xynerise: 5:39pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
angelsing:Ora'l sex? Nah! Trust me that can lead him to rapi'ng her. Kpekus and mouth are different wella  @ op. If you can't hold sex again and you respect her principle, then do what you have to do to relief the "conjigal" pains and disorder you face daily. Get a side chic or probably seek advice from the Vaseline crew. On a serious note, I won't advise you to keep holding yourself because I know what you are going through and that will make me a Pharisee . Tell her the torture you are facing and if she insist on keeping her words, move to plan B  3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by TrishaP(f): 5:39pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Coming to your house is enough to put you in such a compromising position. Maybe you should start changing your mindset about getting it bcus you've agreed to the conditions already. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Let her catch you self servicing urself.loool maybe she wil allow u to hav sex wit her 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by naijaboiy: 5:43pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
xynerise:I agree with you jare! Op if you no fit hold am simply stick to your words and look for sex elsewhere. No be me talk am o 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
force her, she will enjoy as soon as ur joystick has been connected to her cpu bt no be me give u d idea ooo 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by elantraceey(f): 5:44pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Then he should break up with her since he can't keep up instead of trying to lure her into something she doesn't want to do. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by xynerise: 5:45pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
TrishaP:Some agreement are sometimes made under duress, emotional duress in this context. My guy no wan lose the babe na 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
U promised her u won't try sex until she agrees,guy she has not agreed yet,wait till she agrees,wen u dey make d promise u no for once think say konji fit kill 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Mathematical(f): 5:47pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
zick19:you're preaching the act of rape Do you pray for such to happen to yah lil sister.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by xynerise: 5:47pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
naijaboiy:I no blame the guy jare . The level of conji don increase these days. Who else observed that? 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by expert101(m): 5:48pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
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| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
My friend, if you can't hold yourself, get out of any no sex relationship. She told you before you aaccepted to date her. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by xynerise: 5:49pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
elantraceey:Not cool. There is a primary and secondary purpose of going into a relationship with someone. I think there is now a tertiary purpose 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
force her btw,sex is overrated...don't overpush it...  1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by naijaboiy: 5:50pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
elantraceey:Easier said than done! Like I said before he shouldn't force her. But it's not bad if he applies some seduction...if she refuses then he should know that she's strong on her stance. I guess that's the solution the Op is looking for but nobody is giving it to him,,rather he's being bashed. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Mathematical(f): 5:51pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
xynerise:what's the tertiary purpose? |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by naijaboiy: 5:52pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
xynerise:Me sef no blame am o! Konji no be easy thing these days. I dey very sure say the guy no dey ein right senses when he agree to date her without sex. Now the thing don hold am 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Mathematical:nope  |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by xynerise: 5:54pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Mathematical:Erm....solve mathematics together 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Break Her To Agree To Sex??? by xynerise: 5:55pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Some guys Na sycophant na. Them go just dey form Mr. Nice guy for even crazy chics. 2 Likes |
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