₦airaland Forum

agoadiv:
wonderful nairalands,i just wanna go straight to the point...

av been dating dis gurl for sometimes now.before she accepted me,she told me to promise her dat if we get to date dat sex is outta de booki didn't promise but i rada promised her that i won't try sex until she agrees to it...and am de kind of guy that u can hold me by my word..



now i nid sex from her and i nid it like seriously and de vexation am passing through is dat when we have a heated conversation abt sex,at last wen am getting angry she just say 'NO SEX N REMEMBER, U WON'T FORCE ME TO DO IT' ....in my house ooo...







pls how do i convince her?do i force her?cos she comes to ma house regularly or do i just..............go with ur ideas??

zick19:
nope

xynerise:
Erm....solve mathematics together

Mathematical:
Hmm.the thing is you don't underestimate the power of internet ,thousands are seeing that piece you wrote.

xynerise:
Some agreement are sometimes made under duress, emotional duress in this context. My guy no wan lose the babe na

Mathematical:
Better

xynerise:
Some guys Na sycophant na. Them go just dey form Mr. Nice guy for even crazy chics.

Chai..and that's how they miss everything

That's why i'm always my true self o.

If the girl no like am make she find her way.

TrishaP:
Well true.. i think there are other better ways to tackle this issue if he knows he cant hold on for so long.

naijaboiy:
Chai..and that's how they miss everything

That's why i'm always my true self o.

If the girl no like am make she find her way.

naijaboiy:
Easier said than done!

Like I said before he shouldn't force her.

But it's not bad if he applies some seduction...if she refuses then he should know that she's strong on her stance.

I guess that's the solution the Op is looking for but nobody is giving it to him,,rather he's being bashed.

xynerise:
Suggest one

elantraceey:
he only looking for seduction styles

xynerise:
My brother na the thing o. Chai I remember when I was a sinner like you

Oga no tag am like that na

naijaboiy:
That's my point!

elantraceey:
oya give him na

Wetin I sabi

naijaboiy:
Oga no tag am like that na

ronald4lif:
A lady who is not ready for sex have no business being in a relationship. If she doesn't want it and you can't be in a no sex relationship move unto the next one.

jmoore:
Dating ain't mating.

ronald4lif:
It would have been great if you had differentiate the two; dating and mating. When you do we can have a logical discuss.

Just maybe marriage ain't mating as well. What do I know sha

jmoore:
Conjugal rights is for married folks. That's clear enough.

MrCork:
..SAY WOT??......she wunt giv u punnnny?.....in 2015??

....BRO..MA PROFESIONAL ADVISE??....collect all yor moiney back including petrol moiney!!!!

iceberylin:
Naija babes frustrating us since 1960

angelsing:
Must u have sex with her?....Would have love to teach u the best way to go about making her consent to having sex with u but it will be a bad thing for me to do that because its not right...wait for her till she is ready

elantraceey:
naija guys deceiving themselves since 190ad

naijaboiy:
Guy tell him what you know about it. It's his choice if he wants to have sex with his girlfriend.

The only bad thing I see is if he forces her.

Lovexme:


By the way, is she by any chance a virgin?