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Lateralmaths:
Submission?

Lateralmaths:
Pls explain further

5minsmadness:
Your thread on a husband's greatest weapon is still struggling to finish 1st page while this thread has reached page 6,and beyond and you still don't know what a woman's weapon is

EfemenaXY:
Are you insinuating that the working wife should spend her hard earned money to act / become the "safety deposit box" of the man's extended family? Despite her fully shouldering the responsiblity 100% of her nuclear family?


No am not driving to that shallow and awkward point. I asked what would be her resolve at the point when she now fully caters as she said she doesnt care what he does with his money.


And what would the broke ärsëd nigger be doing in the meantime? Acting the "head" and directing her on how and what to spend on his family while she submissively complies without a squeak?


Any sane man would be hustling to get back on his feet. To the latter of the above point, as i said earlier how would she approach the situation


This is unbelievable. Nigerian women in Naija don suffer.

Amhappy:
@Lateralmaths you are a good counsellor. However there are no two methods for everyone. A collegue told me a painful story of how her brother's wife died. She was this dovey loving,submissive and humble type to the extent that she was condoning her husband's bad behaviours ;infidelity and keeping late nights even to the dismay of her MIl and Sil. She saw it as a way to get into his heart and stop his bad ways. To cut the long story short,the husband mistress killed her and now he is married to that woman.

bukatyne:
Doe submission mean taking shits?

I think the problem is the definition of 'submission'

EnlightenedSoul:
Stooping to conquer what?

And why 'stoop'?

Amhappy:
@Lateralmaths you are a good counsellor. However there are no two methods for everyone. A collegue told me a painful story of how her brother's wife died. She was this dovey loving,submissive and humble type to the extent that she was condoning her husband's bad behaviours ;infidelity and keeping late nights even to the dismay of her MIl and Sil. She saw it as a way to get into his heart and stop his bad ways. To cut the long story short,the husband mistress killed her and now he is married to that woman.

EnlightenedSoul:
This isn't submission per se. It's unconditional love. The type of love OP seems to think men should emulate. Nail in the coffin: no one seems to realize that love, especially unconditional love, involves a great deal of...

*drumroll*

...submission.

Lateralmaths:
To find your husband's mumu button.

Lateralmaths:
you can't love without submitting

EnlightenedSoul:
So then what this about the wife's greatest weapon being submission,and the husbands greatest weapon is xtra xtupid submission?

Lateralmaths:
is that how you see it?

Lateralmaths:
To find your husband's mumu button.

Ewuro4:
They will never get it .... You're just going round in circles. Let them open their Pandora's Box when they eventually "get there" *wink*

EnlightenedSoul:
Mumu = xtupid??

Lateralmaths:
it means he can do stupid things for you.

Lateralmaths:

Ewuro4:
Aghhh.. Round and around he goes again



You no dey tire ??

Lateralmaths:
winners never quit and quitters never win.

Lateralmaths:
it means he can do stupid things for you.

anthoniaz:
I get everything in return.

EfemenaXY:
Like?

Lateralmaths:
To find your husband's mumu button.