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Being heartbroken is a pain that no one can understand until
they have experienced it for themselves. You obviously
have, therefore are aware of how fragile your heart is right
now. Healing a broken heart will take time, but is not
impossible, though it may feel that way at the time. It is
never an easy process to go through, but with the right
prescription, you will be on your way to recovery and
happiness again.
The first thing you should keep in mind is that it is okay to
feel sad and grieve about what happened and that you are
not stupid for doing so. It is perfectly normal to feel sad and
cry after a break up. You have invested most of your time
and all of your love and interest into your ex-partner;
therefore will go through a sad and painful withdrawal. It is
notable that you not grieve all on your own. Sure, there will
be times when you will just want to be alone and
undisturbed. However, it is important that you talk to your
friends and family about it. Talking about it is not only
healthy, but will mend your heart quicker because you will
release the thoughts and facts that are hurting you so
much. Seeking professional advice will be a great help to
you as well because your mind will open up and see new
perspectives and understandings of what happened. It will
help you gather your strength, pick yourself up, and find the
happiness you deserve to have.
Accepting the fact that you and your ex-partner are no
longer together is a necessity if you are going to start
mending your broken heart. If you catch yourself unable to
function due to constantly thinking about your ex or
repeatedly calling or visiting him or her for another chance,
then chances are you are suffering from love addiction and
should seek counseling. Discontinuing a serious relationship
is emotionally challenging and can drive you to do things
that are unhealthy for your self-being. To avoid entering
such hazardous areas, keep yourself occupied. Go out with
your friends and family to help get your mind off the break
up. It is best to spend as less time alone as you can in the
first few weeks of your breakup so that your emotions can
slowly and patiently form back into their normal pattern.
Fight the thoughts that tell you that you are a failure and are
to blame for the end of your relationship. When a
relationship ends it means that the two of you were no
longer compatible and that always takes two, not just you.
Instead of beating yourself up over what has transpired,
examine your ex-relationship by listing the things you
enjoyed most about it and then the things that disappointed
you and what you believe really caused the breakup. Look
at the relationship as a learning experience and an
opportunity to improve your relationship skills, and a way to
realize what you truly need and want from a romantic
relationship.

Time heals a broken heart.

It really hurts. Esp when the other partner stops loving you. You feel like shit

Cry your eyes out. Pamper yourself. Mourn the loss. Pamper yourself. Don't try to forget the person enjoy the memories the good the bad and the ugly. Forgive yourself for whatever. Keep company with peeps you know love you.

Don't forget to drink a lot of water to replenish yourself.

Uniquexty:
It really hurts. Esp when the other partner stops loving you. You feel like shit

dat really true.... it hurts like hell

andromida:
Cry your eyes out. Pamper yourself. Mourn the loss. Pamper yourself. Don't try to forget the person enjoy the memories the good the bad and the ugly. Forgive yourself for whatever. Keep company with peeps you know love you.

Don't forget to drink a lot of water to replenish yourself.

when it happens all dat will be like nufin.... make girl no try to brk my small hrt abeg....

Henrybright:
when it happens all dat will be like nufin.... make girl no try to brk my small hrt abeg....

Heart break can be a good thing if you go through it not shut down. It can cleanse you, show you different parts of you and when you finally over it you will feeeeeel goooood and be more.

andromida:
Heart break can be a good thing if you go through it not shut down. It can cleanse you, show you different parts of you and when you finally over it you will feeeeeel goooood and be more.

true but d pain is always too much

Henrybright:
true but d pain is always too much

Well you know how its said no pain, no gain.

andromida:
Well you know how its said no pain, no gain.

lolz.... well I guess i ve gained den

I listen to music and workout... Watch my collections of Charlie chaplain and laff my balls off...

that's my own medicine for hearthbeaks

HSinclair:
I listen to music and workout... Watch my collections of Charlie chaplain and laff my balls off...

that's my own medicine for hearthbeaks

nice medicine you have der... I guess it works Well for u

Henrybright:
nice medicine you have der... I guess it works Well for u

Sure

HSinclair:
Sure

will contact u incase I'm of hrtbrk in future.. lolz

Heartbreak ko heartbreak ni...when there is #20 superglue

Vibra:
Heartbreak ko heartbreak ni...when there is #20 superglue

Lol