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human beings are fashioned with Hurry and Impatience when it comes to this kind of issue.

I agree with the fact that both are very important in a Relationship, but I tell u, Love carries 80% importance.

what people fail to realise is you need both at different times and unfortunately one cannot substitute the other. when what you need is Love, millions of dollars cannot fetch u that and when taking care of needs come in, thousands of affection makes no sense at that point.

if u ever think money can buy you love...u must be a joker lol. the closest thing money can get you is a Confused State of Emotional Mirage.

Like 6 girls claimed to suddenly love me in the first week I got a job, in fact one of them started calling me every morning by 6am to shower me with early morning prayers (lol...smart girl), one would think a wife material has arrived, to my surprise I lost d job and they all dramatically disappeared as though Rapture had taken place.

Place priority on Love, find it. money will come anyway, provided you are hardworking.

Both re very important... Money can't feel the place of love, but in our contemporary society today, we av put money for d place of love.

Money comes first only when your partner is the greedy type. There's definitely something wrong with someone's character/values when money has to take a center stage in r/ships.
But then, if money is it for your partner then there's still someone else out there to run after who has much money than you. So, how much money do you need to hold on to such a partner.
With love, there are no much stories.

Both re very important. Infact dey re interwoven together

maxism2:
Love for myself and everyone around me. What more do you need when you know that love is the most powerful and universal thing. Materialistic things are ego based and are really illusions

if dis is all u have to say den d reality of life neva jam u like trailer to okada...

Dose of u people saying money is more important,if u like cari all ur moni give d girl and her family.yes I agree moni is important bt it can't buy love bt attention,a relationship dat is based on moni wither wen d moni is no longer coming,bt wen dere's true love even wen d moni is no longer dere d love will be d only tin keeping d relationship moving.d problem is dat most nigerian girls so much believe dat a man shuld do all d spending while she gives him love and sex dats her only contribution.dere's still true love out dere let's jst pray dat God gives us d rite woman.

sexyseun:
For me i do believe in love, love make all seem perfect, love births happiness, joy and relatively success.
Ask most successful people, they were loved by devoted women, no wonder they say: behind every successful man there's a woman. Money will surely come, that's for sure, except of course you fall in love with a lazy man/woman

please you were making sense before you spoilt it with most successful men they were loved by a woman...please you don't need to be loved by a man or woman to be successful...my bible says no one shall receive anything unless its is given from above..that you tie men success to womens love is very unfair..to be successful in life..u need God,intelligence,hardwork,grace and sone luck...please stop this behind every successful man there is a woman fallacy

money all the way, may God bless us with money, wt out money no love oooooo, if at all there is true love wt out money wt time it will expired!, money florish love.

MONEY Oh / Glories !

The bible says money/Glories answereth everything.

So Glories.

Surprising enough, so many of us here saying money is more important are in a relationship without "money"in our pockets or bank accounts yet we are enjoying the love and cares our gf and bf are showing to us. Let me put this question to us, If money is that important in a relationship why are our celebrities afraid to get married or are either divorcing or breaking up everyday? Guess Ur answers are the same as mine. When true love is there without money, both partners will strive to ensure that the other element which is money is available in other to make the relationship exciting. Of course we all know the different stories or histories of most great men today, esp the US president, he ws nothing yet his wife stuck with him. The fact that there are many gold diggers today that makes us think that money is more important does not mean that there is no true love out there. There are so many happy people in relationships and marriages out there that has no money yet they are living well and even if there is lack of finances external members of the family will never know because of the way they handle the issue with love likewise people living having all the millions in relationships and marriages yet no peace, no happiness and no joy in the home. The people getting married everyday, are they the only people with money? I am not saying that money is not important but what am saying is that with love couples can live a happy life, they can work together to make the money available. U can never buy love with money, never. U can never buy happiness with money. Because the moment the money starts dwindling then the so called love bought with money follows suit...

love is important, but money is what is needed mostly, if money nor dey love nor go dey like DAT. I bet most people will say its love. my dear love grows, u cant just develop it ones, u have to work towards it. so wen dere is excess of money in marriage or relationship d love u tout has died will start to develop. money is more important.

Ideally, love should supercede money, but with what I see, read and have experienced myself, Money sure does buy love.
Not too long ago, a topic made FP about how an abroad returnee met his doom in the hands of a jilted lover, after dating the bride for 10years.

What it should be?? Love > Money.
What is currently obtainable?? Money > Love.

Note: this goes for both gender.

Without money, love doesn't make sense, money complement your love life. If you are married, you need money to show love to your woman, I swear without money, love will fade away, poverty makes people mad, jealous, irrational, diabolical, unreasonable and all the mental disorientation faced today among men.

Just to cut it, money is needed to express love, without it, love dies with no burial rites. Please, the time of love alone has passed, make money and your love life will be bearable. Women of this generation needs money, if you don't have it, keep chasing it, when you found it, don't loose it or else...

I knew it most indomie generation will go for money makes d world goes round...buh l wonder if dey really know d meaning of love! Well, in d creation of d world God does not create adam with money but craete eve to be his companion and love, if money were so important in relationship God wld av send Adam down to d world wit money but he send love cod he knws tru love makes d world goes round....tru love seize to exist any more due to our impatience and greediness.

#j.wizard...

misshoree:
Money can buy everything but not happiness and love brings about Happiness.I will choose love over money

i'm damn broke babe will u give me a chance??

dublinkmy6:
Money comes first only when your partner is the greedy type. There's definitely something wrong with someone's character/values when money has to take a center stage in r/ships.
But then, if money is it for your partner then there's still someone else out there to run after who has much money than you. So, how much money do you need to hold on to such a partner.
With love, there are no much stories.

nice one. There is still someone out there with more money......

Both are very important

14DUI:
Without money, love doesn't make sense, money complement your love life. If you are married, you need money to show love to your woman, I swear without money, love will fade away, poverty makes people mad, jealous, irrational, diabolical, unreasonable and all the mental disorientation faced today among men.

Just to cut it, money is needed to express love, without it, love dies with no burial rites. Please, the time of love alone has passed, make money and your love life will be bearable. Women of this generation needs money, if you don't have it, keep chasing it, when you found it, don't loose it or else...

oga, how much money do u need to keep ur woman? So u must have how much to keep ur supposedly girl? Abeg tell us the amount so that I go go find am too to keep mine..

Both are very important, but money superseed

valmunich:
The two are important

womanish brain

you can say all you want, all i know is, Love is stronger than money. QED

misshoree:
Money can buy everything but not happiness and love brings about Happiness.I will choose love over money

fable

In this age. Money buys love.

I will always chose love when I find her.

If Money is more important thy do we have lots of celeb marriages crash landing within few months/yrs of marriage

Money ll only help to live a materially convinient life

Love is very much needed to bound you both for money to play it part.

What money can do in a relationship is numerous. The only reason a 20 year girl can marry an "elder" is just for his money. The reason why girls fall inlove with a stranger is also just for money. Money answereth all.

The most important and pursue of everyone in life is happiness and it can only be gotten through LOVE. Out of LOVE is out of PEACE! Money is important but not above LOVE!

sexyseun:
For me i do believe in love, love make all seem perfect, love births happiness, joy and relatively success.
Ask most successful people, they were loved by devoted women, no wonder they say: behind every successful man there's a woman. Money will surely come, that's for sure, except of course you fall in love with a lazy man/woman

now you see where the love crumbles, how do you fall in love with a lazyman/woman, what's you definition? Exactly what you will start calling him when the money is not coming again. So where is your love?

Sarimah:
The both are very important but love comes first before money..

Wat will I gain if I marry a very rich man I have no feelings for and be unhappy for the rest of my life?

Story teller. Stop decieving urself

Money rules the world. Money controls everything. Without money you can not even have the best of love from your girlfriend or even wife. Give her the fruits of money. There you will get the best fruits of love .

The word Love no matter the context you use it is more important than money, God is Love,Love is God. therefore God is important than money, God gives money,God is Love

jdbrasco:
Story teller. Stop decieving urself

you're actually d one deceiving yourself