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I gat a friend who nothing like games, women, movies or anything in this world interest him, I tried asking what's wrong bt he keeps saying nothing. Pls what you think could be the problem and the solution to it

He needs to see a therapist before he harms himself.

He refused going out of his room

How close are u to this guy?

missberrypop5:
How close are u to this guy?

very close more like bestie

That's what you know about him, there might be other things about him that you don't know. My thought though is that he has a secret habit that's taken a hold of him. Ask him questions, and look for help for him before he dies of depression

You said nothing in this world interest him, so what has he been doing with his life?

cloudyskyglind:
That's what you know about him, there might be other things about him that you don't know. My thought thought is that he has a secret habit that's taken a hold of him. Ask him questions, and look for help for him before he dies of depression

hmmmm wat could it be

Fineboi2:
very close more like bestie

i asked because people who acts that way are usually those with so much stuff going on in their heads, he may be in a very big mess, that he doesn't want u to know. But has he always been that way, or he suddenly turned depressed?

Fineboi2:
hmmmm wat could it be

That's for you to find out., how old is he?

missberrypop5:
i asked because people who acts that way are usually those with so much stuff going on in their heads, he may be in a very big mess, that he doesn't want u to know. But has he always been that way, or he suddenly turned depressed?

suddenly

Fineboi2:
I gat a friend who nothing like games, women, movies or anything in this world interest him, I tried asking what's wrong bt he keeps saying nothing. Pls what you think could be the problem and the solution to it

Sometimes, an escape from the outside world is a good thing.... leave him alone

cloudyskyglind:
That's for you to find out., how old is he?

clocking 20

Enegod:
Sometimes, an escape from the outside world is a good thing.... leave him alone

hmmmm

He needs to be loved, I mean genuine love

After that pray for him

Fineboi2:
suddenly

then he is in a very big mess, probably he doesn't want u to know, and that problem is weighing him down, making him lack interest in things, so u as a friend, try to make him build confidence in u, and ask him what the problem is. U are the one to help him, as a good friend.

Abi I should try getting him a gal

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Cloudyskyglind you're like MTN ( Everywhere you go )

Well, impressive contribution of urs and I buy the ideal of urs, about the guy, having a secret untold... @Op, I think you really need to invite third party into this case "Maybe a therapist...

cloudyskyglind:
That's what you know about him, there might be other things about him that you don't know. My thought though is that he has a secret habit that's taken a hold of him. Ask him questions, and look for help for him before he dies of depression

since he changed suddenly, definitely, stuffs are on his mind. dig into his family, health, sexual relationship (if he had any). these might be pointers to his problem identification and ways to solving them.

laidian:
since he changed suddenly, definitely, stuffs are on his mind. dig into his family, health, sexual relationship (if he had any). these might be pointers to his problem identification and ways to solving them.

ah will

Fineboi2:
clocking 20

It's a young age, and a very vulnerable age aswell. Ask him like you mean it to confide in you as a dear friend. If he refuses, I'm assuming you're both students? In any case, invite he's people unknown to him. Tell either he's mother, elderly siblings or father. He might not like it But you are Looking out for a friend.

You should try talking to him like everything is fine. Don't advise him like a father, share past experiences, ask him to walk you to an eatery or bukka or whatever. Try to distract him till you feel he's more open then ask again. if it looks too bad, find a family member he respects and explain to the person

pinkycute:
Cloudyskyglind you're like MTN ( Everywhere you go )

Well, impressive contribution of urs and I buy the ideal of urs, about the guy, having a secret untold... @Op, I think you really need to invite third party into this case "Maybe a therapist...

Hello Pinkycute haha, that's my super power- I'm everywhere the difference between MTN and I is that I'm a better quality

Hahahaha I guess you're right ( No doubt )

Well, keep it up

cloudyskyglind:
Hello Pinkycute haha, that's my super power- I'm everywhere the difference between MTN and I is that I'm a better quality

Probably he is in his cave. U can't force him 2 come out. He will come out and become vocal/social.

So for now, LEAVE HIM ALONE.