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[b]Nairalanders pls advise me,there is this godly n beautiful Damsel I met about 7 years ago. I met her through a friend then when she needed an assistance to make her further her education. I eventually gave her the needed money(although against my friends'advice as they insisted I sleep with her before helping her,but I refused and I didn't later tell them that I helped her. The lady managed to get an ND cert and thereafter joined the Army. However,since then, this lady has grown to like me and I like her too,as we have become close pals. I wanted to date her some years back but then she had a boyfriend,but now she's single and I'm thinking of marrying her. The problem is she's presently doing a course that will last for close to three years,meaning that she can't get pregnant until after the programme and we won't be leaving together cos we stay in different states,but I can be visiting her and we would be seeing each other . I really need your mature n godly advice. I like this girl. I really want to marry this year and she wants to marry too. I've a job. Can I still go ahead and marry her?[/b]

[color=#000044]PATIENCE
Go ahead,give it a try if you are sure you are ready[/color]

Of course yes; or you want kids ASAP?

Man...Be patience

And that's it

I suggest peach and any other color/colors as the case may be for the theme of the wedding

Marry her...3 years isn't too long to wait or you are marrying her solely to give you a child?

Marry her... itz far better

Marry her asap...u are really lucky cos that's what I plan to do when am married...first 2-3yrs is for me and my wife alone before the kids start coming

You can go ahead,but won't the absence of intimacy cause some gap that can affect the marriage,since u will not be staying together?

Odillz:
[color=#000044]Who says she can't get pregnant from one or two shots?
Go ahead,give it a try if you are sure you are ready[/color]

what is dis one saying? Can't you read what the op wrote? He said she joined the army so most likely the course she is doing needs her peak physical ability and does not call for pregnancy...

dejhigh:
what is dis [size=16pt]one[/size] saying? Can't you read what the op wrote? He said she joined the army so most likely the course she is doing needs her peak physical ability and does not call for pregnancy...

Don't you ever,even in a dream refer to anybody with that .
Correct me,not insult me

conji na baastard

kallmemrB:
Marry her asap...u are really lucky cos that's what I plan to do when am married...first 2-3yrs is for me and my wife alone before the kids start coming

Heya! One's junk is another man's poison. Thanks for your contribution

Thanks everyone for your respective contributions. I really appreciate your sincere efforts.