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theres this friend of mine whom i am very close to.we are best of friends.we do things together,go for lectures together and stuff like that.then a girl joined through pre degree in school.he claimed they were cousins and i fell for it.we began talking,became friends and started goining out together.

I really began to like her and eventually i asked her out and she agreed claiming that she also liked me but didnt know how to approach me.after nearly five months i got the most shocking news,my friend who claimed he was lolas cousin(the girl) was lying.they were actually dating.i got really angry but decided to play along

i dont know what to do because i really love this girl that i still take her shopping and do other stuff for her and as for my friend,our friendship is so strong,we made our parents friends also and my dad supplies his dad the cars his they sell.

The funny thing is when we are with other guys and we are whining each other about our girlfriends,when they are whining me,he also whines me so i dont know what he is trying to do.he also has siblings but she doesnt even relate with them as cousins at all

i love this girl badly
nairalanders what should i do?

Have you confronted the girl in question?

Just let it go.

Live is not a fight...

does e knws u guyz r datin?

How old you be sef?

pasqal09:
Have you confronted the girl in question?

yh

pasqal09:
Have you confronted the girl in question?

yh..but she might be telling him something else

pasqal09:
Have you confronted the girl in question?

not yet

First, take correction that you don't love her: you're obsessed with her.
Love is not a feeling. It doesn't exist. Use your money for something good. How many textbooks do you have? How many pet projects and research come into your mind (I guess it's 0: only that obsession with a girl you barely know outside school)? How many good investments do you have? Guy, think. When do you plan to become less financially dependent? What can be the benefit of your relationship with her?

Question

itzWarner:
How old you be sef?

im 21

My fwend, u just av 2 carri go... If ur time don knack 12: 0 clock and u tink say na to 9 : 30, my friend u don enta gau b dat ooo.

All am sayin in essence is that, you just have to free the gurl and move on.

mayorjosh:
im 21

Eyah you're still few months older than me but that doesn't mean you sharp pass me sha....anyway,
Be wise
Huzzle
Have fun
Your heart is too precious to be mishandled by any yeye girl,keep having fun when d right time comes you'll find the right girl

itzWarner:
Eyah you're still few months older than me but that doesn't mean you sharp pass me sha....anyway,
Be wise
Huzzle
Have fun
Your heart is too precious to be mishandled by any yeye girl,keep having fun when d right time comes you'll find the right girl

thanks for the encouraging

ronald4lif:
Nwanyi awka si na ife erika!

This one is truly much. You love her your cousin prolly loves her too. Either or the both of you should let go of her. A woman shouldn't put two relatives at loggerheads with each other, not worth it. You sacrifice and let go if your bro isn't ready to

bro pls re read to understand

in that trio u r d dumbest. you don't have a problem with the girl but you are here complaining about your guy and how close you are. you are in "love" with a girl who together with her bf is playing you for a fool and you can still open that your dirty mouth to say you are in "lof".

anyway the girl is trash so is the guy but the guys code explicitly states that the any girl is dispensable unless she is your wife or you are fuxking her. if u r not straffing her, your guy is so all this talk of lof is just foolishness. your eye go clear I'm no time. if you are fuxking her then pls go about that manly duty in silence. play the fool. ask questions only if she decides to stop

May hot you if I advice you to quit!
Such has happened to me, (truly). But I never thought either you have this urge I have 'that I won't break up with my male friend (most especially my best friend) because of a lady coming between us! I think you should just quit the relationship with the lady and let go, even if the lady insist don't even give her a smiling face on that, because you need to figure out something within human that they can change, if you insist then what 'll happen when by tomorrow she said it's over and may be you've break up with you male (best) friend? It's more honorable in this case to loose the lady than your best friend (to me), your friend can make an amend later, but in the case where your friend is having an affairs with the lady and at the time you're having too, does it make a reasonable sense? Or haven't you thought of it that something crucial or harmful can befell either of you friends (beliefs)? I advice you stay clear with her even if she insist don't pay attention to her any more..