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I see talk of it regularly here. Women are sick of being approached. They put on a blank face, go into autopilot excuse mode, or some get downright nasty with a guy!

Because I never get approached, I don't know what this is like. I remember when I was working with a trainer at the gym, he made an offhand comment about how me being a lady, I ought to wear a hat, pull up my hoodie, and put my headphones on to avoid getting bothered. I just smiled and nodded and thanked him, I didn't have the heart to tell him that nobody was bothering me at the gym in the first place.

I was at a coffee shop today. There was a man sitting at a table reading, and one woman in line in front of me.

As soon as she paid for her order and went to stand and wait for it, the man got and went to talk to her.

He wasn't doing anything strange or unpleasant, but she clearly wanted nothing to do with it. She was being polite but short with her responses. He just kept right on talking and asking her questions.

She kept averting her eyes and looking at me, making very strong eye contact and I realized it was a bit of a "help me" look. I smiled at her as an invitation, and she then turned the conversation to me, and asked me a question. I laughed and smiled and answered her, and it turned into a 3 way convo until her drink came. She quickly grabbed her drink, said bye to us and left.

The man didn't bother continuing to talk with me and sat back down immediately.

I wish I could find out what it was about her that inspired that man to walk up to her. I had a very similar experience in the same coffee shop last year. 2 men were sitting outside, when I walked up I smiled at them and went inside. A different woman walked in a minute later, and one of the men got up and followed her inside to chat with her. She politely talked and then he went back outside. As I was leaving the shop, I saw him trying to chat up another woman who had recently walked up.

When I see women getting approached in public, I try to watch and learn something. I feel like I'm still missing some key component.

Men, what makes or breaks a decision to approach a woman?

valkaka:
When I see women getting approached in public, I try to watch and learn something. I feel like I'm still missing some key component.

Do you have ar.se?

I think ur village people are to be suspected, I can help u if only u can bring the following the liver of a cockroach, the brain of a mosquito and d last but not the least, the teeth of a day old ant

u should also bring the tooth of a crocodile, the heart of a lion, a virgin fly and 2000 blue cowries under the atlantic ocean

I strongly suspect it has something to do with the aura you exude. Check yourself sweerrie, attitude wise. Do you frown often?
Or it could be spiritual ooo

First of all, the op is clearly demented
His moniker says male while he is referring to himself as a female in his post

After you all will say that myself and that hoe nneka123 are guys pretending to be ladies
This guy is doing in your faces and no one is saying anything

Chai!!!

Seriousbabe doesn't have anything to comment on this confused topic

Peace

Even so called ugly babes still get attention from men.

Gobe

WHERE MEN DERIVE INSPIRATION ?

not much,just bit a of weed, a little orijin and 2 sachets of EXOL-5

I have met alot of women but have only approached one. Ever!

WEED