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7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
If you are a lady and you're still unsure whether being with a younger guy is a good idea or not, then read these interesting points below and think again. . . Nigerian women are known to be very respectful to their men especially when he is older. Hence, being with a younger man is not something they'd normally do. Aside from the respect issue, there's a mild stigma attached to "mature" women dating younger guys, because they are regarded as desperate and so lonely that they would settle for a "child". But honestly, that was then. Times have changed! Ladies are now stepping out of that old-fashioned school of thought and going for happiness. If you are a lady and you're still unsure whether being with a younger guy is a good idea or not, then read these interesting points below and think again: 1. He has more energy — and his influence might make you healthier and more productive: Maybe you want to sleep in until 2 p.m. on a lazy Sunday, but he wants to get up, make eggs, run some errands at Shoprite, and have sex with you for 1,000 hours and/or until your vagina Can't Even! 2. He's less cynical: Unless he's had an especially soul- crushing unpaid internship, he's probably got some beautiful illusions about his promising place in the workforce. And we both know you can use some positivity in your life. 3. He's eager to please sexually: Not only has he got the energy thing on his side, but it's unlikely that he'll be a selfish lover. You're like the Mrs. Robinson he has to sexually prove himself to! He will listen and possibly take notes! Whatever tips you suggest to him will be imprinted on his unformed brain and carried over to all future relationships. With great power comes great responsibility. 4. He is at least partly into you because you impress him: Being the older woman means, among other things, that you are independent, smart, and have your act together. And rather than this being intimidating, it turns him on. 5. He's okay with letting you call the shots: For instance: During sex, Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey listen to ... wait for it ... Mariah Carey! When it comes down to it, you're the alpha dog in the relationship. Because you're the grown-up, and grown-ups know better. Well, kind of. 6. He's more likely to take advice from you without letting it bruise his ego: For instance, he knows you are more familiar than he is with the job search, so he listens when you suggest that, maybe he shouldn't use Comic Sans for his resume font, and stuff like that. 7. He won't judge you for quitting a job you hate, traveling around Europe, or making some other random quarter-life detour: While someone a little older might worry that you're veering off the path you should stay on, a young guy will encourage you to keep following your dreams to become a hand model or an artist or whatever else you want to be. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by iceberylin(m): 5:11pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
13yrs old niggaz be like |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by santos876(m): 5:18pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
apart 4rm d first point"him avin energy,d rest aren't gud enough.click like if ur n support |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Allureoftheseas(m): 5:18pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
no 4 sure is right, that turns me on in dating older girls. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by falconey(m): 5:20pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
affidavit on my mind |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:23pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Team older guys . How young do you mean though? 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 5:24pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
falconey:Hehehehe |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 5:27pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:Am not so sure ur mind is made up! with d question u ask Its inconclusive decision |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 5:28pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
But wait o Dating older women means being control by dem too! am i right? |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:32pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Kennywills7:It depends on how young the poster meant. Younger like,in the early or late thirties. or. in the early or late twenties. Pple date guys around forty and fifty you know. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 5:37pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:Yeah i understand ur point however am sure he is just referring to someone u are older than Meaning can u date someone u are older than? |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:39pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Kennywills7:Oh no.Definetly not. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 5:41pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:Dats d point |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Kennywills7:Sure |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:48pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Kennywills7:you should at least be older the girl with 2years, i didn't mean the lady should be older than you.... Hope you dude understands now.... Before i gat eaten up. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
iceberylin:lols, i didn't include age.... But if you 13, you can date 20 if possible, all we call love in the name of God. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 5:52pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
[quote author=MeshackMiles post=30575398] you should at least be older the girl with 2years, i didn't mean the lady should be older than you.... Hope you dude understands now.... Before i gat eaten up.[/quote Bro we are talking about girls dating younger dudes |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:when i said younger, i didn't mean guys on the early twenties, i mean on the early thirtys... |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:58pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
MeshackMiles:Early thirties is just perfect. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 5:58pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
[quote author=Kennywills7 post=30575522][/quote] year, girls dating younger guys, but i didn't really mean they lady should be older than you because if she is, she might come around one day and start laying orders with unnecessary value, but to no avail relationship might turn to breakup, so the lady should be around 32, while the itz 34 all still we all young |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:00pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:itz a perfect timing, instead being twenties, still you don't know what to do or make the right decisions, but those around thirties can think more than those around twenties, and also smarter than em too... |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 6:01pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
MeshackMiles:I get ur point bro No one want to find himself in a situation whereby ur suppose gf/partner will b shouting at u or u taking orders from her |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:04pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
MeshackMiles:And more mature in good places.Though age doesn't define level of smartness,but majority of the older ones are smarter. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:04pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Kennywills7:lemme say sugar mummies wahala, and also, there are some homies that good at this stuff of dating, like dating women older than em, because they been in it, and can dope em very good, and at the end! They end up losing their life, or got chased by night watchers lols... (Last statement not that cool huh?) |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:06pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:like when i once heard a parable which says... An old man sitting down can see what a young man standing on a mountain can not see... |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Chidonc(m): 6:06pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
My girlfrnd is older than me by 4yrs, there is nothing wrong wit datin an older woman, if u luv her, go 4 her, it not a sin oh, infact d older she is, the less ur headache so dat we won't b seeing threads like a 16yr old girl poured acid on her lover. |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:07pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
MeshackMiles:Lol. Vision |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:09pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Chidonc:lols, yo man, you gat a point, do you know women older than men can reason more than the men, beside they know the positive and the negative in a relationship, like if i do this, i might lose him, or if i scream at him, he might feel bad... So they've have a sense of humor, but not all women, you know that!! 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 6:09pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
MeshackMiles:Hehehehe bro u sabi d link o |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:11pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
dovelike:but you know it kinda make sense, but somehow in the other way, older women are good, while younger dudes are cool, they'll ride and ride, till party is over... |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Kennywills7(m): 6:11pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Chidonc:Yeah u hv a point there |
Re: 7 Reasons To Date A Younger Guy by Nobody: 6:13pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
MeshackMiles:Older women are not good. |
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