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bukatyne:
Read the OP again and she ain't advocating for divorce...

She listed the points of anti and pro divorce and drew up her own conclusions..

I think the Topic is just for sensationalism

ileobatojo:
I agree about the sensationalism bit but I think lord reed was addressing some of those pros.

bukatyne:
Read the OP again and she ain't advocating for divorce...

She listed the points of anti and pro divorce and drew up her own conclusions..

I think the Topic is just for sensationalism

ileobatojo:
I agree about the sensationalism bit but I think lord reed was addressing some of those pros.

bukatyne:


You could type that yourself

LordReed:
My computer was frustrating me

LordReed:
What a stewpid thought! We need more workplace accidents to teach people how to be safe at work? We need more traffic accidents to teach people how to drive well? We need more thefts so people can learn to be more security conscious?

Whatever happened to plain ol' instruction and leadership by example? The call for more failure in other to highlight successful patterns is the most stewpid I have ever heard.

bukatyne:
You must be a mind reader to know What I believe and What I don't.

Ephesians you quoted said wives submit, husbands love...

You said women of today try switching roles I.e. them loving and men submitting...

I asked for practical examples

A man that had worked so hard brought his much younger wife here to Germany, when they come to church the wife was so rude to the man, perhaps because she was better educated. I quickly grabbed hold of her and drew her aside. I warned her that her husband was respected in this community and if she ever tried it again where I was I would shred her to bits. Foolish girl!

These greedy bitches accept a man they do not love and are ashamed of just to get out of Nigeria and then they want to ruin the man.
Do you know that these men have worked so hard for so many years! Received all kinds of insults from society and then you bring this young girl and she gives you the final insult to let you know you are = 0.
How many of them come here with nothing and soon the man is out of his own home on the streets and having to pay maintenance.
When the study in America, they are able to do so because the man brought them there.
Nursing is not even a good paying job, like any menial job you can gather money if you work enough hours. While they are at work they cannot perform as wife`s so of what use is the work if it does not benefit the family?

No matter how educated or how much money they have a woman must humble herself and treat her husband with the utmost respect in all situations. That is not just good for the man but also for the children. The children are raised in an environment where the learn respect and manners.
That is what you get when a man that has struggled for years gets dragged into the mud in his own home. A man that has struggled and faced discrimination and abuse outside. Treat him like a king at home so that he can feel like the man he is, that will give him the strength to keep struggling.
Instead these women get rude, function like they don`t have a family, neglect the welfare of their husbands and homes
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Islie:
When you have nothing to live for, then you have everything to die for!

The fact that it keeps happening shows that the men are not all suddenly going mad.



Those are some examples
When you want to take over the head ship of the family,
When you can use your mouth and ego to underline is headship
When you believe there is nothing he can do

bukatyne:
You are leaving me more confused...

The quoted post is that of a rude wife (again subject to interpretation because I do not think a rude person would easily take to corrections)

Are you implying that rudeness is the characteristics of the 'head'? Was she behaving like the 'head'?

Islie:
Someone becomes rude when he doesn't acknowledge the headship position
Someone becomes rude when she believes she there is a role reversal and she can't take words, advice and line of actions from you

Am sure you understand role reversal but you just winning me.
When the wife wants to take the headship from the husband