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Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

first offs..are they siblings and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.

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Separate them and ask each of them who taught who to do it. Ask the teacher where they learn't it from before you tell their parents. You need to get to the root of who the abuser is so that they can get the person arrested. Someone abused one of those kids, or they saw their parents doing it.

OP if u love dem, tel der parents. Try get close 2d kids & know wat de c,read and how der parents relate wt dem all round.

The parents may be ashamed of themselves if u speak to them. seeing this befall them , they may feel guilty of failing to lead the kids in the "proper way" and recall it each time they see u. I sugest u have a bit of patience in telling and rather talk to the kids about the enormity of thier shameful action and warn them not to ever do it again or thier parents will certainly be informed. It could be thier parents do it in thier presence, it could be they saw it somewhere else etc. If the girl is the elder, talk to her sternly and paint a picture of public disgrace over such act and let them know satan gets into bad kids minds to perpetuate such morbid act and ask her how she enjoys satan dwelling in her heart. Pray for them.

You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

You shouldn't have flogged them, just drag them at that very moment to their parents, let them deal with them, the way they deem fit, by that your conscience will be cleared, by bringing the inglorious act to the parents attention.

Tell their parents

No need to think about it. Jst go straight and tell their parents. But u shudnt av flogged dem

misfab:
first offs..are they siblings and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.

because dey wia caught abi? What abt d ones dat are at large enjoying demselves.

Bros since u don flog and punish dem, just forget am but warn dem seriously abt d consequences of a repeat.

Also debrief dem abt d ills of what dey are doing, tell dem why its wrong. Cite scriptures and d health implication.

In future doz kids will love and respect u. Dey will as well trust u.

mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

what do you mean by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i know that you are a teenager,grow up

If u re a vag"in go ahead and report them

Toktee:
what do you me by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i knw that you are a teanager,grow up

How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

OP, what exactly did you see? I'm just asking because many times people do not think before they speak.

Toktee:
what do you me by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i knw that you are a teanager,grow up

Why do you feel that you could put your hands on someone else's kid? Not only could you go to jail for that, you might end up with your own ass whooping before you go to jail

misfab:
first offs..are they siblings and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.

they re nt siblings.

tolugar:
If u re a vag"in go ahead and report them

be serious!! no matter hw bad/holy i claim to be it does nt affect de fact dat dey re still very young

Vision4God:
OP if u love dem, tel der parents. Try get close 2d kids & know wat de c,read and how der parents relate wt dem all round.

de parents might attact me directly/indirectly. I knw de kind of pple dey re.
They two families carry Church foundations 4 head

Holywizard:
they re nt siblings.

So they are children from two different neighbors? I still think you should tell the parents. It's funny how you have no problem hitting someone else's child but you are afraid to tell their parents of their behavior.

soulglo:
So they are children from two different neighbors? I still think you should tell the parents. It's funny how you have no problem hitting someone else's child but you are afraid to tell their parents of their behavior.

if on a very gud day i touched de kids when they're on de right path eeeh...and they reported it to their parents. Hell will loose on the entire street because dey will nt try 2 hunt me down only, but make sure everybody start seeing me as a child abuser

mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

who else read this bulcrap

mutter:
This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

Tufiakwa! You paint inccest in such a mild light.
Do not attribute such an abominable act to curiosity.

put yourself in the parents shoe...there you go, you have your answer

its right to no move they of the same parent that make it two

its there right to no. more over they are of the same parent that make it two

It happens. No surprises.

congratulation!

Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

Holywizzard or whitch, first off, I’d like to
congratulate
you for penning an eye catching title
there. ;o)I’ve volunteered in SE DC before, I
know exactly what you’re talking about.what
size is d kid boy d!ck?may be bigger than u think

sex position? standing $peepin or goat stye

Who are these 'You shouldnt have flooged them' people

Op...Go ahead and involve their parents

I was part of a bible club holiday teaching for children of primary school age
It baffled me when these children started dropping condoms, pornography, etc after different sections of counselling.
The confessions were

[size=14pt]10 and 13! forget, these ones don spoil finish...

possible causes: Natural naughtiness, someone forgot bluefilm in the dvd, careless parents having sex, houseboy/housegirl teach them, school and friends house they go to, too much protection/seclution not allowing them to mix with their peers, stupid homevideos especially the ghana ones.... the list is endless. parents need to be careful. [/size]

Smh.... For all these u shouldn't ve flogged them people.

Don't tell their parents counsel them on your own.