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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by bbjummy: 8:48am On Feb 12, 2015 |
emeraldoe: Why not? Right you flogged them jare but hope they know why they were been flogged. Spare the rod and spoil the child. |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by bbjummy: 8:50am On Feb 12, 2015 |
tolugar: Seal your mouth teenager |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 8:50am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter: See what excessive Westernization has caused...whatever happened to the African Ubuntu lifestyle.....mmmttsssccchhhheeeewwww Flog the children jare....comot hallelujah from their body. 3 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by meforyou1(m): 8:50am On Feb 12, 2015 |
crazysaint:i did. and was more amazed that some people were even clicking like for that rubbish talk. 2 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by omajali2003(m): 8:53am On Feb 12, 2015 |
I would have flogged them so terribly that their parents would come and enquire why I did their kids such harm. That's when I will narrate to them the incident. 2 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Dragonking: 8:56am On Feb 12, 2015 |
kosovo: Which kind sense you get? u think say na america be this dont worry, the day your son fvcks the hell out of your daughter nobody will stop or correct them. Nonsense people that want to copy oyinbo lifestyle..mtchhheeew 2 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Prospero01(m): 8:57am On Feb 12, 2015 |
I have bin in such a similar situation before. Not only did I flog the both of them, I took it up with dia parents. Though both of the are not from the same parents but neighbours children in the compound. Today they re better off. As early as 2 children starts becoming sexually conscious. I remember vividly an events that happened to me when I was 6. The girl was 7 and asked me in Yoruba language to have sex" je a do bo". I was looking @her. Though small then, she remove her pants and was about inserting my infantile penis inside her while we wia standing. Immediatey my eldest sis came to the backyard and saw us. I ran because something in me told me that bin caught I am done with. My sis told my mom. My mom from then started teaching us sex education, I am a better man because I was taught sex education early. So in the case of those kids I caught, they re now better off cause they wia exposed and dealt with. People shud stop saying they re not ur kids. They re our kids cause if such children turn loose, the society, ur child, may be the ones to suffer what the adult world failed to tame. Each time I look back @what nearly happened when I was six, I smiled and to think I still remember it vividly, shows the scar it left on me. Dia is no such tin as kids when it comes to sex, believe me. They may not actually know the right place to insert it, but sure do know what is happening. Talk straight to dia parents 7 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:02am On Feb 12, 2015 |
I don't see anything wrong in him decorating them with strokes of a cane. If they were my kids I would expect the same from anyone who saw them in such questionable position. Flog am well well, make me sef come continue my own. 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by DIOSHEYI(m): 9:02am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Holywizard: |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by davidsmith8900: 9:02am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Holywizard: Should've mind your business. Are u jealous? Are u mad that they are getting some at an early age then u are? All u had 2 do was scold them n let them know that what they did was wrong. No need 2 tell their parents. Uve corrected them. They are kids let them enjoy life. Were u a saint as a child? Were u very righteous? B4 u correct someone, take a look at yourself. Dont u have job? Dont u have work 2 do? |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Dragonking: 9:04am On Feb 12, 2015 |
^^^If you believe that this poster above me is a complete MUGU and a DUNCE click like. 6 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by DIOSHEYI(m): 9:06am On Feb 12, 2015 |
They need to be educated but make sure u get to the root of the abuser!![color=#770077][/color] |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by sameagles(m): 9:07am On Feb 12, 2015 |
its good u have not inform the parent but u have seriouse work to do on those kids as an adult knwing well d future implications, i wouldnt have flodge them but nevertheless lecture them and talk with them d danger of what got themself into, and your presentation now determined the response of the parent. |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 9:08am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter:In as much as you sound logical, you forgot the saying that it takes a village to raise a child. You said "The kids are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way." With this I will take it you live abroad, my dear in our society everyone is involved in raising a kid. Because when a kid goes bad it affects not just those related to the child but the society as a whole. Nne please next time you see a kid misbehaving call the kid to order in a humane way, you dont have to be related to the kid to point him/her to the right ways of life. 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by kblaq002(m): 9:09am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Since dey are nt siblings, I don't tink yu nid to tell dia parents cos avoid family tins. Jst call dem n advise dem not to do it again. |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Sexyolori(f): 9:10am On Feb 12, 2015 |
You should ask them where they learnt it and their parents need to be told...You shouldn't have flogged them because their parents may not find it funny that you did. 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 9:10am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter: |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 9:11am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Toktee:are you ok? 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Purehuman(m): 9:13am On Feb 12, 2015 |
From my observation so far, women are the spoilers of kids. Our culture says, it is not only the parents that train kids but the community. Our culture also applaud a person who corrects his neighbour's kids. They'll always be grateful for it. Our culture allows for flogging as a means of correcting kids. Depending on what they've done. From our culture, sexual acts like this, is frowned at and flogging is necessary to show how bad the offence they've committed is. We should stop this acculturation from the west. What he should've done is: Flog them with cane. Correct them never to do it again. Choose a cool evening, call their parents and tell them what you saw their kids do. Telling them that you've corrected them but you had to come tell them what you saw so that they can be monitored. Good African Tradition should not be tarnish because of one senseless westernised tradition. 5 Likes |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Bowaley17(m): 9:14am On Feb 12, 2015 |
IamBOWALEY |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by davidsmith8900: 9:14am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Everyone on this thread who is saying dat "it takes a village 2 raise a child" n dat he had da right 2 flog them, how have your lives turned out? Have u yourselves attained success? How many of you are Engineers or Doctors, or even in Politics? How many of u have made it in life? How many of u even have a job? B4 telling little kids how 2 live their life n how they should be raised, fix your own life. Become a president or even a CEO of a company b4 u start criticizing other people kids. 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by espn(m): 9:15am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter:before man nd GOD can u swear with ur entire life and the future dat remains unknown that u haven't flogged someone who is not kid before? |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Humblebloke(m): 9:16am On Feb 12, 2015 |
davidsmith8900: You are not making sense... 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 9:20am On Feb 12, 2015 |
nairalife2013: Simply advice the parents to give the kids proper sex education which is even almost overdue. Which one is Satan this Satan that..... It's such impractical and superstitious things we load kids with that lead to fanatism and disassociation from practicalsolutions. What would you say if you caught her again in the act and she said, "actually, this is Satan's doing not mine"? Teach kids to take responsibility for their actions and stop filling their heads with tales by moonlight thus keeping them far away from reality and making them social misfits. 1 Like |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by b0rn2fuck(m): 9:22am On Feb 12, 2015 |
misfab:why you come do mouth for picture like person wey swallow complete guinea fowl egg |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by zudozz: 9:23am On Feb 12, 2015 |
DO NOT TELL THEIR PARENTs!!!!!!!!! who is giving such advise here? I am a parent too. with kids.Just threaten them, do it well!! Tell them u re only waiting 4 someone 2 come n accompany them 2 tell their parents n go 2 announce it in their school. Just mention a name of another elderly person they know. They ll b 2 frightened 2 ve sex 4 rest of their live. But God Forbid! d devil is an slowpoke! |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by NnaNna4(m): 9:26am On Feb 12, 2015 |
See grown up people saying you should not have flogged them. I beg to differ. They need to know what it means to be involved in such a intimate act and refrain from such. in my place it is said children is every ones responsibility. @OP thanks for whooping their ass especially the 13yr nearing adolescent that one don mature. |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by chinkichun: 9:29am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter: So, flogging a child is jungle justice? Hmmm All this una oyibo mentality don too much. |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Leebeedo(m): 9:29am On Feb 12, 2015 |
nairalife2013: Good suggestion but I also suggest you record the above conversation with them in case they plan against you and tell their parents that u wanted to rape them. Matter go change within seconds oh guy and na police Cell you go dey for days and there'll be no access to nairaland to beg for suggestions |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by jacyjules(f): 9:33am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Dat is nt so Nyc he shuld tell d parent |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by xier: 9:36am On Feb 12, 2015 |
mutter:Do you truly understand what you said by he had no right to flog them? Siblings committing incest and you say have no right? I will say, take them to their parents and ask them to tell their parents what you caught them doing. That will make their parents not turn back to hate you and promise their parents that you will never mention it even to yourself nor to anyone. God bless you for disciplining them. |
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by juman(m): 9:38am On Feb 12, 2015 |
You did well by flogging them. Tell their parents about it. God will reward you for that. |
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