'goodmorning, papalette. i have something to ask because it's bothering a friend. her 7yr old twin sons ran into the master bedroom when their parents were having sex without knocking. actually, they saw how their mum was giving dad a bj. though they left when dad shouted at them, their parents are disturbed and doesnt know how to go about it with the kids.how to advise or explain things to the curious kids'

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U me ur child saw u straffin his mother?

Children seeing their parents in missionary style is excusable (dad on top of mum nothing else) but seeing mum eating dad's thing is disturbing
How do you explain that?

The parents should not pretend to be clueless or act like it never happened. As awkward as it may be, they should talk it through because kids can come to all sorts of conclusions.
At that point, you teach the child a certain level of sex education and then you progress as time goes on.

Teach them manners too - knock, get a response before entering.

Some kids are rude eh

ITbomb:
Children seeing their parents in missionary style is excusable (dad on top of mum nothing else) but seeing mum eating dad's thing is disturbing

Lol

*climbs ugu tree*

That awkward moment

Absolutely NOT!
No Ssssssshaking!!!!

How do you explain what the D was doing in your mouth?

ITbomb:
Children seeing their parents in missionary style is excusable (dad on top of mum nothing else) but seeing mum eating dad's thing is disturbing

very true

ITbomb:
Children seeing their parents in missionary style is excusable (dad on top of mum nothing else) but seeing mum eating dad's thing is disturbing

very true

ITbomb:
Children seeing their parents in missionary style is excusable (dad on top of mum nothing else) but seeing mum eating dad's thing is disturbing

it's really serious. How do they explain dat

Joavid:
The parents should not pretend to be clueless or act like it never happened. As awkward as it may be, they should talk it through because kids can come to all sorts of conclusions.
At that point, you teach the child a certain level of sex education and then you progress as time goes on.

Teach them manners too - knock, get a response before entering.

Some kids are rude eh

This is the ONLY mature comment on this thread

hahn:


This is the ONLY mature comment on this thread

You know, one of the reasons i bring issues to nairaland is because i want the senders to see more better responses. Maybe nairaland isn't the best best to seek real responses to real life issues.

That's gonna be awkward I must say. Seven yrs isn't 3yrs you can feed all sorts of bul'lshyte; with the way kids mature fast and are exposed to all sorts of trends these days, its really going to be awkward

Omg! There won't be any looking in the eyes of the kids ever again. Hian! How do one explain the lollipoping? Bad business!

cococandy:
How do you explain what the D was doing in your mouth?

Trying to keep it clean. Then I will quote "Cleanliness is next to Godliness"

But seriously, I would be shocked. I will later call them and tell them "What you just saw your mum and I doing is very dangerous and can kill when a child below 18 years tries it"

xynerise:

Trying to keep it clean. Then I will quote "Cleanliness is next to Godliness"

But seriously, I would be shocked. I will later call them and tell them "What you just saw your mum and I doing is very dangerous and can kill when a child below 18 years tries it"

shocked and embarrassed too. Lol.

cococandy:
shocked and embarrassed too. Lol.

That moment the man's dik will just deflate

They need to call them and deprogram them from such a sight. So that they dont go and act out what they saw. That is what children do. So talk to them and have a discussion about what they saw. Dont sweep it under the carpet before your son or daughter is caught in a funny position with another child.

xynerise:

That moment the man's dik will just deflate

seriously

Parents should have locks on their bedrooms if there are little kids in the house who can come in without knocking

cococandy:
How do you explain what the D was doing in your mouth?

this is how she should explain, "son, what you saw me did to your dad is what we call oral medication. I was giving your dad an oral medicine prescribed by the doctor. You have to first swallow the medicine and drink a little water then you pump it with your mouth into the genitals. It is very painful son and it is for very sick adults. Shekena

xynerise:

Trying to keep it clean. Then I will quote "Cleanliness is next to Godliness"

But seriously, I would be shocked. I will later call them and tell them "What you just saw your mum and I doing is very dangerous and can kill when a child below 18 years tries it"

bennyrazz:
this is how she should explain, "son, what you saw me did to your dad is what we call oral medication. I was giving your dad an oral medicine prescribed by the doctor. You have to first swallow the medicine and drink a little water then you pump it with your mouth into the genitals. It is very painful son and it is for very sick adults. Shekena

hmm trust me those kids will try it one day when one of them gets sick and the parents ain't home.

cococandy:
hmm trust me those kids will try it one day when one of them gets sick and the parents ain't home.

prevention is better than cure but when the deed as been done, what will be the solution? the kids caught them while at it, how do they explain or take their minds off it? remember the mind is like a digital camera

ROTFLMAO dis is crious!

xynerise:

That moment the man's dik will just deflate

Their Daddy caused it




Better tell them what you were doing before they ask you or someone else

Sweetmarriage:


You know, one of the reasons i bring issues to nairaland is because i want the senders to see more better responses. Maybe nairaland isn't the best best to seek real responses to real life issues.

Unfortunately so. However, there are lots of mature minded individuals here as well. I try to follow such people so when I have an issue I can share it to them or mention them so they can share their opinions

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Conji oooo

No they shouldn't at least not until they see the children practicing what they saw

Uuuehhhh

those kids have been emotionally and psychologically raped chai this is how gayness starts o two sons fa. ......what happened to locking the door, in our days na midnight pman and male dey straff o..... funny enough I'm still wondering when exactly lol