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G boy,how these your breakup story take concern us?

Op point of correction, girls take themselves out, my girlfrnds nd I take ourselves out nt jst on special days but often, mind u we r nt lesbians. I wonder wat makes guys think girls can't take themselves out .
However, I think u actually ve trust issues with her, or should I say u dnt trust urself.
And judging frm ur immediate reaction, I dnt think either of u truly loved each other, if both of u loved each other u would ve settled ur differncies immediately.

Plus, y do guys think a girl can't b faithful?

Back to d op, ur foul mouth isn't a nyz thing, u neva jam who get foul mouth pass u nd u seem proud to me.
I rest my case.

MhisIjay:
Op point of correction, girls take themselves out, my girlfrnds nd I take ourselves out nt jst on special days but often, mind u we r nt lesbians. I wonder wat makes guys think girls can't take themselves out .
However, I think u actually ve trust issues with her, or should I say u dnt trust urself.
And judging frm ur immediate reaction, I dnt think either of u truly loved each other, if both of u loved each other u would ve settled ur differncies immediately.

Plus, y do guys think a girl can't b faithful?

Back to d op, ur foul mouth isn't a nyz thing, u neva jam who get foul mouth pass u nd u seem proud to me.
I rest my case.

May be am proud no doubt, but I often take excessive caution to keep quiet or resist from opening my mouth however my EX knows when am about to tick she keeps on doing what makes me angry and when I say something then its only a matter of time between we start an arguement, am not proud of my foul mouth I would definTely call and apologize whether we love each other I can't vouch for her, but for all d same I may apologize and move on...

Unfortunately,I don't see that as an insult. Truly if He was a fool,the girl's mum won't be asking him for money. The silly girl who knows her parents are broke,should have thought of that before calling her benefactor a fool.

divAnnie:
hw could you have said that? Your mouth is really foul. I wish 2 e-knock you right nw!! Don't ever insult anyone in her family ooo

Trust or no trust, that gal na complete mumu, she knew too well that this guy is not around in terms of proximity. A gal wit common sense even if she is with him for the money will @least give him that 30mins time for calls(after all he is doing the calling). Come to think of it, who wouldn't have time for calls with the bf or gf on vals day? Bros u never did anything wrong oooh.its a clear case of stupidity on her part.

chronique:
Unfortunately,I don't see that as an insult. Truly if He was a fool,the girl's mum won't be asking him for money. The silly girl who knows her parents are broke,should have thought of that before calling her benefactor a fool.

Thankx responses like this are well thought off I may have spoken completely out of anger what I said were really hurtful and it was because of her actions I said what ever I said all d same I would call her and apologize to her and her sis and her mum, but am moving on ... Thanks again

chigoizie7:
Trust or no trust, that gal na complete mumu, she knew too well that this guy is not around in terms of proximity. A gal wit common sense even if she is with him for the money will @least give him that 30mins time for calls(after all he is doing the calling). Come to think of it, who wouldn't have time for calls with the bf or gf on vals day? Bros u never did anything wrong oooh.its a clear case of stupidity on her part.

I have never seen when a girl refuses to see her BF or talk to her BF on Val's day it simply means there is something wrong some where all d same I would call an apologize for lashing at her and her family but I would definitely move on... Honestly I don't feel am benefitting any thing if I still remain in d relationship...

adrainuche:
May be am proud no doubt, but I often take excessive caution to keep quiet or resist from opening my mouth however my EX knows when am about to tick she keeps on doing what makes me angry and when I say something then its only a matter of time between we start an arguement, am not proud of my foul mouth I would definTely call and apologize whether we love each other I can't vouch for her, but for all d same I may apologize and move on...

U seem so much in a hurry to move on, e b lyk say u don see anoda flower

Op you should try to be cautious with the kind of words you use when addressing people no matter how well you think they know you are loose with words... Even if you are my meal ticket I wont tolerate insults to my parents...

As for the lady, even if she is not cheating, she definitely don't know how to place her priorities right if the relationship meant anything to her...

trust/distrust is what we build over time (most times)..... She could say "I am hanging out with my friends and wont be able to do long Skype calls but this is it; Call me on my phone anytime, when I am done @ about 2am I will Skype with you for a few minutes before I sleep".
Any right thinking man will accept that because its a win win situation.

MhisIjay:
U seem so much in a hurry to move on, e b lyk say u don see anoda flower

Weve been dating each other for a year and if I show u my bank statement on hw much I send to her and her family for upkeep u won't believe there's no need for me investing where I see no future or someone who doesn't appreciate my time and honestly she doesn't offer me anything I can't get quite literally she always feel because am a bit privileged than her that's y I want to control her .. its better I move on and obviously I won't do LDR again ave learnt I knew it wasn't a good idea I just felt maybe ours could be different but it wasn't perharps may me Di's is my time to rectify my mistake..

favoured234:
Op you should try to be cautious with the kind of words you use when addressing people no matter how well you think they know you are loose with words... Even if you are my meal ticket I wont tolerate insults to my parents...

As for the lady, even if she is not cheating, she definitely don't know how to place her priorities right if the relationship meant anything to her...

trust/distrust is what we build over time (most times)..... She could say "I am hanging out with my friends and wont be able to do long Skype calls but this is it; Call me on my phone anytime, when I am done @ about 2am I will Skype with you for a few minutes before I sleep".
Any right thinking man will accept that because its a win win situation.

To her am controlling her because I am privileged the deed as been done either way am hell bent on moving on.. Except something else happens I may have done my best ... Am giving up on both of us ... I should spend more time on other stuff for now thankx for ur advice I really appreciate..

chronique:
Unfortunately,I don't see that as an insult. Truly if He was a fool,the girl's mum won't be asking him for money. The silly girl who knows her parents are broke,should have thought of that before calling her benefactor a fool.

I still feel he shouldn't have insulted the mom thats all. He can argue all he wants with her and exchange words and all, but should have left the mom out of it evn if he gives her money

divAnnie:
I still feel he shouldn't have insulted the mom thats all. He can argue all he wants with her and exchange words and all, but should have left the mom out of it evn if he gives her money

I don't insult the mum she called me a fool I said if I was a fool her mum won't be calling me asking for finicial aids that's was it.. I also apologized at the end..

adrainuche:
I don't insult the mum she called me a fool I said if I was a fool her mum won't be calling me asking for finicial aids that's was it.. I also apologized at the end..

ohh, ok. I think you are a generous guy, just remain the good giving guy you are. No one is perfect, give room to improve yourself. Move on if u feel that's what is best 4 u. I hope everytin works out well 4 u.

divAnnie:
ohh, ok. I think you are a generous guy, just remain the good giving guy you are. No one is perfect, give room to improve yourself. Move on if u feel that's what is best 4 u. I hope everytin works out well 4 u.

Thanks Thankx Thankx I hate break ups it makes u feel drained thank u

adrainuche:
Thanks Thankx Thankx I hate break ups it makes u feel drained thank u

You are definitely going to be fine, and please do something about your foul mouth.

adrainuche:
Weve been dating each other for a year and if I show u my bank statement on hw much I send to her and her family for upkeep u won't believe there's no need for me investing where I see no future or someone who doesn't appreciate my time and honestly she doesn't offer me anything I can't get quite literally she always feel because am a bit privileged than her that's y I want to control her .. its better I move on and obviously I won't do LDR again ave learnt I knew it wasn't a good idea I just felt maybe ours could be different but it wasn't perharps may me Di's is my time to rectify my mistake..

But r u vry sure u aren't controlling her cos of ur financial assistance to her

MhisIjay:
But r u vry sure u aren't controlling her cos of ur financial assistance to her

Is it not enough to try to control her life sef? E dey give mama, pikin dey pay house rent whats more Just kidding.

But at times some people try to use their financial constraints as a means of blackmail... Every small issue boils down to the fact that you paid my fees, or you are doing this because you did this or you are doing that. All those kind talk fit get on someone last nerve

Few words for you ma broda..Love should not be measured, concluded and judged by a single action of val's day.!

Because u are assisting her family in one way or the other doesn't give u any right to insult them,because she has a boyfriend now she shouldn't go out with her friends again,must everybody know what u did for her and her family. I think girls should go into relationship with more mature minds

MhisIjay:
But r u vry sure u aren't controlling her cos of ur financial assistance to her

Yes am quite sure ...

easy4beno:
Few words for you ma broda..Love should not be measured, concluded and judged by a single action of val's day.!

I know but I guess she was going to see someone.

oreholuwah:
Because u are assisting her family in one way or the other doesn't give u any right to insult them,because she has a boyfriend now she shouldn't go out with her friends again,must everybody know what u did for her and her family. I think girls should go into relationship with more mature minds

She made me upset I said everything out of anger I would call to apologize and tell dem I was sorry...

easy4beno:
Few words for you ma broda..Love should not be measured, concluded and judged by a single action of val's day.!

You're right ...

adrainuche:
I know but I guess she was going to see someone.

Like I said, Your guess still doesn't justify why you should go that length..as they say, assumption is the least level of knowledge..its one critical decision one should either make when going into distance relationships..because I have to confess to you, that thing called long distance relationship could cause an indefinite unnecessary heartache for no rational reason..I've been there and I know exactly how it feels, it takes a high level of maturity and plenty of patience to sustain it, and ofcourse we all have various personal differences and levels of tolerance..

You may actually be right and same way you may be wrong..but I would suggest you work on and try balance your temperament, it would be of immense benefit to you both now and in future..

My little coin..

easy4beno:
Like I said, Your guess still doesn't justify why you should go that length..as they say, assumption is the least level of knowledge..its one critical decision one should either make when going into distance relationships..because I have to confess to you, that thing called long distance relationship could cause an indefinite unnecessary heartache for no rational reason..I've been there and I know exactly how it feels, it takes a high level of maturity and plenty of patience to sustain it, and ofcourse we all have various personal differences and levels of tolerance..

You may actually be right and same way you may be wrong..but I would suggest you work on and try balance your temperament, it would be of immense benefit to you both now and in future..

My little coin..

THANKX I CALLED HER AND APOLOGIZED ...