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| How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Rapsodee(m): 4:27am On Feb 16, 2015 |
In a situation where you have two,three or four guys are all around you,wanting to have a relationship with you,what are the things that will make you to choose one over the others?...... Or in short,what can make a guy to fight off and win other suitors? Ladies, your response is needed,experienced guys too can add to it. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by nzeobi(m): 4:44am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Character and cash are the main things Tribe and religion to also be considered |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by jeffizy(m): 4:58am On Feb 16, 2015 |
They run to their 'all knowing ' pastors with several photographs and skip two days meals in the name of fasting. They ask their friends who are not into any relationship at all for advice. They let the suitors pocket determine their choice. But the one who takes time to know her man wins the most. I'm an advocate for long term relationship 1 Like |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Nobody: 5:03am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Some of them end up choosing the worst out the lot. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Nobody: 5:19am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Most of them go to their pastor, in my church we treat marriage request. while others weigh their physical and financial balance and yet others refers to their friends for advice 1 Like |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Rapsodee(m): 5:23am On Feb 16, 2015 |
jeffizy: |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by adebayo201: 5:50am On Feb 16, 2015 |
jeffizy:  And their pastor is going to be the "wife" shey!  Informing their pastor is not an issue but taking pictures and other stuff... that is buff |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Enegod(m): 5:58am On Feb 16, 2015 |
They go for the richest one...assuming they are equally good in bed  |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by freshness2020: 6:35am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Let the best man win! |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ThunderTrail(f): 7:33am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Tricky question. Well we select our best suitors based on Deep Pockets, Spending Power, a Lifetime of Never Ending Affection, Train of Gifts and Undivided Attention. BUT. ... In Extreme Cases where Age , Parental/Peer Pressure and Competition are The Deciding Factors, Some Folks Opt for Secret Ballot System. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Nobody: 7:38am On Feb 16, 2015 |
ThunderTrail:deep pockets? Meaning you can't date an huzzling guy, work together and become rich? Cox I don't get your point |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ThunderTrail(f): 7:42am On Feb 16, 2015 |
silvermania: Yes naah. I no come this world come suffer. You gree make yah Sis date guy wey no get money? |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Nobody: 7:46am On Feb 16, 2015 |
ThunderTrail:uhmmm. Y not if d guy he's a serious type who has good future ambitions and they love themselves |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ThunderTrail(f): 7:54am On Feb 16, 2015 |
silvermania: Well sha, na matter of choice. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Nobody: 7:59am On Feb 16, 2015 |
ThunderTrail:naxo sister. Buh what if the broke man loves you more  |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ThunderTrail(f): 9:31am On Feb 16, 2015 |
silvermania: I ain't in for those broke @$$ niggax. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by JayTeeA(f): 11:07am On Feb 16, 2015 |
1. DONT LET PASTOR CHOOSE FOR YOU OOOO.. a good pastor should guide please, not dictate. 2. I bliv in d leading of d holyspirit (u dnt av to agree). but u ought to have praticed hearing d voice of God over time. so if choosing a spouse is d first tin ur seeking to hear God about den pls uhmmm put a hold on dat... 3. check your value system.. what is most important to you and who amongst these guys give it to u most.. financial security? love and attention? deep affection? sound leadership? etc.. just b sincere to ursef.. for example I am not keen about a man wit money not because I dont like good tins but I'm overly confident dat I can make all of the money mysef.. so if I'm caught in such a scenerio i'll take a strong leader over money anytime.. I hope this helps |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 11:15am On Feb 16, 2015 |
d size of his dick. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 11:17am On Feb 16, 2015 |
[quote author=JayTeeA post=30778274]1. DONT LET PASTOR CHOOSE FOR YOU OOOO.. a good pastor should guide please, not dictate. 2. I bliv in d leading of d holyspirit (u dnt av to agree). but u ought to have praticed hearing d voice of God over time. so if choosing a spouse is d first tin ur seeking to hear God about den pls uhmmm put a hold on dat... 3. check your value system.. what is most important to you and who amongst these guys give it to u most.. financial security? love and attention? deep affection? sound leadership? etc.. just b sincere to ursef.. for example I am not keen about a man wit money not because I dont like good tins but I'm overly confident dat I can make all of the money mysef.. so if I'm caught in such a scenerio i'll take a strong leader over money anytime.. I hope this helps[/quote] what's ur love language? |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by JayTeeA(f): 11:26am On Feb 16, 2015 |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 11:31am On Feb 16, 2015 |
JayTeeA: i asked cos of ur contribution to d thread. kindly tell me. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by JayTeeA(f): 11:48am On Feb 16, 2015 |
dahreyM: quality time.. words of affirmation |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ireneony(f): 11:51am On Feb 16, 2015 |
I go for the one that have the quality I'm looking for first. No man is perfect |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by mentorandfriend(m): 11:51am On Feb 16, 2015 |
I once fell in love with a nurse who was more righteous than her flatmates, and worked in a prestigious private hospital in town. We were friends already, or so I assumed, so when I told her of my intention of wanting to take our relationship deeper to courtship levels, she said I should go and see her pastor first. I dont understand. Am I going to live with your pastor? Tell me you'll pray and think about it, not to go and see your pastor first, without you coming along with me. I should tell him I'm interested in you, and if he says YES, then you'll say YES. What rubbish! Pastors play confusing roles in the lives of many church girls, and I dont endorse it. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 11:57am On Feb 16, 2015 |
JayTeeA: d guy who exhibits these to u, is d one dat u ll choose. i opine dat luv language is d determinant 4 ladies wen it cums to choosing a partner out of d many suitors. for u nw, d guy is gving u d quality time dat u desire, he is constantly re-affirming his luv 4 u, wah will stop u 4rm gving him a yes? u ll lah... |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 12:02pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ireneony: cn u outline d quality u r looking 4? |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ireneony(f): 12:09pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
dahreyM:I can't but when I see him I will feel the presence and there will be something unique about him that make me smile always  |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 12:14pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ireneony: u dn't get. outline d requirements dat a man must possess to emerge d winner out of ur numerous suitors. perhaps he must possess a rick ross like bank acct i.e his bank account must be plumpy. |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ThunderTrail:owk o 1 Like |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by ireneony(f): 12:18pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
dahreyM:the one that make me laugh and put a smile on my face n listen to me. I like them nerdy and intelligent! |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by dahreyM: 12:21pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ireneony: pardon ma question, it seems u r presently single. r u? |
| Re: How Do Girls Choose Among Many Suitors? by JayTeeA(f): 12:22pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
dahreyM: love languages are quiet different from values sir.. not dat dey aren't important but values talks about principles of life as defined by vision n purpose.. des r more lasting.. dats wat I meant. sorry if my examples didn't convey my point right |
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