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emusmith:
OK, Jobful one. Your comments are what folks who can't try say...

We are used to hearing that and it's unnecessary

pweetixandy:
na so..I will now sit down and be making lists "1million ways to get a man" ,"7billion reasons to marry a jobless nairalander", "900billion reasons why male nairalanders reason with their anus" . Naaaaaaaaah,my life does not revolve around guys. Thank God my brothers are not like this,they've got better things doing. Weldone and I hope this ur "work" pays

zick19:
inside puss.y or where


@Op, u nailed it.......

pweetixandy:
na so..I will now sit down and be making lists "1million ways to get a man" ,"7billion reasons to marry a jobless nairalander", "900billion reasons why male nairalanders reason with their anus" . Naaaaaaaaah,my life does not revolve around guys. Thank God my brothers are not like this,they've got better things doing. Weldone and I hope this ur "work" pays

What exactly is your own Job?

diddydiva:
why guys struggle with letting ladies be.

Your lives depend on us?

na question ooooo before una eat me up.



#runs out of thread

naijaboiy:
What exactly is your own Job?

emusmith:
DISCLAIMER: Before you say, it's same with men, I am not generalizing but specializing. That's Why I Used "Some"


As I always say, I've been around ladies most of my life coupled with my psychological tendencies + BOOKS (very vital)


Focusing on ladies now; men grow and some of these tendencies grow with them but ladies? Almost all. Unless, she consciously works on herself.


Quickly, Seven Things Some Ladies Struggle With Are:


1. Opposite sex (men)


It's obvious, a girl who is forming for you sees you with another girl and jealousy sets in. Haven't you heard stories of grown up women fighting and quarrelling over men? It's like a lady's life revolve around being with a man. Don't pretend joor



2. Self esteem ( Being Themselves)


Ladies are naturally shy, Yea. Even the ones that don't look it. It's a struggle. If you doubt me, read most ladies PM. You'll see, " I want to be myself and I don't care what You think ". That's a struggle of self identity and esteem.



3. Their choices ( what they really want)

Who pursues several things a day like some ladies. That's the cause she is hardly in a relationship. Today she wants a man who fears God and loves children only. Tomorrow, I want a guy who is not so deep in spiritual things but loves me dearly + he's rich. This uncertainty is the main cause for the breakups.



4. Their "imperfections"( Their looks )


You need not tell me I'm so wrong on this. She has cup-sized bosoms so she's ashamed of wearing some tops. With flat butt, she needs a bum pad. Her head is a bit flat and she crosses all boundaries to get a huge weavon, or so...Are all these necessary?


5. Their future ( how their man and marriage will look like)


It's not totally bad to think about this but not to the extent of crying over it. I had a colleague who cries over this often. Can you stop worrying and struggling over this? Your aim of going to church, weddings, Social Networks etc, is no longer to have fun as you claim pretentiously, but to "find" him. Hmm...



6. Their Past ( if it will haunt them)


Some fear that with the countless abortions they've secretly had, karma will openly reward them with years of childlessness. Quit that thought already!
I got close to my now "Ex" who kept saying that she fears walking with any guy in public holding hands and all, because they may leave her. I cautioned her but she insisted. True to her words and worry, I left …


7. Their reputation ( I want to be known for this)


Is this not why NL guys call NL girls "fake"? They portray an unrealistic image of themselves and their expectations. They lie without thinking in trying to do that.
I believe in First Impression too but Must you lie?

You'll hear them condemn certain things like they're so innocent. Some things like nude pics in phones, indecency, lying, cheating etc.

I think you mustn't comment if you're guilty. Just keep shut.

Just three days ago, a colleague gave me her phone to help her do some restructuring. In the process, see Indecency naa! Thank God, they were already deleted...


You see enh, These struggles are there. Fight it through whatever means you may. Through right company, reading books, prayers, learning etc.

Thank me later.

Have a good evening

Nicklaus:
I don't quite agree with no 7, most guys on NL are guilty of it, some even purports to be girls..DisGusTing! But for the other points,,, Very peCuliaR!.

Maamin:
They also struggle to wear tight cloths...then readjust them every few seconds on the street while walking as if they got shrunk.

Mhizizzy:
And then u like to look as dey readjust

Mhizizzy:
And then u like to look as dey readjust

pweetixandy:
na so..I will now sit down and be making lists "1million ways to get a man" ,"7billion reasons to marry a jobless nairalander", "900billion reasons why male nairalanders reason with their anus" .[b] Naaaaaaaaah,my life does not revolve around guys. [/b]Thank God my brothers are not like this,they've got better things doing. Weldone and I hope this ur "work" pays

Maamin:
This is how you know that her life revolves around guys...liar, there is no girl That can boldly say that at least her 65% thought is not about guys No! 70% of your Gist when you are with your girlfriends is about guys..so stop the pretence jor!

emusmith:
For her to even quote me sef mean say she dey form...