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[b]Do You Know Couples fall out of love for three main reasons:
• They don’t understand the difference between infatuation and love,
• They don’t understand how to grow their love for each other in the long run, and/or
• They don’t know what partnership is, or how to do it. Without partnership, there can be no lasting love.

Couples who become competitive and fight about who’s right or wrong can destroy the love they originally had for each other. The partnership way is to focus on cooperatively fixing the problem. What makes love last is an attitude of “I want both you and me to get what we want” in this relationship.

The quickest way to destroy love is to hold on to resentment. Allowing old hurts and grudges to go unresolved is corrosive. Resentment is like rust that eats away at the bonds of your relationship. It’s important to learn to clear up resentment by first recognizing it in yourself, then confessing it and learning to solve the problems that caused it.

Men and women have different reasons for falling out of love. Husbands often disconnect from their wives when they don't feel the wives are interested in them anymore. Because men often have a difficult time with intimacy, someone at work who is sympathetic and doesn't make demands can be very tempting.

Wives disconnect because they feel unloved or taken for granted. They complain for a while, then withdraw. Once she gives up on getting caring from her partner, a masseur or yoga teacher who is attentive can make her feel wanted.

Either spouse will be tempted to cheat if the marriage is disconnected, or has sunk into friendship—affection without sex. To mend the relationship, both spouses need to be willing to make it work, to talk openly about what went wrong, to take responsibility for what they did or didn't do to make the marriage work. This takes emotional maturity, which is the ability to rise above your immediate wants and emotional reactions in order to have a reasonable discussion rather than a fight. Married couples also need support for their marriage—other couples who can help them through rough times.

Love also changes over time, and if you don’t understand the change, it can be scary. It's easy to feel romantic when you live separately and date each other, because every moment spent together is special. From the moment you begin to live together, such romantic moments are no longer automatic. Instead, much of your time together is spent on more mundane things: doing laundry, washing dishes, paying bills, and going to work. Although this can be new, exciting and fun at first, as soon as the initial newness of living together wears off, such everyday things cease to feel exciting and romantic, and you may find yourself feeling worried that your partner no longer cares as much or is as excited to be with you.

If you react negatively to the changes instead of handling them, you can damage your relationship beyond repair. Iyaf said my own oooooooo [/b]

dis is exactly wat my marriage is goin thru. i dnt know wat to do anymore. i dnt knw if i hve d courage to let go of my grudges nd resentment. i feel my hubby hates me so i hve given up on him. cud i chat wit u on watsapp, i really nid som1 to encourage me right now. my marriage is heading for d rocks.

i'd really appreciate it if u can giv me ur audience.

flakesy01:
dis is exactly wat my marriage is goin thru. i dnt know wat to do anymore. i dnt knw if i hve d courage to let go of my grudges nd resentment. i feel my hubby hates me so i hve given up on him. cud i chat wit u on watsapp, i really nid som1 to encourage me right now. my marriage is heading for d rocks.

i'd really appreciate it if u can giv me ur audience.

my whatsapp number is 07012777352

Number 2 point, what the hell are you writing?

nyc1 op.. bt d main key to a sucessful relationship is communication nd understanding..most couples believe dier spouse is suppose to knw wats goin tru dier mind which may nt b d case..

Blackett:
We know all these tricks. . . And I'm talking to the jobless goat up there exchanging whatsapp number with himself. Ewu.

well thats y u a nigerian...... neva ready to face reality, do i look like some novice

Blackett:
We know all these tricks. . . And I'm talking to the jobless goat up there exchanging whatsapp number with himself. Ewu.

Lmao

Chizzy20:
nyc1 op.. bt d main key to a sucessful relationship is communication nd understanding..most couples believe dier spouse is suppose to knw wats goin tru dier mind which may nt b d case..

thanks for reasoning atleast u sound more matured that the fagotish nigerian up there

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I think the rise of social media is definitely correlated with the rise of narcissism in our society. Our self-esteem depends on how many likes we get, how many followers we get, if someone texts us back. And I think when you see your phone light up from across the room, it’s that ping of dopamine in your system.
You get that euphoric, excited feeling, and I think that’s addictive. Now we text people, we Instagram, we Facebook, we Tweet just to feel that again. And the more we do it, the more we get it back, so it becomes a very addictive process......
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lumzraph:
Twainch App is aimed at creating balance between Social media and Relationships. Social networking sites may be good for our social lives, but they can cause havoc in our romantic relationships.
I think the rise of social media is definitely correlated with the rise of narcissism in our society. Our self-esteem depends on how many likes we get, how many followers we get, if someone texts us back. And I think when you see your phone light up from across the room, it’s that ping of dopamine in your system.
You get that euphoric, excited feeling, and I think that’s addictive. Now we text people, we Instagram, we Facebook, we Tweet just to feel that again. And the more we do it, the more we get it back, so it becomes a very addictive process......
So as we all embark on this new journey in our social world, i want us all to be part of this change and share how social media has affected your relationships and a possible way in which you think it can be improved.

visit http://www.twainch.com and be informed when twainch app launches.
Don't forget to like our page on facebook to stay connected http://www.facebook.com/twainch

You also get the chance to getaway with Twainch freebies and merchandise

Thanks In Advance

me found no app

No excuse is accepted whatsoever!

Luedave:
my whatsapp number is 07012777352

Alert- a shoulder to cry on,is a dick to ride on
Make sure hus is nt a military dude or oh! sorry to stop ur death wish.

48noble:
Alert- a shoulder to cry on,is a dick to ride on
Make sure hus is nt a military dude or oh! sorry to stop ur death wish.

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