₦airaland Forum

emusmith:
Nice one there, boss.

Money ain't everything when it comes to getting a girl to really LOVE you for who you are.

* as I'm typing this, my landlord and his wife are yelling at each other. She believes he's cheating and all *

Why? As he once told me, she married him for the money and not REAL love. He is in pain regretting his action.

Money can only go so far, friends!

Guys, you must find that girl who loves you now you're HUSTLING and gathering wealth. If money comes, she will only pursue you for the money!

naijaboiy:
Yes! And I also stated it too.

There should be money,,it should overflow. But it shouldn't be the basis for Love.

Dotwillis1:
Nigga yhu r wrong if yhu mean ladies as in 'generally'. We can't just conclude with 'your topic' when we have different kinds of ladies.
We have ladies that develops relationship interest simply because dah nigga is living big.
Most ladies, what they looking is just that guy that shows 'care' and with material things.

Also take for instance, 2 guys be claiming they luv the bae and asking for a date, buh only one of 'em can afford to take her out, spends alotta time 2geda and do some shoppings and spendings. The other guy just decide they meet somewhere and talk more about his request. Who captured ha hrt most?

Then speaking generally now, even if she isnt al 'bout your money when she gives in, as times goes yhu still gon' spend alotta money to satisfy her requests and impress her ...

Dimples192:
Lool ok you are absolutely right it should never be the replacement for Love. Men should not use it to attract women because that would be just setting themselves up for hurt. Normally men that do that are over over compensating for their #ShortCOMINGS.

naijaboiy:
Yea by calling my thread crap

I hope you'll like it if I go to your story thread in the Lit section and condemn your works

Fatalveli:
All I'm tryna say is that though some points are right, but we are in Nigeria and we both know that only a few people will agree to this, my environment precisely. LAGOS ISLAND

Enegod:
Back in the days of early man, a males
worth was determined by the amount of
food he brought home. How good of a
hunter he was.

It's easy to see how this translates into
modern times. Women wanted the best
hunters(it showed an ability to provide)
So, now they want the ones with the
most money (Instead of food.)

Its been going on for centuries. You cant
change what your ancestors have
programed you to do. This is simple.
Its not a "bad" thing. Annoying? Sure.
Frustrating? At times.

Deejavuu:
Some comments here shows some people just dived onto the thread without reading and understanding...

SIGH!!!

i'm telling you

Fatalveli:
Every guy in Lagos should attest to these, and please say the truth.

Can you have sex with your Girlfriend without spending up to 10k for her.

Even the teenagers on the Island are still gonna request money for hair, clothes and some other stuffs from you before they finally open there legs.

Me as a person, my life is simple, I don't spend on them, I'd rather go to a sex-worker and pay the sum of 1k.

Fatalveli:
Every guy in Lagos should attest to these, and please say the truth.

Can you have sex with your Girlfriend without spending up to 10k for her.

Even the teenagers on the Island are still gonna request money for hair, clothes and some other stuffs from you before they finally open there legs.

Me as a person, my life is simple, I don't spend on them, I'd rather go to a sex-worker and pay the sum of 1k.

When I said you didn't comprehend my original post you accused me of insulting you. Now see what you posted above which is totally out of my main point.

I'm talking about getting a girl to LOVE you and you are talking about paying a girl for sex. Which is totally different.

Learn how to approach women without necessarily flaunting what you've got,,get them to like you even when you are not really financially stable at a point they will still stay.

When you finally start dating her you can start using money to spoil her.

There are tons of guys who have had their ways with women without spending at all and it's not a lie or magic. It's simply because they know their ways around women.

Change your mentality bro.

naijaboiy:
When I said you didn't comprehend my original post you accused me of insulting you. Now see what you posted above which is totally out of my main point.

I'm talking about getting a girl to LOVE you and you are talking about paying a girl for sex. Which is totally different.

Learn how to approach women without necessarily flaunting what you've got,,get them to like you even when you are not really financially stable at a point they will still stay.

When you finally start dating her you can start using money to spoil her.

There are tons of guys who have had their ways with women without spending at all and it's not a lie or magic. It's simply because they know their ways around women.

Change your mentality bro.

Hazardd:
who no like better thing,
will you advise your sister to date a broken guy.
go and see how girls are fainting for wizkid just because of his fame and riches lol

afterall ,loves grows in the relationship and also in a relationship love can never be equal.
My dear,go and look for money before you marry or even date a girl,or else.........
Money is good....

Well,it all depends because all girls are different,there are those girls have already have the money what they want is to be love and also verse-visa

I wonder who would want to be poor at all even when women don't exist.

Make your money bro and don't make it because of women. Let it be for your fulfilment.

When you meet a lady,,let her fall in Love with you and not your Money.

I just tire sha

Dotwillis1:
Nigga yhu r wrong if yhu mean ladies as in 'generally'. We can't just conclude with 'your topic' when we have different kinds of ladies.
We have ladies that develops relationship interest simply because dah nigga is living big.
Most ladies, what they looking is just that guy that shows 'care' and with material things.

Also take for instance, 2 guys be claiming they luv the bae and asking for a date, buh only one of 'em can afford to take her out, spends alotta time 2geda and do some shoppings and spendings. The other guy just decide they meet somewhere and talk more about his request. Who captured ha hrt most?

Then speaking generally now, even if she isnt al 'bout your money when she gives in, as times goes yhu still gon' spend alotta money to satisfy her requests and impress her ...

Deejavuu:
Which guy pays his girlfriend to sleep with her except he is dating a prostutute.and if i may ask what part of LAGOS ISLAND are u talking about? You don't just generalise.

Well no need to stress myself arguing with you your last statement says it all..

Fatalveli:
Master, I'm still an Amateur in the game compared to your veteran self, seems I'll start receiving lectures from you

naijaboiy:
I wonder who would want to be poor at all even when women don't exist.

Make your money bro and don't make it because of women. Let it be for your fulfilment.

When you meet a lady,,let her fall in Love with you and not your Money.

I just tire sha

Hazardd:
who no like better thing,
will you advise your sister to date a broken guy.
go and see how girls are fainting for wizkid just because of his fame and riches lol

afterall ,loves grows in the relationship and also in a relationship love can never be equal.
My dear,go and look for money before you marry or even date a girl,or else.........
Money is good....

Well,it all depends because all girls are different,there are those girls have already have the money what they want is to be love and also verse-visa

Fatalveli:
You're a female, are you living on the Island

Deejavuu:
Gbam!!! All these guys shouting up and down about money,check them out "shishi"nor gum them ..They come to NL and be feeling like DR Dre .Taah iffa hear

naijaboiy:
I wonder who would want to be poor at all even when women don't exist.

Make your money bro and don't make it because of women. Let it be for your fulfilment.

When you meet a lady,,let her fall in Love with you and not your Money.

I just tire sha

Deejavuu:
Hahahahahahaha @ur last line..that is what makes the thread interesting.Some people mentality sha .

The mentality has really eaten soo deep into naija men.

Someone will see a very beautiful lady and he'll just feel there is no way he can attract this lady except he flaunts his cash.

Fatalveli:
Every guy in Lagos should attest to these, and please say the truth.

Can you have sex with your Girlfriend without spending up to 10k for her.

Even the teenagers on the Island are still gonna request money for hair, clothes and some other stuffs from you before they finally open there legs.

Me as a person, my life is simple, I don't spend on them, I'd rather go to a sex-worker and pay the sum of 1k.

Truckpusher:
You get bad mouth like this?

naijaboiy:
i'm no veteran,,just voicing my opinion on the way I feel things should be.

Deejavuu:
I learned from the best

Dimples192:
your last line made me laff. You opened this thread so get back to work and school your boi

Lol how many will I school?

I'm just trying to convince the few I can.

Many of them are already convinced that is the only way forgetting that women have many buttons that you can press.

Only some very few,,bad sharp guys that know these and they use it well.

malonephill:
see where I belong