This is not "the cry of a Broke äss Niggah" as some myopic people will say because it's far from that.

Often times,,i've seen and heard people talking about money as being the only way to woo a lady in this our country. At first,,it was only coming from the female folk. But now,,the male folk have joined in this chant,,not only that but they have also made it seem like the Norm and that without it nothing fruitful will happen.

Yes,,i agree with the fact that money is good and can get us almost anything(if not everything) we need. But when it comes to finding true LOVE can money do that?
Please ladies,,let's be realistic here. When a man approaches you and the first thing he does is to begin to flaunt his wealth and other flashy things,,does that make you Fall head over heels for him? I believe ladies who know what they want and know the true meaning of happiness will reply in the Negative. Ladies only want the money when they are hungry or needy.

Now to my fellow nigerian men. This is nothing but the truth. We all need to sharpen our dating and attraction skills. Many men are lazy to walk up to a lady and tell her their mind. Their ideology is "Let me make the money first". But I will tell you that even when you get that money you still will be unfulfilled as you lack the prowess to naturally attract women.

In my opinion,,people who use money to attract girls and try to make her fall in Love through that way are suffering from Low Self Esteem and Lack of self confidence. Any girl that claims she loves you after your display of wealth is only out for your money and nothing else. When she is tired she will still walk away.

We need to use our natural talent given to us by God (or whoever we think we worship),,to attract these ladies or women. Get them to like us the natural way and then the money can start flowing.

Let the Ladies fall in Love with your true personality and not your wealth.

Now don't get me wrong,,i'm talking about attraction and not maintaining the relationship.

This opinion does not apply to men who only want the Lady for sex and need a "sharp sharp" method. But even at that,,there are ways with which you can attract a lady sexually and get her to bed with you without even spending a DIME!

The real Ladies know this,,but they won't talk because they are enjoying your money.

Money will only make you a 'MAGA' and not buy her 'LOVE'

We men should go and sharpen our attraction skills. MONEY will be used to sustain the relationship among other things.

Naijaboiy.

iceberylin:
See as you just dh fool yaself

And you come wise abi?

Abeg shift make better people comment

xynerise:
The men know this already. Only the immature losers will think money is the only ingredient to a successful relationship. This is an over-flogged topic

iceberylin:
See as you just dh fool yaself

naijaboiy:

Thank You sir! I've been seeing so many guys use that line of late here on Nairaland and it's just sad.

Deejavuu:
Nice one Op..

Sadly this is the general belief most of our Nigerian men have,and when you try to counter it,they term you a "pretender".

Money makes everything easy,true that, but why do we still have failed marriages of rich guys .? .I will always say it money only impress lazy girls,a girl that knows what she wants and goes for it to her money is just a bonus..

Fatalveli:
Both genders don't care, money must be involved, except if the females is owkay financially...

Apart from that, this thread is a Crap

Comprehension is really a disease

naijaboiy:

Exactly @ bolded. Probably they thought the money could attract her and also make her stay as long as it keeps flowing.

But once a woman is tired,,she is tired.

Nothing can liven her up again.

xynerise:

Funny enough this category of guys are broke ass niggas. Some of them were jilted by a girl over something else and they linked it to money, whereas it could they have mouth odour

yea! Because even girls break up with rich niggas so what will be the excuse of that rich fellow?

Bolded though

xynerise:

Funny enough this category of guys are broke ass niggas. Some of them were jilted by a girl over something else and they linked it to money, whereas it could they have mouth odour

Deejavuu:


Gbam!!! All these guys shouting up and down about money,check them out "shishi"nor gum them ..They come to NL and be feeling like DR Dre .Taah iffa hear

Internet dey give people mouth na

Dimples192:
Look I'm not gonna lie because I'm attracted to powerful men and Money equals power. What's attractive is that this man has earned his money. It shows characteristics that are inspirational. I look at a man's shoes to determine if he's worth my love. Now I'm talking about grown men here above 30. As for a younger man who has time on his side then I wouldn't dream of taking from him instead I'd invest and take my place as the great woman behind that great man nagging.

Ladies are attracted to powerful or Made men,,i know. The major point here is it shouldn't be the basis of falling in Love with that man.
I don't know if you are getting me?

naijaboiy:

yea! Because even girls break up with rich niggas so what will be the excuse of that rich fellow?

Bolded though

Deejavuu:


God bless you sire!!

Empty vessels come online and be making loud noises,how much u get gal wan chop

Your last line

naijaboiy:

Comprehension is really a disease

naijaboiy:

Ladies are attracted to powerful or Made men,,i know. The major point here is it shouldn't be the basis of falling in Love with that man.
I don't know if you are getting me?

Fatalveli:
A preamble to the prejudice.

No need for insult because I stated my opinion

Yea by calling my thread crap

I hope you'll like it if I go to your story thread in the Lit section and condemn your works

Dimples192:


Absolutely I couldn't be with a man that I wasn't feeling ONLY because he's rich but at the same time I could step away from a man that I'm attracted to but he has no money and no drive to want to work. So what I'm saying is it goes hand in hand. Like kanye said " I ain't saying she a gold-digger but she ain't messing with no broke nigga"