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| Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Tbillz(op): 7:23pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Guys and ladies many a times tends to carry out more research than the FBI agents.in respect to this,it is very advicable to share most of the past experience with your partner. But how intense can the secret sharing be? Because a whole lots of secret might have adverse effect on the relationship. Deep secrets like the crazy moments back then in school or before you both meet each other. Should the revelations be on a light platform or very intense but the implication is; if the discussion is not intense but he or she get to discover, the worst case scenario might spring Up, casing more harm. Prior to this ;would your share your deep secret with your partner?? |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by buygala(m): 7:25pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Nope. ... there is a reason why it is called the 'past'... so it should remain  Everyone has dirty linen... telling someone else about them won't wash them clean.... if she or he knows, what's he or she going to do about it?  ... die for my sins so that I may be clean?  Personally I don't give a damn about my girl's past... the one wey concern me na the one wey she dey do as we dey together... Going all FBI on your bae will not solve any problems because the question is: NOW YOU KNOW, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? Apart from peculiar health situations, grave family issues which will definitely have an impact on the relationship, no one should be under an obligation to disclose past flings, debaucheries, etc.... 1 Like |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Mhizizzy(f): 7:28pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
I tink revelation Sud be light...let sleeping dogs lie..buh if he requests for it..den fine.. |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Tbillz(op): 7:36pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Mhizizzy:some guys or ladies explode when they discover ugly past. Any proactiveness against such? |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Enegod(m): 7:39pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
I think it all depends on what you’re holding back. If it pertains to future happiness or might stand in the way of moving the relationship forward then it needs to be shared.  |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Mhizizzy(f): 7:42pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Tbillz:Dnt tell until u are asked..nd if u tell nd dey go...let em..u cnt do anything bout d past again... |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Share everything. As in, every damn thing. . . Let them choose to remain with you. The advantage of it is that you'll have a guilt free relationship, and no _idiot in your past would be able to blackmail you in future. Imagine having a sextape and keeping it a secret in the new relationship, claiming that the past is the past. What happens when someone releases it and you current fiance find out in such a rude manner? Duuhh!! Use your tongue to count your teeth. . . 1 Like |
| Re: Sharing Past Experiences During Courtship; Any Limit? by Vision4God: 9:44pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Der is nothing secret. Reveal every part of u 2 ur fiance, so d devil doesnt hv a foothold in d future against u n ur home. Once u decide 2 share ur life wt a partner, u giv up secrecy & privacy. |
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