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cococandy:
Seems like the OP has a history of violence and not just mere misunderstandings with this girl. Obviously this is not the first time her parents and other people have mediated to bring peace between them. Even the way he described the father of the girl beckoning on her to move away from him as if he could hurt her by just looking at her, speaks volumes.

He's a good writer. I give that to him.

I like the way she left. Pretend like everything is OK and disappear when he least suspects.
Case settled.

Na who wan throway their own?
I am still trying to find the essence of his many threads on this issue
Does he want her back or what ?
Or is he mad her parents had the guts to take her away
If the same thing happened to his own daughter,wouldn't he want that man castrated?
The father is mild wallahi
He should have locked him up two full months,let his get akwarikwata in the cell and "wife" his bigger cell mates
Let me see the hand he will use to start threads looking for fans

mcdokwe:
I was going to marry her immediately she took in but she said her dad was still very mad and can't entertain my presence, she it was that advised we take it slow.

Her being a good girl doesn't however extend to hauling unwarranted insults at me at will

why is her father mad and can't stand your presence? Most Nigerian parents would want a girl to bring the man who impregnated her home.

Except they have something serious against him.
What do they have against you?

Is this girl the one her love made you go to jail?

Men especially can see through each other just as women can. So a man knows when another man who he thinks is not good enough for his daughter wants to come get her and he will do his best to protect his little girl.

Same way I'm sure when the time comes you won't want any scumbag trying to ruin your daughter's life.

If you know what the man has against you,you're halfway to solving this problem should it arise between you and your next babe because I sincerely hope this one doesn't come back to you. One of you might end up dead if she does.

mcdokwe:
good thing I didn't finish the story leaving you and your likes with wandering imaginations and misguided insinuations.

Guy it don do already.

why do you keep going back and fort? just read the comments, learn and go, you will give yourself high bp if you continue to mention people here.

I hope the girls take a look at his profile picture and tear four forty when he comes close or else it may be a thread about a girl giving up the ghost

cococandy:
why is her father mad and can't stand your presence? Most Nigerian parents would want a girl to bring the man who impregnated her home.

Except they have something serious against him.
What do they have against you?

Is this girl the one her love made you go to jail?

Men especially can see through each other just as women can. So a man knows when another man who he thinks is not good enough for his daughter wants to come get her and he will do his best to protect his little girl.

Same way I'm sure when the time comes you won't want any scumbag trying to ruin your daughter's life.

If you know what the man has against you,you're halfway to solving this problem should it arise between you and your next babe because I sincerely hope this one doesn't come back to you. One of you might end up dead if she does.

simple the dad doesn't want a broke nigga, the reason he is angry the reason he does not want marriage

mcdokwe:
the truth is I know when I am wrong and don't need anybody to tell me I am. In this case I might have a justification (her deserving it) I still feel guilty (the regret). Nothing I do or say can change the fact that I hit or plummeted her like others would have it. She isn't just any girl to me, she is the mother of my precious jewel and I really want to tell my sons not to hit a woman and brag that I never did (but I can't brag about that now) but I won't fail to tell my daughters and sister not to give any man a reason to hit them justified or not.

My dear, I still have a problem that deep within you, you think the beating and plummeting is justified and duly warranted. That thought alone is the reason why you beat her not just once but twice and the second time, the blows were deadlier like you said.

You need to have a re-orientation that there is no justification for spousal violence, this will guide you to do what is right in future situations.

Ask yourself if you were abused and provoked by a female boss, will you beat and plummet her? Or you will endure and exercise self control, even if you have to go and report her later.

Same with agberos and bus conductors, these guys provoke more than anything else but I don't see decent men remove their shirts and start to fight these guys in public, instead, they just shake their heads and walk away.

So why is it so easy for men to then beat their wives and still feel it is justified? I can't wrap my head around it. Someone you claim you love for that matter, she bore you a jewel, you even witnessed the pains she went thru to bore you this child, she stood by you when you were broke, she defied her parents and friends to have ur baby and be with you. And for a little misunderstanding and excess on her part, you instantly forget the past and rain deadly blows on her and till date, you still keep on saying she deserves it?
I will never understand that part truly.

Anyways, she is gone now but I tell you that she has rare qualities you won't find in every girl and many men will kill just to have her. Hopefully, she'll find someone who will not think it's justified to hit his woman.

babyosisi:
Na who wan throway their own?
I am still trying to find the essence of his many threads on this issue
Does he want her back or what ?
Or is mad her parents had the guts to take her away
If the same thing happened to his own daughter,wouldn't he want that man castrated?
The father is mild wallahi
He should have locked him up two full months,let his get akwarikwata in the cell and "wife" his bigger cell mates
Let me see the hand he will use to start threads looking for fans

Akwarikwata

You're a comedian. Seriously. You're wasting your talent

I think he wants her back. At least he may not go after her but if she comes back, he will welcome her back.

Listen to Pink's "Please Don't Leave Me"
It Tells his story.
I think there's a name for it.

Can't live with someone. Can't live without them.

Those kind of relationships are usually very passionate too. They had sex that same night he was plummeting her so hard some women(plural) couldn't stop him.

I'm glad they have separated. Or else One of them go use the baby stone the other in their heated passionate fights one day.

bangleslover:
lol.....guess you remember me, you helped me with my thread months back.

my signature will remind you

Thanks again and just decided to greet.

oh. How are you then? How are things going?

Rose2014:
Finally before I go prepare diner, no woman should cohabit with a man she's not married to even if they're seriously engaged. It makes the woman have a natural complex. It's worse when she's not bringing anything financially to the table. Everything the man does easily makes her act like an Agbero in maza maza motor park.
What I'm saying in essence is women should get very busy with productive things so they can have less time for friends/gossips. Same with men. Everyone needs to get busy. All these beat me I beat u are evidence of being idle minded

Fair enough!

Kimoni:
My dear, I still have a problem that deep within you, you think the beating and plummeting is justified and duly warranted. That thought alone is the reason why you beat her not just once and twice and the second time, the blows were deadlier like you said.

You need to have a re-orientation that there is no justification for spousal violence, this will guide you to do what is right in future situations.

Ask yourself if you were abused and provoked by a female boss, will you beat and plummet her? Or you will endure and exercise self control, even if you have to go and report her later.

Same with agberos and bus conductors, these guys provoke more than anything else but I don't see decent men remove their shirts and start to fight these guys in public, instead, they just shake their heads and walk away.

So why is it so easy for men to then beat their wives and still feel it is justified? I can't wrap my head around it. Someone you claim you love for that matter, she bore you a jewel, you even witnessed the pains she went thru to bore you this child, she stood by you when you were broke, she defied her parents and friends to have ur baby and be with you. And for a little misunderstanding and excess on her part, you instantly forget the past and rain deadly blows on her and till date, you still keep on saying she deserves it?
I will never understand that part truly.

Anyways, she is gone now but I tell you that she has rare qualities you won't find in every girl and many men will kill just to have her. Hopefully, she'll find someone who will not think it's justified to hit his woman.

God has a way of sometimes giving those men the kind of woman that will use broken bottles to shave their hair gorimakpa and they will be answering yes ma.
There are women out there that will pay him back good
I pray he marries one of them if his chi has marriage in his future

Let me go and baff jor

babyosisi:
Akirika
Only one night?
Her parents are too kind

@babyosisi
are you the girl's lawyer or something?? yeah he's feeling bad cos he really loves the girl who in my opinion is psychotic...easy in the dude, he's kind the girl should go and ask rihanna what's up. at least she was able to fck that same night.....

@Mcdokwe u should be thanking ur lord that u didn't marry Spartacus's junior sister (warrior at home = FOO00L) u guys would have been entertaining ur neighbours thereby converting ur home THE ONLY PLACE A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO ENJOY PEACE into a capua lolz hahahha bro the girl doesn't worth it, she had been a bad girl (she's been hauling insults at u at the slightest opportunity) and from my perception she doesn't have respect for you at all. in every relationship once respect is lost there then the time bomb will start ticking

icedbeatz:
in which aspect, clarify pls.

From your post, family should be treated differently and your wife differently.
U don't see any problem with that?
Pls explain a little more

It is very obvious women who are used to abusing and beating their husbands are very uncomfortable with this story. It is not surprising. Like will defend like,always.
Anyways OP do not allow anybody to make you feel less of a man by your actions. You are a brilliant, gifted young man who deserves better! My elder brother always told me: better things no dey finish for market.
Keep your head high! Start dating again. Sometimes God removes the good so that you can have the best. The era of Nkem is so over. This is now the era of Ngozi, Uju, Chika, Ifeoma, Ada, Ifunanya, Bola, Bisi, Aisha, Zainab.
Good Search

drlawizle:
Whats d similarity between a mother & a wife...that our fathers in the past deal with our mothers does that mean they'll punch dr own mothers?...think b4 u type poo abeg

Go and sit your ass.sS's down Mr! Is a wife also not the mother of somebody. Continue to justify hitting women, Rubbish.

babyosisi:
God has a way of sometimes giving those men the kind of woman that will use broken bottles to shave their hair gorimakpa and they will be answering yes ma.
There are women out there that will pay him back good
I pray he marries one of them if his chi has marriage in his future

Let me go and baff jor

The nos of guys who are in support of his actions on this thread is scary. I hope most of them don't mean it because I will really fear for the future of our single girls oo

cococandy:
oh. How are you then? How are things going?

am quite good now, not as bad as then.
Thanks what about you? nice pic btw

Lol this OP regrets doing the right thing hahaha


From what you said, I don't think you punched her hard enough. I don't see how a woman doesn't black out after receiving a punch from me. You were in a relationship with an animal, you bred with an animal and you regret for giving her the animal treatment?

That girlfriend of your's pushed you to an extreme length, you deserve praise for showing restraint. I would have definitely killed her.

bukatyne:
Well Bro,

Women need This message more

They should not entertain the idea of managing a husband....

However hope you Don't mind divorce rates skyrocketing

No!!! Men need my advice more cos 90% of problems are caused by women in marriages, these ladies go out there and portray their husbands as devils while they are killing the same man domestically. In d past, our forefather could be given that stipulated % but in 21st century, women are taking d lead. Fast forward to 21st century, men are more civilised, socially oriented and educated which informed their loving attitude towards d institution of marriage. If u doubt me, take a look around your neighbourhood and tell me how many guys that are ready to marry 2 to 3 wives like our forefathers? I presume your answer ll be negative cos they are more civilised and educated than our forefathers. Have you also noticed how loving 21st century guys are by cooking for their girlfriends and wives?

If there was no camera in d elevator in which Jay Z was brutalised and battered by Solange, the same Solange could have accused Jay Z of beating and abusing her. And women world would have risen to d occasion by condemning Jay Z to death but cos it was a man, d whole case was swept under d carpet. Double standard !!! isn't it?

The above case study is exactly what men are going through in their homes but no camera to show the world what their wives have subjected them into.............


My dear, I have seen some marriages in which husbands have been turned to nothing but Mr Nobody and my heart wept for these men.

Life could be funny sometimes and full of mystery; d good men always end up with evil/bad wives while good ladies always end up with bad men.

one side of the story.. the other side of the story matters too.

Owliver:
are you 15yrs old or what How could you say such hahahahahahahaha *lmao happy sunday

hahahah I m 5.mr dat babe is a nigerian or don't u think she deserve 2 be Mrs sm1?
D same frends she left cos of him, she went bk 2
I still stand she wz frustrated in d relationship and she exprees it by hurting him.he is nt a sensetive lover
Take it or leave it,

bukatyne:
Their father's (men ) must have been terrible

Well well terrible men = terrible daughters

When We tell you guys to be responsible and reasonable, you don't listen

Yes, their fathers. I don't see the point you are trying to make by pointing out to us that they are men; except some fathers are women where you come from. In any case, I never said anything about their fathers being "terrible". But they simply dropped the ball on giving their daughters proper attention and nurturing. Many fathers were just too busy playing the role of provider while keeping a distance from their daughters. That was my point.

And further, anybody that is stuck on the matter of gender wars (all men are ****, all women are **** type of bu11shit) is at best a m0ron and at worst psychotic.

Kimoni:
The nos of guys who are in support of his actions on this thread is scary. I hope most of them don't mean it because I will really fear for the future of our single girls oo

Indeed I fear for the single girls of today. I will advise them to retrace their steps to their fathers or men in their families and get close to them. If they can develop love for the men in their families (which they obviously lack), they will be able to extend it to men outside.

GentleToks:
No!!! Men need my advice more cos 90% of problems are caused by women in marriages, these ladies go out there and portray their husbands as devils while they are killing the same man domestically. In d past, our forefather could be given that stipulated % but in 21st century, women are taking d lead. Fast forward to 21st century, men are more civilised, socially oriented and educated which informed their loving attitude towards d institution of marriage. If u doubt me, take a look around your neighbourhood and tell me how many guys that are ready to marry 2 to 3 wives like our forefathers? I presume your answer ll be negative cos they are more civilised and educated than our forefathers. Have you also noticed how loving 21st century guys are by cooking for their girlfriends and wives?

If there was no camera in d elevator in which Jay Z was brutalised and battered by Solange, the same Solange could have accused Jay Z of beating and abusing her. And women world would have risen to d occasion by condemning Jay Z to death but cos it was a man, d whole case was swept under d carpet. Double standard !!! isn't it?

The above case study is exactly what men are going through in their homes but no camera to show the world what their wives have subjected them into.............


My dear, I have seen some marriages in which husbands have been turned to nothing but Mr Nobody and my heart wept for these men.

Life could be funny sometimes and full of mystery; d good men always end up with evil/bad wives while good ladies always end up with bad men.

Well said boss. I agree so much wt u. May God help us

LAGATA:
Well said boss. I agree so much wt u. May God help us

Amen.

Hmmm.....it was brewing.....and finally boiled over. It cuts both ways... a man shouldn't hit a woman nor a woman torment a man. You had to see signs of change... the disrespect etc and should have put an end to that by cutting her loose if she insists.You encouraged it by trading insults or allowing her to freely run off her mouth to the point that she can say whatever she wants to and even hit you....she saw you now as a punk. Cut her loose for a while and let her find out how friendly her friends really care abot her.

bangleslover:
am quite good now, not as bad as then.
Thanks what about you? nice pic btw

I'm fine

Thank you

mcdokwe:
like it has always been my dream to bear a child outside marriage, like I raped her and all that. I am done replying you

...indeed it was not your 'dream' to have a child outside wedlock..so whose was it? ..your girlfriends?..nonsense!

...well i would advise you to carry your badge of (dis)honour as a woman batterer and quit giving lame excuses cos we can see right through your kind and care less about how you choose to live your life..

..you are sorry yet you are justifying your actions ...were is the remorse in your sob story for crying out loud?...

..Too many badly behaved males all over the place..so tragic

logica:
Indeed I fear for the single girls of today. I will advise them to retrace their steps to their fathers or men in their families and get close to them. If they can develop love for the men in their families (which they obviously lack), they will be able to extend it to men outside.

make u and kimoni leave matter most od dem na their women dey contorl dem,dey just cum here and act as a tough man. 4 dere yeye mind

Rose2014:
From your post, family should be treated differently and your wife differently.
U don't see any problem with that?
Pls explain a little more

I said that with regards to a bad, irritating, unreasonable wife my dear, an unreasonable wife shouldn't be treated like family but a wife is also a member of the family (though not by blood but by agreement or love whatever the case ) so she ( a good wife) deserves the best of everything thing in the world because she's a good, caring, loving wife. at a point she can be treated better than anyone else I.e IF SHE DESERVES IT!!!!!

babyosisi:
Na who wan throway their own?
I am still trying to find the essence of his many threads on this issue
Does he want her back or what ?
Or is he mad her parents had the guts to take her away
If the same thing happened to his own daughter,wouldn't he want that man castrated?
The father is mild wallahi
He should have locked him up two full months,let his get akwarikwata in the cell and "wife" his bigger cell mates
Let me see the hand he will use to start threads looking for fans

..

..you can be really funny i tell you..real 'akwarikwata'

funmercy1:
make u and kimoni leave matter most od dem na their women dey contorl dem,dey just cum here and act as a tough man. 4 dere yeye mind

lolzz hahahhahhahhaha #RealTalk though those kind of guys are defined as PUCCI WHIPPED GUYS.. a guy in his right respects, loves, adores his lady when she deserves to be treated so but when she fks up u calmly call her to order but if she plays deaf or acts like an animal /bitcch then by ALL MEANS give her the animal treatment ...... it's simple, EVERY ACTION RESULTS TO EQUAL REACTION ...

unless they resort to juju to control their husbands abi puppets (thank my God will always be there for me and my momma can pray like Daaaaaaaaaamn)

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