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Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by rottenegg: 11:10am On Mar 03, 2015

With all these Naija guys pretending to be ''finebabes'' on social networks....you gotta be kidding me.
People still dey fall in love via social networks huh

Next topic pls.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 11:11am On Mar 03, 2015

Acebrain28:
thank you very much.. Everything you do much be approved by Yahweh first.

Uwc

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by freecocoa(f): 11:16am On Mar 03, 2015

emusmith:
On?

The extent of the disability, say a limp I can deal with, but crippled, I'll pass, because I don't think I can shoulder the responsibility that will come with it. That sorta thing.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by hadey123: 11:18am On Mar 03, 2015

lets ask
if something happens and i become disable
would i want someone to love me?

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Adiwana: 11:19am On Mar 03, 2015

Personally for me,once i like you,i like you...i dont look at your body..never experienced such sha but i feel your disability will strengthen the relationship
Had this our neigbhour for Villa,my mumsy dey tell us the man was dating the wife(then) and they loved each other.the man had his normal sight at daytime buh once im reach evening,around 6,he begins to lose his sight.but morning again,he sees clearly...so after the man went blind but the woman insisted even against all the advise given to her.later them marry and had kids until the man died of natural causes.so you see,its poosible..

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Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by kelobestline(m): 11:21am On Mar 03, 2015

nothing is impossible with love; so why not.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by encryptjay(m): 11:25am On Mar 03, 2015

Our ladies wouldn't hesitate if it's a rich oldie...

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Henrolla(m): 11:26am On Mar 03, 2015

cozy7:
Mental disability is worse than physical disability.

I'D RATHER DATE SOMEONE WHO'S PHYSICALLY DISABLED THAN ONE WHO'S MENTALLY DISABLED. (IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN)

but the mentally disabled would have been detected in the course of the online conversation.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by lolaxavier(m): 11:36am On Mar 03, 2015

remsonik:
If cobhams could get a woman to love him and care for him then its possible

You forget say cobhams get money...like say we no dey see blind people for road, why people no marry dem?

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by victorD3: 11:37am On Mar 03, 2015

remsonik:
If cobhams could get a woman to love him and care for him then its possible

That dude is talented than any Nigerian I have ever seen and he's stinky rich too.

Next!

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Hazardd(m): 11:39am On Mar 03, 2015

emusmith:
Can the Lord lead to that area?

I thought He only leads us beside still waters?

i mean in making that kind of decision whether to date her or not ,i need God lead lol

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by ClintonNzedimma(m): 11:39am On Mar 03, 2015

I am quite disabled (too tall).
This thread explains why i have neva dated.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by ojosegun2011(m): 11:51am On Mar 03, 2015

Of course yes, why not? In fact I was to marry a deaf and dumb beautiful girl way back in 1990 before her parents separated us on the ground of religion. I so much loved her to the extent that I decided to convert to Islam but they were hell bent on marrying her to someone with a muslim background because they thought I wasn't honest with my decision to truly convert. Unfortunately for her parents, the girl married a muslim cleric that later became a born again christian and now a reknowned evangelist.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Guruboi(m): 11:52am On Mar 03, 2015

emusmith:
Sub-Topic: Can Your Love For Someone Break Through The Barrier Of A Disability In Them?

Does It Have Later Effects?

Ok, I'm referring singles now.

What if you physically met this girl who has been blowing your mind on social network?

You've already fallen in love with her before discovering this "impediment".

What would you do?

Mind you, there are many other disabilities: To some people, being fat, too slim, too short or too tall is an "impediment".

Can you ignore that impediment or "spot" and go all the way with her/ him?

How on earth can someone fall inlove online. Is that not madness? Damn i dnt hv bullshit to say here.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by bjprodint(f): 11:57am On Mar 03, 2015

i am married 2 a criple,and we ar happy with a daughter.our daughter is strong and healthy

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Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 03, 2015

emusmith:
Sub-Topic: Can Your Love For Someone Break Through The Barrier Of A Disability In Them?

Does It Have Later Effects?

Ok, I'm referring singles now.

What if you physically met this girl who has been blowing your mind on social network?

You've already fallen in love with her before discovering this "impediment".

What would you do?

Mind you, there are many other disabilities: To some people, being fat, too slim, too short or too tall is an "impediment".

Can you ignore that impediment or "spot" and go all the way with her/ him?

metro Cruz connect comes to mind...this chick loved me like craze BT I ignored her cos of her looks!regretted it though, cos of my cuteness BT hey!I wasn't really searching for love over the radio...so in a way it was to her advantage.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Mar 03, 2015

freecocoa:
The extent of the disability, say a limp I can deal with, but crippled, I'll pass, because I don't think I can shoulder the responsibility that will come with it. That sorta thing.

Nice. Sincere.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Mar 03, 2015

bjprodint:
i am married 2 a criple,and we ar happy with a daughter.our daughter is strong and healthy

Wow! Great one cheesy

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Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 03, 2015

Guruboi:
How on earth can someone fall inlove online. Is that not madness? Damn i dnt hv bullshit to say here.

That's not the point!

Can you date her if she was with you?

undecided

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 03, 2015

Hazardd:
i mean in making that kind of decision whether to date her or not ,i need God lead lol

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by centjamie(m): 12:30pm On Mar 03, 2015

Dyt:
Is my dear TPIA disabled in anyway?
I think I want her like that

But really what's physical disability when he's got a pure hrt, is Cobhams not blind but he married the finest woman with the purest of love *forget money cos that's not all the matters*
Did tolu not marry seun the guy that has one and half leg?

Just gimmme that man that loves me deeper than the sea and ofcus loving him in return then the world is do beneath us.

*singing labyrinth ft emeli sande - beneath ur beautiful*

I love it if u mean it

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Mar 03, 2015

cozy7 post=312 55977:
Mental disability is worse than physical disability.

I'D RATHER DATE SOMEONE WHO'S PHYSICALLY DISABLED THAN ONE WHO'S MENTALLY DISABLED. (IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN)

seconded sir

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by smeagolab: 12:45pm On Mar 03, 2015

This question reminds me of the relationship between Park Si On and Cha Yoon Seo in the kdrama Good Doctor. Back to the question, no, I don't think I can date someone with disability.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by enomakos(m): 12:53pm On Mar 03, 2015

i have been lucky to date two beautiful and wonderful women even with mine hearing impairment

love know no boundary

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by opethom(m): 1:27pm On Mar 03, 2015

Yes

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by enomakos(m): 1:30pm On Mar 03, 2015

[quote
author=bjprodint post=31258417]i am married 2 a criple,and we ar happy
with a daughter.our daughter is strong and healthy[/quote]i am very proud of you mine sister

holla to ur hubby

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Gsmiles26(m): 1:38pm On Mar 03, 2015

First of all internet love cannot be so strong dat it can't be broken as its just mere fantacy but then it also depends on the nature of the disability,but totally out of the question is lame,slowpoke,dwarf,and bebebe...

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Gsmiles26(m): 1:42pm On Mar 03, 2015

enomakos:
i am very proud of you mine sister

holla to ur hubby

Did u marry her fresh like dat or you already knew or had affections b4 the incident?
I guess the latter was d case

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by Dyt(f): 1:51pm On Mar 03, 2015

centjamie:
I love it if u mean it

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by intergral(m): 1:53pm On Mar 03, 2015

freecocoa:
In all honesty, it depends.

like you just said "it depends" but as for me I will only marry person with disability if and only if we were in love before she got the disability due to injuries acquired by accident for example if her leg or hand was cut off or if she got a mentally impaired by the accident I will not stop loving her because I don't know what will happen to me too.

Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by sallygentle(m): 2:03pm On Mar 03, 2015

for me,I will a lady of disability. if not u who then.
let us all believe they didn't plan to b who they are.
u can inbox me Mashallah.

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