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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by ejiro2130(m): 1:16pm On Mar 02, 2015
Op haven't you heard that two heads are better than one??




Invite her friend over, stop been stingy grin
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by An0nimus: 4:41pm On Mar 02, 2015
Mhizizzy:
Lesbians r less threat Dan gayz
While I understand your post do note that the term gay is more recently used to define homosexuality in general.

gay [gey]

—adjective, gay·er, gay·est.

of, relating to, or exhibiting sexual desire or behavior directed toward a person or persons of one's own sex; homosexual: a gay couple.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by An0nimus: 4:55pm On Mar 02, 2015
FrancisTony:
Your wife is a bisexual not a lesbian and no sex skills of yours will make her heterosexual.
This is what happen when Nigerians are filled with hate and won't allow people with different sexual orientation to live their life as it pleases them. To each on their own!

If you love her and she love you, I'll advice you to continue with her because it's not her fault that she found herself in a pathetic country like Nigeria.

Had it been as a bisexual, she was given an opportunity to choose between being a heterosexual and lesbian, and she chose heterosexual, it would have been a different case.


Lawd have mercy!
Francistony to the rescue!

The beautiful thing with the internet and in this case NL is the records are always there to see. In a few years time when you read some of comments you'll be shaking your head and laughing at yourself.

Dygeasy please continue asking him what he truly stands for cool
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by steppin: 4:59pm On Mar 02, 2015
Raiders:
You are a lucky man. Tell her to invite her friend over so you can have a 3some sex together. grin
Badt guy! Taking advantage of a real situation.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 5:12pm On Mar 02, 2015
An0nimus:

Francistony to the rescue!

The beautiful thing with the internet and in this case NL is the records are always there to see. In a few years time when you read some of comments you'll be shaking your head and laughing at yourself.

Dygeasy please continue asking him what he truly stands for cool
Lol, what do you mean by your first line? grin
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by SirBlack999(m): 5:30pm On Mar 02, 2015
Thats a call for 3some!
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 7:35pm On Mar 02, 2015
FrancisTony:

The fact is that I'm a liberal Christian not the one that would enforce my religious belief on other people who don't share the same view with me....
To me, I don't care about anyone's sexual orientation or promiscuity.
If anyone is gay/lesbian by birth or choice, it's still none of my business.

Talking about insensitive an insensible homosexualism, it shouldn't concern you to determine what's insensible - going by biblical standard, no one is righteous and we all do insensible things. It's not right to determine it.

Now, following the footstep of Jesus whom I believe his teachings; In John8:7, he said that anyone who has no sin should should cast the first stone when the adulterous woman was presented to him, not-minding that adultery is one of the sin castigated in old testament with homosexualism. If my master who's devoid of irregularities could overlook a sinner, who am I who is a sinner himself?

In some protestant belief that grace has saved us, "Gays/Lesbian and sinners will make heaven" since believing and confessing in Jesus is already enough.

P.S- I don't share that view and it's a heresy.
@ the emboldened, does that blind us from really seeing things as they really are? Do you know one thing about us (humans)? We know what's right and what's wrong and the moral justification of the wrongs are obvious (to the religious ones amongs us), yet we still go ahead and do those things. It's that crazy. I'm not asking you to cast any stone n or am I interested in dipping my hand into the soil to pick up a stone either. We know right from wrong.

The subject of discuss which is homosexualism is frowned at in every religion doctrine and it's as well weird and bizzare to every sane human wired properly mentally and psychologically so it's hard to justify it in any known way. Don't bother going scientific.

I'm pretty sure it would be your business if you were the OP or close to him.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 8:08pm On Mar 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
I'm pretty sure it would be your business if you were the OP or close to him.
Trust me, it's not my business if anyone is a lesbian - neither do i seek for their threèsome

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 8:19pm On Mar 02, 2015
FrancisTony:

Trust me, it's not my business if anyone is a lesbian - neither do i seek for their threèsome
Be there first. It could be your business
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by An0nimus: 10:18pm On Mar 02, 2015
FrancisTony:

Lol, what do you mean by your first line? grin
Imagine you in a Superman type costume with an F on your chest swooping into threads to save a damsel in distress or go against popular opinion grin
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by 1miccza: 10:29pm On Mar 02, 2015
From your post Op i can deduce the following,first the text you saw doesn't mean she had anything cos she wished they had fun, for all i care that your wife opted for you,she might have had a change of heart you two should have a heart to heart discussion backed up by prayers
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 10:58pm On Mar 02, 2015
An0nimus:

Imagine you in a Superman type costume with an F on your chest swooping into threads to save a damsel in distress or go against popular opinion grin
grin tongue
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by KanwuliaJara: 11:22pm On Mar 02, 2015
So?
What is the problem?
I don't see any o.
You have options.

Stay or LEAVE!

Simple!!!!! kiss

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by sorextee(m): 11:41am On Mar 03, 2015
Bros, e no better make u catch ur wife with anoda woman, pass make u see her with anoda man? God know say I go join them..
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by kelly86(m): 2:59pm On Mar 03, 2015
Go back and re-read what the op wrote very well and u will be convince
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by torchwave: 7:55pm On Mar 03, 2015
Dygeasy:
Francis, one quick question please;

On what side of the divide are you? One moment you're brimming hot defending the tenets and values of the christian faith and the next (like now) you're preaching live and let live on a matter as sensitive and insensible as Homosexualism.

It isn't in anyway a sensible or bearably thinkable sexual orientation. At least it ought not be as it defies all you stand for religion-wise just as your Virgin/Non-Virgin crusade. I don't want to assume you're confused on being Religious and being Realistic.

FrancisTony is a personification of confusion. For a so-called Christian to defend the practice of homosexualism and softly stroke it with words aimed at presenting it as something that affects one's character due to no fault of theirs speaks volumes about this Christian.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 8:04pm On Mar 03, 2015
torchwave:
FrancisTony is a personification of confusion. For a so-called Christian to defend the practice of homosexualism and softly stroke it with words aimed at presenting it as something that affects one's character due to no fault of theirs speaks volumes about this Christian.
Provide a biblical verse where Jesus condemned homosexual (any sinner) and we gonn' start.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by baralatie(m): 8:41pm On Mar 03, 2015
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andyblaze!!!
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by maclatunji: 7:58am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:
Your wife is a bisexual not a lesbian and no sex skills of yours will make her heterosexual.
This is what happens when Nigerians are filled with hate and won't allow people with different sexual orientation to live their life as it pleases them. To each on their own!

If you love her and she love you, I'll advice you to continue with her because it's not her fault that she found herself in a pathetic country like Nigeria.

Had it been as a bisexual, she was given an opportunity to choose between being a heterosexual and lesbian, and she chose heterosexual, it would have been a different case.

Lawd have mercy!

You're the pathetic person here. He has the right to walk out of the marriage if she can't stop her abhorrent ways.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 8:10am On Mar 04, 2015
maclatunji:


You're the pathetic person here. He has the right to walk out of the marriage if she can't stop her abhorrent ways.
Then, give him the advice and don't quote me.
Was it not society that forced her into marriage?. Had it been she's in America or developed country that respect human rights, would she have married a man?
SMH

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by torchwave: 8:31am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:

Then, give him the advice and don't quote me.
Was it not society that forced her into marriage?. Had it been she's in America or developed country that respect human rights, would she have married a man?
SMH
Then why subject an innocent man to a doomed marriage because your sexual orientation has no legal/societal approval? Would it be a crime 4 her to remain single if she's really passionate about it?

In answer to your previous question, Jesus never came to condemn the world but to save mankind from damnation (John 3: 17 I guess). He didn't judge anyone. That was why He kept quiet when one of the thieves on the cross questioned His power and it is the same reason He promised the other thief on the cross paradise. He never hurt a fly. He let a prostitute wipe His feet with perfume, He did not condemn a woman caught in adultery, He ate and drank with sinners. However, in 1 Corinthians 6:9, the Bible expressly condemns homosexualism. You can read it to verify. Beware, you might be a liberal Christian but God never changes and His Word remains the same - all sinners, unbelievers, adulterers, homosexuals, liars, drunkards, disobedient to parents, sexual perverts, whoremongers shall have their part in the Lake of Fire.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 8:51am On Mar 04, 2015
torchwave:
In answer to your previous question, Jesus never came to condemn the world but to save mankind from damnation (John 3: 17 I guess). He didn't judge anyone. That was why He kept quiet when one of the thieves on the cross questioned His power and it is the same reason He promised the other thief on the cross paradise. He never hurt a fly. He let a prostitute wipe His feet with perfume, He did not condemn a woman caught in adultery, He ate and drank with sinners. However, in 1 Corinthians 6:9, the Bible expressly condemns homosexualism. You can read it to verify. Beware, you might be a liberal Christian but God never changes and His Word remains the same - all sinners, unbelievers, adulterers, homosexuals, liars, drunkards, disobedient to parents, sexual perverts, whoremongers shall have their part in the Lake of Fire.[/i]
It's cool that you know that Jesus didn't judge or condemn anybody. My point is that homosexuals should be given freedom to do whatever they like - we are not anywhere better.

God gave mankind a freewill to do whatsoever he wish.
The same way I tolerate and don't care about boyfriends and girlfriends having sex before marriage, is the same way I don't care about anything gays and lesbians do in their closet.

I wage war against adultery like dygeasy opined because someone is hurt in the cause of it - Though I don't care if husband and wife take a consent from each other before engaging in it.

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 8:58am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:

It's cool that you know that Jesus didn't judge or condemn anybody. My point is that homosexuals should be given freedom to do whatever they like - we are not anywhere better.

God gave mankind a freewill to do whatsoever he wish.
The same way I tolerate and don't care about boyfriends and girlfriends having sex before marriage, is the same way I don't care about anything gays and lesbians do in their closet.

I wage war against adultery like dygeasy opined because someone is hurt in the cause of it - Though I don't care if husband and wife take a consent from each other before engaging in it.
Francis, no one cares about you caring or not. You're not the center of focus abi na only you dey here?

All of us dey here grin. What is wrong remains wrong, forget about judging.

Remind me again the sins of the people of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 9:04am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:

Then, give him the advice and don't quote me.
Was it not society that forced her into marriage?. Had it been she's in America or developed country that respect human rights, would she have married a man?
SMH
Human rights? Seriously? Like freedom of expression, freedom of movement? Freedom to _fuck a fellow man's yansh?

Francis! If that's the sort of development you crave and wish for Nigeria, I'd rather we remained a third-world developing-probably-never-gonna-develop country.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 9:13am On Mar 04, 2015
Dygeasy:
Francis, no one cares about you caring or not. You're not the center of focus abi na only you dey here?

All of us dey here grin. What is wrong remains wrong, forget about judging.

Remind me again the sins of the people of Sodom and Gomorrah.
It seems someone need a bible schooling and I'm ready to help. grin

For your information, sins of sodom wasn't mentioned in the old testament(Genesis). Y'all are referencing on homosexualism because two men wanted to rape an Angel of the Lord.

Here is the sins of Sodom;

Ezekiel16-49:50

49. "Look, this was the inquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
50. "And they were haughty and committed abomination before Me; therefore I took them away as I saw fit.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 9:16am On Mar 04, 2015
Dygeasy:
Human rights? Seriously? Like freedom of expression, freedom of movement? Freedom to _fuck a fellow man's yansh?

Francis! If that's the sort of development you crave and wish for Nigeria, I'd rather we remained a third-world developing-probably-never-gonna-develop country.
You are heterosexual, right? You don't find men attractive...

Nobody is asking you to fùck a man ass. Gerrit angry
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 9:20am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:

It seems someone need a bible schooling and I'm ready to help. grin

For your information, sins of sodom wasn't mentioned in the old testament(Genesis). Y'all are referencing on homosexualism because two men wanted to rape an Angel of the Lord.

Here is the sins of Sodom;

Ezekiel16-49:50

49. "Look, this was the inquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
50. "And they were haughty and committed abomination before Me; therefore I took them away as I saw fit.
You are a very stubborn motherf*ucker!

You very well do get my point and basis of argument.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 9:24am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:

You are heterosexual, right? You don't find men attractive...

Nobody is asking you to fùck a man ass. Gerrit angry
And to condone it on the basis of human rights is rather unintelligent if you ask me.

How dyu see Bestiality, incest and other bizzarre sexual orientation?

It ain't about religion. Human Beings were created perfectly. The least we can do is do things normally as God planned it or as creation bestowed things upon us.

Adam and Eve Francis!!! Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve or Peter. Gerrit!!!
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 04, 2015
Dygeasy:
You are a very stubborn motherf*ucker!

You very well do get my point and basis of argument.

Pele! grin grin grin grin
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 04, 2015
Dygeasy:
And to condone it on the basis of human rights is rather unintelligent if you ask me.

How dyu see Bestiality, incest and other bizzarre sexual orientation?

It ain't about religion. Human Beings were created perfectly. The least we can do is do things normally as God planned it or as creation bestowed things upon us.

Adam and Eve Francis!!! Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve or Peter. Gerrit!!!
Homosexuality is between two consenting adults.

Incést is likely to produce weak offsprings with deformity. It is bad because it subjects innocent kids to trauma.

Bestiality - man or woman take a carnal knowledge of an animal without its consent.
Animals breed many venereal disease that's harmful to man when contacted.

Though incest is acceptable provided the person don't engage in sex with a normal human later on.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Trailblazer2: 9:38am On Mar 04, 2015
Bruv!, when life hands you lemons, you make lemonade.

To salvage the situation, just let her know you are open to a 3some.

Thank smiley cheesy

(hahahaha grin grin grin lol...naIraland censor... 3some= a party or triple sin) grin grin grin

For reals though, not cool Oluwaseun angry angry
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 9:46am On Mar 04, 2015
FrancisTony:

Homosexuality is between two consenting adults.

Incést is likely to produce weak offsprings with deformity. It is bad because it subjects innocent kids to trauma.

Bestiality - man or woman take a carnal knowledge of an animal without its consent.
Animals breed many venereal disease that's harmful to man when contacted.

Though incest is acceptable provided the person don't engage in sex with a normal human later on.
I give up!

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