₦airaland Forum

softysparky:
No wonder girls chop them dry and stick to the mature guys.

naijaboiy:
Bro,,you'll get married some day.
Will you use your wealth to buy the love of a woman whom you want to Live eternally with?

damseyl:
not at all

damseyl:
are you a philosopher abi na behaviourist?

malonephill:
I never support the opinion of using money to seduce woman! There is a word the guy pointed which reckon with!

Ok I gerrit.

Truckpusher:
Well, I got your point but I also want you to know that sometimes if not all the time money defines the class of people you'd come across and have some kind of relationship with ,be it casual or otherwise and this is a fact.It is worthy to note that your value as an individual in a capitalist environment like ours is usually tied to what you can afford in the society and this is sad but it is the truth.You can't entirely blame people that run with that mentality that you must be rich to be able to find love even if it is not true love like you rightly said that a woman will always leave you even with your wealth but the question is how many of our sisters and mothers has actually left having it at the back of their mind that it's a cold world out their and what guarantee do they have that they'll find true love even if the fellow can't afford the basic necessities of life?
I understood your point but thinking that people will change that mentality overnight is nothing but a wishful thinking - Have you bothered to ask yourself why girls in their early 20s are getting married to men in their 70s with four wives at home ? Everybody wants security and money is that security and in any capitalist ideology people will always use what they have to get a better deal to satisfy their needs and the game of sex and women isn't left out of it.

You can find through love with or without money but how sure are you that this is what you actually wanted when you begin to meet people with all that cash in your pocket to waste.

Don't blame Nigerian men only it's a global problem wherever you have capitalism holding sway.After all, it wasn't like this in the 60s and 70s even in the 80s.

Chai...i for just let you jump and pass as you talk before o

Well you brought up a very good defence. It will definitely be difficult for men to change this mentality over night. As it has almost become the Norm.

Only very few men have a different view of this.

naijaboiy:
Thank You sir! I've been seeing so many guys use that line of late here on Nairaland and it's just sad.

mirexxx:
none! let him be plz.
asking silly questions

damseyl:
yes ma'am

Truckpusher:
I have repented and wouldn't want a sinner take me back. Please watch your utterances - Truckpusher for Christ 2015 .

prettythicksme:
I like money,i no go lie

cutieberie1:
hmmm...

naijaboiy:
i guess that word up there is your best line?

cutieberie1:
sir whats d problem dis tym...how do u knw its my fav well sha i onli use it if i wanna cm bk to comment in a thread

naijaboiy:
I know because I always see you use it.

No hard feelings.

LewisO:
Naijaboiy i miss this topic when u created it newly. Just saw it now, does folks typing rubbish, they are just too lucky i wasn't here then.

There comments are just too annoying.

Does that means some Nairaland guys are just too down to the bottom of iQ?

Haha! My brother some naija guys have made up their mind already that money is the way.

naijaboiy:
Haha! My brother some naija guys have made up their mind already that money is the way.

I wonder if lalasticlala will consider and help me put this topic on front page .

At least it's educative.