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Quit!quit!!quit!!! by bamson94(op): 6:52am On Mar 06, 2015

I had to stop all that I was doing to write this, literally.
I just saw a movie and I’ve been crying ever since. I
don’t know who this is meant for but PLEASE if you
are in a relationship where you are afraid, where you
have no peace, where you don’t trust your partner,
where you are molested and abused emotionally,
physical or verbally. Please leave. You deserve better
and even more, there IS better. Yes, there is better
but you are so caught up in your bubble that you
believe there’s nothing more than what you have out
there. PLEASE leave. Forget about what you think
you ‘feel’, think about what you deserve and your
future. Forget about the magic words "I don't want to
lose you". Indeed, they don't want to lose you and
that is purely out of selfishness. They have 'what'
they want. Can you really say you have what you
want in that abusive relationship? Is that really the
life you want? At the end of the day, it is YOUR life
and YOU deserve some happiness too. Don’t give up
yourself trying to please someone that is clearly
hurting you. It may be hard but please leave that
relationship. Let go and when you find true happiness
with someone that appreciates you and knows your
worth, you would wonder why you stayed in that
abusive relationship for so long. The problem with us
is that we settle a lot. We settle for things we clearly
aren't happy with. I can’t accurately translate the
burden I feel right now into words but the bottom line,
is know your worth and runaway and never ever
ever turn back. Run into the Arms of God who made
you, He created you and knows what He put in you
so He knows your true worth. See yourself the way
He sees you, maybe that will help you not settle for
less than you truly deserve.