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I met this girl while in school,she was gentle, beautiful and guys crave to have her,we were so in love ,we were known all over the campus,but the thing is that this girl is practically confused, she wants a perfect human with no flaws whatsoever, she broke up with me 3 times in our 11 months of dating,d last one was 2 months ago,she broke up with me for no reason,she said she just needed space,I was heart broken,she asked if we could still b friends, I accepted, der is this whatsapp group she created that includes
3 of my guys in school and 2 other girls,one day,she added another girl who happens to b her bestie back then in secondary school,I found the girl attractive,we got talking, we met,went on a couple of dates and now we are officialy dating,I know u will say I am dating my ex friend but there were no longer close,dey don't even chat,dey just say hi to each other once in a while,now the problem is,my ex came back asking me to forgive her,she has done countless of things i can't explain here,she has cheated on me before, I personally caught her but I still forgave her,I told her about my current relationship with her friend, and said I can't get back with her cos I will
hurt her friend, I told her we can only get back in an open relationship, she accepted and said she will fight for me,now the problem is her and her friend who am now dating are having serious problems, got to the extent of blocking each other on whatsapp, dey try as much as they can to take me out of their problems by trying to convince me dat am not the cause but I know I am a major factor,I love my new gf and she loves me too,I love the other too but am afraid she will one day break up with me again, things are getting out of hand,i want to have just 1 gf.ma pipu abeg help me with advice

Op....

Nigga, when a gurl dumps you...
Get a better chick

lawa o.. see dilemma

guy move on.. and if she new chic starts forming activity.. dump her ass too

missclassy:
Op....

d only reason wey I Neva abuse u b say u dey follow 3 pipu wey I admire

First how can you be genuinely in love with two people ?



Secondly girlfriends quarrel and sometimes always will so I'll advice you don't allow their quarrel bother you and its high time you stop being indecisive and choose who you wanna be with and let go of the other , your ex is just one of those that don't value what they have till they loose it so you better let her go and focus on your relationship .

elantraceey:
First how can you be genuinely in love with two people ?



Secondly girlfriends quarrel and sometimes always will so I'll advice you don't allow their quarrel bother you and its high time you stop being indecisive and choose who you wanna be with and let go of the other , your ex is just one of those that don't value what they have till they loose it so you better let her go and focus on your relationship .

thanks for the advice..I don't know how but sincerely, I like my ex more but her attitude irritates me,she has pushed me into starting to like another and the new girl gives me more attention which makes my love for her wax stronger day by day

Op u nid to b sure of who u really want, nd if its ur current gf, i advice u distance ur self a little frm ur ex....

Chizzy20:
Op u nid to b sure of who u really want, nd if its ur current gf, i advice u distance ur self a little frm ur ex....

av tried that but each time I think I am successfully getting rid of her,she comes back even more determined

Take ur stand and choose 1

Move on with the new girl bro trust me you don't want to have or be around a cheating partner no matter how much you claim to love them

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av tried that but each time I think I am successfully getting rid of her,she comes back even more determined

Op, once u ve stopped pickin her calls nd ignoring her msgs, no1 would tell her b4 she back's off..

Ur jst a confused fellow..luvin 2 gals at d same tym ..hmmm

U are foolish , go back to ur ex and regret it all ur life . Women naturally like boys that other girls like , she dumped u cos dr was no girl in ur life , now that u Hv found one , she wants u bk. she don't love u , she's just selfish . Infact op y I se even advice u , u are a big f.ool

cr7lomo:
U are foolish , go back to ur ex and regret it all ur life . Women naturally like boys that other girls like , she dumped u cos dr was no girl in ur life , now that u Hv found one , she wants u bk. she don't love u , she's just selfish . Infact op y I se even advice u , u are a big f.ool

bros your advice would have been properly digested by the op without the insults