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I ran across these tips a while ago and I thought I
should share with you.
1) No matter how good-looking a woman is, she will
always become boring (particularly sexually) with
time. The boredom accelerates if the relationship
becomes domestic (living together, marriage, etc.).
2) Men remain in boring relationships out of
sentimentality or financial convenience… but rarely
fear.
3) Over the long run, the periods that men are
without a partner and frustrated are generally
happier than being stuck in a relationship which has
lost its luster.
4) Women generally do the selecting in the earliest
phases of a relationship. Once a woman has
committed herself emotionally, the balance of power
shifts to the man (assuming he has some degree of
self-confidence).
5) Contrary to the myth that “looks don't matter” to
women, physical attraction may be the primary
and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is
difficult to determine just what will be physically
attractive to any particular female. Even though men
also value looks, they are far more willing to initially
compromise on looks in the pursuit of sex.
6) If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man,
there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.
7) If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a
man, there is very little he can do right on a
first date.
Always pay attention to a woman's actions. If she
says she likes you but will not respond to kissing or
touching, then she doesn't like you. Move on
immediately.
9) Just like there are many men who are simply
assholes, the same goes for women. If a woman is
rude or inconsiderate in the first few dates, move on
immediately – it will not get better with time.
10) Any strange psychological problems, drug
problems or baggage… move on immediately – it will
not get better with time.
11) All women have the same body parts. Don't
obsess over one particular female based on
appearance. It's a waste of life.
12) The vast majority of men get rejected much more
often than they seal the deal. If you are rejected you
are simply shooting par. Relax.
13) Above all, women crave attention. Women want
to date rock stars not because they find the man
himself exciting, but because they find the thought of
sharing the limelight exciting. Ask any young girl
what she wants to be. Top answers: model, actress,
singer .
14) The sad truth is that we can only truly know
ourselves. A wonderful woman you marry today
and trust completely may change radically over the
course of time to become your most vicious enemy.
There is absolutely no way to predict this or stop this
from happening. It is, ultimately, a matter of chance.
15) There are far more available women out there
than you think.
16) Humans are generally not very good at
monogamy. Most men in long-term relationships
cheat to varying degrees, and a great number of
women do as well. It's simply a matter of biology. If
you discover that your significant other had an affair,
the best course of action may sometimes be to take
the high road and let it go.
17) Never, never, never be afraid to approach a
female. To reiterate: they all have the same body
parts, and they are all composed of Carbon,
Hydrogen, Oxygen, Nitrogen, and trace elements.
There isn't a single woman on Earth who is “above”
you, no matter what her affectations and social
pretenses.
18) Women tend to be far more pragmatic about
relationships than men.
19) Unconditional love is a nice sentiment, but does
not generally apply to male/female relationships. It
does however, almost always apply to female/child,
and to a slightly lesser extent, male/child
relationships.
20) Never become financially entangled with a
female. If you decide to marry, do not even think of
doing so without a prenuptial agreement. This is
common practice in Europe.
21) Sex is generally overrated. The amount of effort
expended in obtaining it vs. the payoff is absurd.
22) If a woman in a relationship begins to lose
interest, it is usually impossible to regain it. The
feelings you are having of confusion and fear mean
something… trust your gut and move on
immediately.
23) After breakups, men usually tend to forget about
the sexual boredom and once again find their past
girlfriends exciting.
24) If a woman has not gained some form of
emotional stability by the time she is her mid-
twenties, then it is too late. Move on immediately.
25) Avoid women with a large number of pets or
women who pay unusual amounts of attention to
their pets.
26) Most first-time marriages fail. Consider that if you
decide to get married, there is better than a coin-flip
chance that you will be divorced. If any other civil
contract had as high a failure rate, Congress would
outlaw it. The world has changed dramatically in the
last three or four decades and many people have
postponed marriage until much later in life, or simply
never get married.
27) If you do decide to get married, remember that it
IS a contract - one that you can't get out of without a
great deal of expense and pain. Never be sentimental
about marriage. Love is only one piece of the pie. You
may love a woman terribly, but you may also be
unable to deal with her in everyday affairs and
money matters.
28) Avoid women with addictions, particularly the big
three: nicotine, alcohol, and born-again Christianity .
29) Never avoid discussing something that bothers
you out of fear of losing the relationship. Most
relationships will - sooner or later - be lost anyway.
It's better to stand up for yourself early on.
30) Always keep the ego in check. If a woman you are
approaching for the first time is rude or obnoxious,
simply go away. Tossing an insult or scathingly witty
comment back simply demonstrates that your self-
confidence is far lower than hers. Always, always,
always take the higher road. This doesn't mean be a
pushover, it means you bend with the wind (kind of a
Zen thing). The best way to disarm an obnoxious
female is to treat her with courtesy and respect.
31) There is an inverse relationship between self-
confidence and concern with what others think of
you.
32) Self-confident men desire sex, but don't dwell on
it.
33) Most reasonable, normal women will make it
clear if they are attracted to you or not very early on.
Period. If you have difficulty reading a woman's
motives, or find yourself dwelling on what she meant
by something she said, or you can't seem to pin
down a date, then move on immediately.
Which ones do you agree with? Which ones don't you
agree with, and why?

Source: [url]epicnaija.com/30/tips-for-dating-women[/url]

Toh, we don hear...

I've come across so much on women. This one's foreign...still applies. some point juxtapose though, one bit u saying a rude or inconsiderate woman won't change, next you saying a wonderful woman today may change and become your most vicious enemy -9 & 14. Quite enlightening, I must say.

34. Women loves money... And I dnt tink I agree wit no 11.

GreatOlu1:
34. Women loves money... And I dnt tink I agree wit no 11.

Ur reasons for nt agreeing wit number 11

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Dioxidane:
Toh, we don hear...

Did u actually read through it..

epicnaija:
Did u actually read through it..

Is there a price for reading it?

mylora:
I've come across so much on women. This one's foreign...still applies. some point juxtapose though, one bit u saying a rude or inconsiderate woman won't change, next you saying a wonderful woman today may change and become your most vicious enemy -9 & 14. Quite enlightening, I must say.

@9 nt dt they won't change bt it might b too late.. @14 its nt certain, sme might change while some won't.

epicnaija:
Ur reasons for nt agreeing wit number 11

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