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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by LadyX(f): 6:35am On Mar 10, 2015
Tymax:

Lol. I for fear o.
Don't get scared.... I don't bite. wink

So tell me why you blame the woman
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by englishmart(m): 6:36am On Mar 10, 2015
emusmith:


You don't have to suspect when you can ask...smiley
congratulations bro..
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Tymax(m): 6:38am On Mar 10, 2015
LadyX:

Don't get scared.... I don't bite. wink

So tell me why you blame the woman
Because she frustrated the poor man.
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by LadyX(f): 6:40am On Mar 10, 2015
bobbyruffy:
Please, what is porn?

Porn is abbreviation for "Picture of Reverend Nun"

P- picture
O-of
R-reverend
N-nun

cheesy

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by zingywingy: 6:42am On Mar 10, 2015
LadyX:


Do you want to tell me that it's only Christians that watch porn?

In Somalia there was a time (may 1 or 2 years ago) when men used to rape a lot. It was learned that they do it after watching porn. Somalians are mainly Muslims

Sorry.. I don't mean to attack religion.. but saying married men go for porn when their wives can't satisfy them..according to d write up..more than one wives wide rather b helpful... just why Islamic permits it
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by LadyX(f): 6:43am On Mar 10, 2015
zingywingy:


Sorry.. I don't mean to attack religion.. but saying married men go for porn when their wives can't satisfy them..according to d write up..more than one wives wide rather b helpful... just why Islamic permits it

Okay. No problem.
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 6:45am On Mar 10, 2015
I went for confession as a teenager;and I confessed to the priest that I watch porn videos and magazines...and he told me it's not good for teenagers that such magazines and videos are meant for married couples....so what the Bleep is ds woman talking about,if porn's actually meant for married couples...she shud go chek herself out,there's something wrong wit her,I don't tink her hubby watchn porn's one of "em!

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by goshikid: 6:45am On Mar 10, 2015
sh1tttttt. . .this act is nonsence!!
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Emilo(m): 6:50am On Mar 10, 2015
Truth be told, marriage no matter the sexual satisfaction and fantasies.. Its a matter of time for couples to wear out and get tired of each others. It takes the grace of God to stay put. Imagine, someone you are seeing naked everyday for the past 8 years......."Omo u sef must tire na"....Something else would be needed to console you.

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by UnimkeAk(m): 6:52am On Mar 10, 2015
We watch pornn to learn new tactics in hitting it right.
In the end, it is just a selfless act in the interest of the women.
(Training /retraining, new learning in a field are very important) cheesy grin




OYa ladies;
Porn addicted husband or a cheating one, who would u prefare ?

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by goshikid: 6:55am On Mar 10, 2015
rapbattle section should hit the fp too. . . .sh1ttt. . .we are all forgotten. . . . . .its getting boring. . . . . . .seun
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by lonelydora: 6:59am On Mar 10, 2015
englishmart:
what about my siggy this time? cheesy

I laugh whenever you change it. Dont ask me why.
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by michaelwilli(m): 6:59am On Mar 10, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Boring stuff from a possibly frigid wife.
se oro niyen? So insensitive a talk.
Nevadles Sai Buhari
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Homguy(m): 7:00am On Mar 10, 2015
what's her pain exactly? what does she want? women like this are often those sort who deprive their husband of creative enjoyable sex, and yet try to hold him captive to their lack luster sexuality. besides, am I the only seeing that this woman is a selfish wife? asking for prayers and all other stuffs, rather than prayers for her husband to be saved from that alluring snare.

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by englishmart(m): 7:01am On Mar 10, 2015
lonelydora:


I laugh whenever you change it. Dont ask me why.
you be igbo ko?
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 7:05am On Mar 10, 2015
EfemenaXY:


You still don't get it.

He is addicted to porn because it serves as a medium for him to subconsciously indulge in his fantasies.

The question is: why? Why does he have to turn to porn despite having a wife? Why can't she be what he watches.

She should shape up fast before this man acts on his fantasies with a real, live, babe...rather than running to confession with her Christian mother arms.

Inspiritus Sanctum.




You presume too much!

Your comments suggest that the man turned to po.rn in marriage. This is not necessarily the case. Many men were already addicted to po.rn before they met their wives.

Also, a wife's performance in bed is no single determinant on whether the man stops his addiction to po.rn. The woman can be as good in bed as the next po.rn star but if the man is not ready to fight his demons, he will never overcome it.

It is rather insensitive to dwell on the woman's performance in bed (which by the way you have no idea of) as the cause (not even a possible cause) of the man's addiction. The man got addicted and he should take responsibility for his actions not the wife.

PS: It is unfair to ask any wife to compete with this kinda addiction given that the man's exposure cum addiction to po.rn exposes him to very many different ladies with very many different body shapes, different heights, very different skin colours etc.

Thus it is impossible for the wife to satisfy that which gives him satisfaction from po.rn because of the obvious, she is just one lady, with one body type, one skin colour etc while the man gets his feel from different po.rn stars not just one.

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 7:08am On Mar 10, 2015
Bennymontana:
I went for confession as a teenager;and I confessed to the priest that I watch porn videos and magazines...and he told me it's not good for teenagers that such magazines and videos are meant for married couples....so what the Bleep is ds woman talking about,if porn's actually meant for married couples...she shud go chek herself out,there's something wrong wit her,I don't tink her hubby watchn porn's one of "em!

If that is true, your Priest knows next to nothing.
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 7:11am On Mar 10, 2015
Situation001:
The woman can simply transform herself to his fantasy now..















who have watched this film 'Mr & Mrs'...

It is impossible!
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by olu77(m): 7:11am On Mar 10, 2015
Emilo:
Truth be told, marriage no matter the sexual satisfaction and fantasies.. Its a matter of time for couples to wear out and get tired of each others. It takes the grace of God to stay put. Imagine, someone you are seeing naked everyday for the past 8 years......."Omo u sef must tire na"....Something else would be needed to console you.

Strong point
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by jony247(m): 7:12am On Mar 10, 2015
That wasn't written by an aggrieved wife. It's a mere fiction. An aggrieved wife won't have time for such a confusing ramblings. Abi she be blogger

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 7:15am On Mar 10, 2015
Oildichotomy:
Before you start using cuss words as a lady, I think you should know where to draw the line.

Even from the write-up, if at all you read it the woman in question is not doing something right. She even admitted her hubby is forthcoming with confessing of the sins and guilt.
That should tell you - The women might be doing something wrong.
And don't use stvpid to qualify people.
You're too pretty for that grin

How does the husband's willingness to confess translate to a wrong on the part of the lady?

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by rocksteady419(m): 7:17am On Mar 10, 2015
Ive being carrying out a research on porn addiction for a period of aeon n so far my critical history n historiography of dis study has enlightened me to d fact dat d addiction has all d trappings of a spiritual saga. I find it very discombobulating n lugubrious dat dis addiction has nothing to do with a spouses dexterity in bed, even Jordan Fires husband or bf as d case may b can also b a porn addict despite d fact dat she possesses immeasurable bed skills n she squirts for africa
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by olu77(m): 7:20am On Mar 10, 2015
striktlymi:


You presume too much!

Your comments suggest that the man turned to po.rn in marriage. This is not necessarily the case. Many men were already addicted to po.rn before they met their wives.

Also, a wife's performance in bed is no single determinant on whether the man stops his addiction to po.rn. The woman can be as good in bed as the next po.rn star but if the man is not ready to fight his demons, he will never overcome it.

It is rather insensitive to dwell on the woman's performance in bed (which by the way you have no idea of) as the cause (not even a possible cause) of the man's addiction. The man got addicted and he should take responsibility for his actions not the wife.

PS: It is unfair to ask any wife to compete with this kinda addiction given that the man's exposure cum addiction to po.rn exposes him to very many different ladies with very many different body shapes, different heights, very different skin colours etc.

Thus it is impossible for the wife to satisfy that which gives him satisfaction from po.rn because of the obvious, she is just one lady, with one body type, one skin colour etc while the man gets his feel from different po.rn stars not just one.


I agree with you

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by hapiness44(f): 7:20am On Mar 10, 2015
I did not know watching porn as a married man is bad.I remember when I was 8, a neighbor and his wife will put the cassette on,send their kids out,bring down the curtain and spend hours in the room together.
I know it gets boring with time,having to be with one particular person,but if as a wife,you are concerned, the best thing is to watch it with him (sometimes),try to displease yourself by raising up your legs and bending over once in a while,it won't hurt and hussy will be satisfied, after the session,you can mention to him you rather be his porn star,any good man will get the message.Most men watch porn for the skills, fantasies or to self service.

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 7:24am On Mar 10, 2015
EfemenaXY:


You still don't get it.

He is addicted to porn because it serves as a medium for him to subconsciously indulge in his fantasies.

The question is: why? Why does he have to turn to porn despite having a wife? Why can't she be what he watches.

She should shape up fast before this man acts on his fantasies with a real, live, babe...rather than running to confession with her Christian mother arms.

Inspiritus Sanctum.




So how does it become the woman's fault that the man has unrealistic fantasies? There re a few things wrong with this point of view:

Marriage does not give a husband leverage for selfishness. Watching porn and getting unrealistic fantasies and expecting his wife to satisfy them, is very selfish. She is a human and has her likes and dislikes, her choices. What if she doesn't like his fantasies? The story never said the man communicated to her about what fantasies he wanted and she didn't oblige. So its way beyond that.

Porn is addictive, just like drugs. No matter how satisfied u get, u jst can't get enough, even when its ruining you. It usually starts during singleness and the man hopes he will break it when married, but he doesn't. How can u blame someone else for another persons addiction, say to marijuana? Porn is addictive and as dangerous as that.

Blaming someone else for our habits is never the responsible thing to do. Even if the wife is frigid as u presume, it doesn't justify taking up a bad habit. Communication that reaches the heart would have been better, than venturing into a selfish, self satisfying, self centered and destructive habit.

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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by olu77(m): 7:26am On Mar 10, 2015
striktlymi:


If that is true, your Priest knows next to nothing.

Of course the priest has no personal marital experience, the priest only use it for self-service but since it's called 'adults movie' the priest wouldn't recomend it for a teenager
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Oildichotomy(m): 7:27am On Mar 10, 2015
striktlymi:


How does the husband's willingness to confess translate to a wrong on the part of the lady?
Admitting to a wrong by a party is the first step to any recovery process.

The lady should help her husband in the circumstance. Opting out ain't gonna help, is it?
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by lonelydora: 7:29am On Mar 10, 2015
englishmart:
you be igbo ko?

Yes now. So since me & you dey France dey school you no know. Awum nwa afo Igbo
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 7:30am On Mar 10, 2015
Oildichotomy:
Admitting to a wrong by a party is the first step to any recovery process.

The lady should help her husband in the circumstance. Opting out ain't gonna help, is it?

I agree with you but the lady did not say she refused to help her husband.

On the contrary, the man went into stealth mode after confessing.

If someone truly wants to be helped, you don't get that by being secretive.

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