This is serious, You she need divine intervention

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As a medical expert, I will also ADVISE U to seek medical attention.
The GOOD thing is that she gets pregnant and that makes her VIABLE.
Your wife most LIKELY has IUGR, from the symptoms u gave..
ITS COMMON CAUSES are..
1) Uterine fibroid.
2) Congenital uterine malformations.
3) Blood Group incompatiblity..
4) Organic maternal disease..(eg goitre)
5) Chromosomal disorders..
6) Hormonal disorders../Anxiety disorders.
7)etc..
Just know that , it's not SPIRITUAL.. the cause lies within.
The med. Docs will discuss.., the Cause with u.
For now her anxiety has to be allayed..

I declare in the name of JESUS the next preganacy will stay. I key into the word of d lord DAT says none shall be barren. Everything causinge foetal retardation is now an history. Oh ye womb hear the word of the lord...receive power to carry and deliver the baby....bro if u believe it is done u will surly come back to share testimony.

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

U guys need "prayercetamol"

Get this book THE SUPERNATURAL CHILd BIrTH

IYADARA:
I declare in the name of JESUS the next preganacy will stay. I key into the word of d lord DAT says none shall be barren. Everything causinge foetal retardation is now an history. Oh ye womb hear the word of the lord...receive power to carry and deliver the baby....bro if u believe it is done u will surly come back to share testimony.

That does not change anything

This village witches and Wizards have vowed not to rest...habah...God's intervention on ur matter.

Op I feel for u and wifey. Its good u opened up to get help. And believe its solved in Jesus name, amen. Will always remember u in my prayers. Shalom!

My advices. 1. As a believer I will advice you to be very prayerful don't be too desperate so that you will not be exploited by your pastor or mallam. 2. Seek differnt medical experts from different places remain calm too here so that youw will also not be exploited. 3. Don't press the panic button in fron of your wifey because she lean on you, and when you so a sign of weakness she will be broken and will be vulnerable. 4. Don't let families/friend turn your issue to problem for you take their advice and think about it three time. May Allah answer your prayer amin

I'd advise that u check your rhesus compatibility and also confirm that your wife hasn't had an abortion before you met her.

Wait on the lord.

Gosh. Have you sought for professional medical advice? What were you told?
If you're religious, you might want to visit a strong man of God. I can't even imagine how you and your wife feel.

I feel ur pain but I advise u should for test to knw d cause of this re-occurence also pray! Remember with God all things are possible. Its well bro.

steppin:
Op, Eyaaa! They followed you.

You are a stupid person.

God Please Have... Mercy, Answer your Children.. AMEN

steppin:
Op, Eyaaa! They followed you.

how can you do this on such a serious thread?
may you receive . at the time of ur needs too.

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

Pls note dt dis is more spiritual than physical, look for a good delivrance ministry, pls do dt as soon as posible

I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

I feel for you Bro, I have a friend who actually went through such and she was advised not to have anything to do with sex for the first five month. she's pushing through though, cuz she's pregnant now and this time we've not heard of miscarriage. Secondly God is still in the business of answering prayers, don't stop praying and giving thanks. Regards to her.

Peejayybold:
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and to think you're a female?? what is wrong with u??

holyokoto:


That does not change anything

. I can only imply u don't believe in God....

Get this book by Dr.D.k olukoya WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED. The bible says we shd nt be ignorant of d devices of d crafty.the lord God is ur strenght.Am also a married woman nd a living testimony of d book.Morealso while u work on dis book,never fail to neglect medical assistance.if it is this part of europe where I stay,ur woman's womb would av been checked to knw if her womb is rightly placed.
In cases where miscariage is too often,d doctor wud advice u stop avin sex dat can lead to procreation for a while and have d woman go tru lots of tests.
Over here,dey dont tak pregnancy cases likely,u can run up to 40 tests in d first few weeks of pregnancy,but since u ar in naija nd d medical xperts can only do little,i'll advise u buy d book I for mentioned earlier.shalom

The Almighty God of Mountain of Fire is the answer. Needed serious deliverance. It is well, in Jesus name.

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marc99:
It could actually be a case of 'Anembryonic pregnancy'. A condition in which a blighted ovum(immature egg) implants in the uterine wall and begins to develop partially untill the pregnancy gets botched.

It's likely she has a high FSH/LH ratio.

Why didn't you guys seek the help of a gynae after her first botched pregnancy?

We did but was told that many women experience misscarriage with their first pregnancy but this is abnormal. You know the expertise of doctors differ and may weve not met the experts. That is one of the reasons i chose to come on the forum may be i could be refered.

Op, you are about to be a father.

Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

Do what this nurse said or typed. Come and give testimony.

Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

. Op if you haven't considered this u can give a tot...pray and work......just called my sister who is a matron and she also mentioned dis.....will get back to u on further findings

So sorry abt dis. I would advise U c a gynaecologist and preferably in a teaching or tertiary hospital not private. At least treatment decision does not depend on one person dia.

Pray wit faith nothing is impossible for God.

Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

Exactly what i wanted to say. if she is rhesus negative and you are positive, pregnancies will always lead to miscarriage. what is baffling me though is that the first child is not usually affected. during the delivery of the first child, rogam is given, i don't know of before pregnancy anyway. pls contact a good gyny ejoh. Nothing is impossible for God to do. Just hold on to your faith and don't give up. this is time to be extra nice to your wife too. you guys shld hold on in faith as you take a break. stop trying for a while let her heal up.

IYADARA:
I declare in the name of JESUS the next preganacy will stay. I key into the word of d lord DAT says none shall be barren. Everything causinge foetal retardation is now an history. Oh ye womb hear the word of the lord...receive power to carry and deliver the baby....bro if u believe it is done u will surly come back to share testimony.

Amen. If God can do it I will surely comeback here with full pictures I promise.