EggovinMma:



You are a stupid person.

For someone who thinks she's better, you have an insulting way of showing it.
The devil now acts like a saint.

Get the book WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED by Dr D.K olukoya.the bible says we shd nt b ignorant of d devices of d crafty

oya its prayer time father lord we commit our nairalander brother here into your hand for he has a problem bigger than mine we pray you visit his household in jesus name. for every spiritual attack coming from the east , north , west and south be terminated in jesus name. For God said we should come into this world and multiply. Father for you said where 2 or more are gathered you are present and we are more than 1Millon on nairaland so father i believe our prayer have been answered in jesus name....






AMEN.

Once she takes in again, take her to the hospital so that the doctor can do her zip-up (that is sowing her womb) Once she is close to her due date, she can go back to the hospital so that it can be losed. I have seen a woman with the same issue with ur wife and she did exactly what i told you, now she has two kids. I stay in Port Harcourt and they do it Save a Life Hospital. Above all, put ur trust in God.

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

OP, sorry about your situation. The progesterone injection was given when it was suspected that the possible reason for your wife's recurrent miscarriages is corpus luteum insufficiency to produce the hormone in early pregnancy until the placenta takes over, but as you must have figured out, this isn't the scenario. I might have suspected an anatomical anomaly but it is also unlikely since you said it's being the same story in all pregnancies (small for age, absent fetal heartbeat @ 8 weeks). My take is that it is an autoimmune condition that is the problem here. You need to see a specialist in a good hospital (preferably a government tertiary hospital) where you would be seeing both an obstetrician and a rheumatologist. And pray to God for the best

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

Dear WorriedHusband,

I am not a doctor so the opinions I express CANNOT be qualified as a professional opinion.

My greatest advice is to see a gynecologist.

While growing up and in Biology class, they taught us something in genetics called Rhesus Factor.

It comes up along with things like Blood group and Genotype. Most people only do tests for Blood Group and Genotype. However almost everyone ignores the Rhesus Factor test. Unfortunately, in some rare circumstances, ignoring this test could prove to be tragic. On rare occasions two partners may be compatible based on genotype and blood group but incompatible by Rhesus factor. Miscarriages are the end result of incompatible Rhesus.

I may be wrong, your condition may not have been caused by Rhesus Factor incompatibility. But that is one of the reasons I know for miscarriages.

Like I said visit your physician........sorry gyneacology

Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

My dear you don't just advise someone to take rhogam just like that, even if she is RH-, she would need to do a direct and indirect combs test to determine if she has been sensitized especially due to the fact that she has had several miscarriages. If she is sensitized, then I'm sorry there may be nothing a rhogam injection can do. she would have to keep trying till she gets a baby of the same blood group as herself, that way, the RH factor wont be a problem.

My advise, please visit a qualified fertility expert and do some reading of your own. and oh lest I forget, Pray also

I'm not a doctor pls

I'm sorry for all you've been through OP! One can only imagine the physical as well as emotional pains.

This is how I see it. You have gotten to your wits end hence this post, just know that your miracle is very near. Nearer than you think.

Like others have advised, see a good gynae, and do what you are supposed to do.

My advice:

Wifey's problem isn't conceiving but miscarrying it. It is all the devil's handiwork. This isn't God's will for his children.

keep holding on to God. Affliction will not rise up again.

Get the book: Supernatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize. This book has blessed a lot of women. Read, build your faith with that of wifey, confess positively, believe and remind God of his promises. He has done it for one, he will also do for you.

Watch your confessions.

You too shall testify soonest!

It is well with you and madam,

Blessings!

steppin:
Op, Eyaaa! They followed you.

Some people no dey know wen to joke. I dey seriously dumbfounded, no even know wetin to talk. Na ihm wan person open mouth talk this kind rubbish! “Aye awon kan ti ta pau bi ibon”

foluks24:
Get this book by Dr.D.k olukoya WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED. The bible says we shd nt be ignorant of d devices of d crafty.the lord God is ur strenght.Am also a married woman nd a living testimony of d book.Morealso while u work on dis book,never fail to neglect medical assistance.if it is this part of europe where I stay,ur woman's womb would av been checked to knw if her womb is rightly placed.
In cases where miscariage is too often,d doctor wud advice u stop avin sex dat can lead to procreation for a while and have d woman go tru lots of tests.
Over here,dey dont tak pregnancy cases likely,u can run up to 40 tests in d first few weeks of pregnancy,but since u ar in naija nd d medical xperts can only do little,i'll advise u buy d book I for mentioned earlier.shalom

Thanks. That is why I came here to get advice since such equipment to detect what is wrong are not common here. It will only take people have the knowlegde to advice. About the book, I will search for it.

I know a very good doctor that would help you.


He has helped a lot of people and i can testify as one of the people is my auntie.


PM me

worriedhusband:




We did but was told that many women experience misscarriage with their first pregnancy but this is abnormal. You know the expertise of doctors differ and may weve not met the experts. That is one of the reasons i chose to come on the forum may be i could be refered.

Investigation needs to be carried out.

Differential diagnoses include:

-Threatened Abortion(likely from STIs)
-Anembryonic gestation(from the implantation of a blighted ovum)
-Low progesterone and hCG level
-Erythroblastosis foetalis(agglutination)
-Uterine fibroid(in some cases they compete with the pregnancy for pregnancy sustaining hormones).

Your wife's spontaneous abortion has a tie with one or more of those differentials.

fpeter:



how can you do this on such a serious thread?
may you receive . at the time of ur needs too.

And you think I'm not being serious? Cos I used a funny picture?
Before posting this, he must have gone to several hospitals and they probably gave him positive reports. That means, his wife is fine.
What's the next thing to do? Go to more hospitals?
He should pray and ask God to change his situation.

My sister in law and the husband had the same problem. Theirs lasted for about 4 years before they successful birthed one lovely chap they named Kamsi on October 23, 2013.
They didnt have to do anything spectacular to get it right. Though they have gone to so many prayer houses and doctors and taken many drugs but what appeared to have worked was that they simply stopped sex immediately allowed the lady to have an extensive bed rest in the first 12 weeks from when she took in. When I said bed rest, I mean BED REST! The type that the woman just lies on the bed and hardly do anything. No, walking about, carrying things, cooking, sweeping, walking about and infact practically doing anything. Even that is not an easy task but they had to do it.
Miscarriages are painful. My own wife miscarried about 7 weeks ago and the evacuation part appeared to be the most painful part.

foluks24:
Get the book WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED by Dr D.K olukoya.the bible says we shd nt b ignorant of d devices of d crafty

Bla bla bla

Does the above sound like a spiritual attack to you?

IYADARA:
. Op if you haven't considered this u can give a tot...pray and work......just called my sister who is a matron and she also mentioned dis.....will get back to u on further findings

Thanks God bless you.

Hummm. Feel so sad but God is d final say. Have faith. U and madam should go for deliverance, and also go for medical check up too. D problem may not be from madam either it may not be from u that's why u need a good specicalist to exmaine u both. It is well. I decree upon ur family that sooner or later a baby will cry in ur home in Jesus name amen. Take care

EggovinMma:



You still remain a stupid person.

Nothing better to post, I guess?
I have that effect on people.

Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

Thanks. I've not heard it before. We will try it.

a lot of people that posted made it look like the problem is from the woman but that may not be so.
since this has to do with early pregnancy losses the problem may likely be blighted ovum.this happens when an egg implants in the uterus but does not develope into an embryo and that is why its called anembryonic pregnancy.
its usually due to chromosomal abnormalty which may be due to poor quality SPERM or egg.it may also be due abnormal cell division,etc
whatever be the case your body recognises it and stops this pregancy because it recognises it as abnormal.
Next time you guys are seeing are a doctor,make sure that both of you are investigated.

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

pls pm me ur contact details.tnx

worriedhusband, I wish God will console you,
what is your wife's rhesus factor and what is yours?
please try and find that out before trying your next conception.
Also do some more fertility tests and I suggest you use government hospital as they have many experienced docs as well as more facilities.
so you will know if her womb has the strength to carry the baby or you guys may have to go for ivf.
what ever it is, God will take control.
May Almighty wipe your tears with beautiful twins that will be by you for the rest of your lives.

steppin:

Nothing better to post, I guess?
I have that effect on people.

Cry to God. He will answer

I have a similar case in my church. We only prayed for God intervention and now the sister is very close to giving birth.
God is the ultimate . If you will continue to trust Him, He will do the needful . Do not go to any juju priest or if you have done so ,better bey God for forgiveness, Psalm 127 vs 3 says children are an heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is the reward. You will get you miracle soon, i pray

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

I can relate with your story. Myself and my wife had similar experience. We got married in 2010 and finally had our first child late last year.

I felt angry at God for allowing my wife go through the evacuation experience, but we still had to run back to him.

It would be great to get to speak with you. The only thing we did was to go to God in prayer.

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

Ha sorry ooo
it is called oyun ijuu in yoruba land
go and meet mama alagbo tell her your problem and beg her to assist you.
i think these iya alagbos know a lot about herbs