Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

kayciano:
As a medical expert, I will also ADVISE U to seek medical attention.
The GOOD thing is that she gets pregnant and that makes her VIABLE.
Your wife most LIKELY has IUGR, from the symptoms u gave..
ITS COMMON CAUSES are..
1) Uterine fibroid.
2) Congenital uterine malformations.
3) Blood Group incompatiblity..
4) Organic maternal disease..(eg goitre)
5) Chromosomal disorders..
6) Hormonal disorders../Anxiety disorders.
7)etc..
Just know that , it's not SPIRITUAL.. the cause lies within.
The med. Docs will discuss.., the Cause with u.

Hey, please tell me more about Blood Group incompatibility
For now her anxiety has to be allayed..

foluks24:
Get the book WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED by Dr D.K olukoya.the bible says we shd nt b ignorant of d devices of d crafty

steppin:
Op, Eyaaa! They followed you.

biiibi:
Am goin tru d same right nw.av had it 4 times in less than 2 yrs...d last gynea I met told me it's more spiritual than physical as he is a pastor and has spent 27yrs in service [medical line]..@ poster,prayer is d key when all hopes are lost on recurrent blighted Ovum pregnancies...afer a while,i met wt another doctor and was told if we eventually go separate ways we wld both give birth dat it may likely b as a result of wht we both are producing...stil on stilll,its still strange to me cos dis is africa...God's will b done....

EggovinMma:



You are a stupid person.

biiibi:
Am goin tru d same right nw.av had it 4 times in less than 2 yrs...d last gynea I met told me it's more spiritual than physical as he is a pastor and has spent 27yrs in service [medical line]..@ poster,prayer is d key when all hopes are lost on recurrent blighted Ovum pregnancies...afer a while,i met wt another doctor and was told if we eventually go separate ways we wld both give birth dat it may likely b as a result of wht we both are producing...stil on stilll,its still strange to me cos dis is africa...God's will b done....

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.00

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

mailcyril:


I can relate with your story. Myself and my wife had similar experience. We got married in 2010 and finally had our first child late last year.

I felt angry at God for allowing my wife go through the evacuation experience, but we still had to run back to him.

It would be great to get to speak with you. The only thing we did was to go to God in prayer.

Justfollowit:


You disappoint me

I was expecting a fiery comeback, Mummy's little boy.

kayciano:

Are U a NURSE...?
BECAUSE am not SURE..

Because if U are
U really deserve to REPEAT ONE ACADEMIC YEAR , honestly...
IF i were in the position to punish U, u will be WAFFED.

Ruthiegeorge:
I Ǻ♍ a licenced nurse nd presently in midwifery programme in Abia state university. Pls tell ur wife to go for rhesus factor test. If she is rhesus negative then she needs to take a drug called.Rogam. Its sold for like 18k or more. I don't know if its the trade name of the drug but that's what she needs.

biiibi:
Am goin tru d same right nw.av had it 4 times in less than 2 yrs...d last gynea I met told me it's more spiritual than physical as he is a pastor and has spent 27yrs in service [medical line]..@ poster,prayer is d key when all hopes are lost on recurrent blighted Ovum pregnancies...afer a while,i met wt another doctor and was told if we eventually go separate ways we wld both give birth dat it may likely b as a result of wht we both are producing...stil on stilll,its still strange to me cos dis is africa...God's will b done....

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

steppin:

And you think I'm not being serious? Cos I used a funny picture?
Before posting this, he must have gone to several hospitals and they probably gave him positive reports. That means, his wife is fine.
What's the next thing to do? Go to more hospitals?
He should pray and ask God to change his situation.