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Now we all know dis saying that love doesn't cost a thing.. Yeah dat may be true buh thr is smth we reaaly need to discuss abt. Are ur nigerian ladies ready to date a guy who isn't financially stable? Are they ready to grow with him based on financial strenght? We all knw d economic situation of our country and most ladies seek guys who r fiancialy stable buh wen confronted abt such reasons, they snap and are like, do u think am dating u because of ur money? Let's discuss abt dis issue. Is money an important factor in a relationship? Am not talkn abt marriage please.

The importance of money in a relationship can never be over emphasised.
#am out.

money.. if both parties can survive on their own.. money isn't so important..

my gf.. no issues.. she is more than capable.


but for marriage,... no think am.. money is very important

NO MONEY NO RELATIONSHIP

code6:
NO MONEY NO RELATIONSHIP

so what happens to those who r strugglin? Dey shouldn't dare go into any rship? I used to think girls say love is enough

Cutehector:
Now we all know dis saying that love doesn't cost a thing.. Yeah dat may be true buh thr is smth we reaaly need to discuss abt. Are ur nigerian ladies ready to date a guy who isn't financially stable? Are they ready to grow with him based on financial strenght? We all knw d economic situation of our country and most ladies seek guys who r fiancialy stable buh wen confronted abt such reasons, they snap and are like, do u think am dating u because of ur money? Let's discuss abt dis issue. Is money an important factor in a relationship? Am not talkn abt marriage please.

money is very important in a relationship, if not, how do you call her? last time i checked no gsm provider gives free credit. how do you get her small small gifts for her birthday and other celebrations(forget the big gifts, how do you take her out for dates(forget the big restaurants)? won't you give her money to make her hair and buy pancake? aby when you toast am was she on natural hair and without make up etc.. money is needed in a relationship o, or else just be ready to lose her to someone else.

kilokeys:
money.. if both parties can survive on their own.. money isn't so important..

my gf.. no issues.. she is more than capable.


but for marriage,... no think am.. money is very important

kilokeys lol I knw dat money is highly important in marriage as u can clearly see I wrote it clearly in my topic dat I wasn't referin to marraige

henribj:
money is very important in a relationship, if not, how do you call her? last time i checked no gsm provider gives free credit. how do you get her small small gifts for her birthday and other celebrations(forget the big gifts, how do you take her out for dates(forget the big restaurants)? won't you give her money to make her hair and buy pancake? aby when you toast am was she on natural hair and without make up etc.. money is needed in a relationship o, or else just be ready to lose her to someone else.

I believe she can take care of herself onto hairdo and stuffs like dat, ah mean, it wasn't in d job description dat a boyfrnd mus gv d girlfrnd money for hairdo. I just want reasons to believ dat a guy and a girl can thrive in a rship witout makin money factor an issue. He may not be that too poor buh d least he has, he can provide. He shouldn't hav to go out of his way just to impress d girl

Cutehector:
I believe she can take care of herself onto hairdo and stuffs like dat, ah mean, it wasn't in d job description dat a boyfrnd mus gv d girlfrnd money for hairdo. I just want reasons to believ dat a guy and a girl can thrive in a rship witout makin money factor an issue. He may not be that too poor buh d least he has, he can provide. He shouldn't hav to go out of his way just to impress d girl

yeah sure thing, a relationship can thrive without money being a factor, but still a man has to spend on his woman. look at it this way, i believe this is a good example;
you love your gf/woman right? you love yourself as a man also right? you love your woman/gf almost or as much as you love yourself right?
you can take yourself shopping, buy good clothes, hang out, enjoy yourself, basically spend money on your self right? so if you have got the money why can't you spend it on the woman/gf you love??
the bottom line is if you have it, spend it.
and if you don't have it, look for it. if she no ask today, she go ask tomorrow.

henribj:
yeah sure thing, a relationship can thrive without money being a factor, but still a man has to spend on his woman. look at it this way, i believe this is a good example;
you love your gf/woman right? you love yourself as a man also right? you love your woman/gf almost or as much as you love yourself right?
you can take yourself shopping, buy good clothes, hang out, enjoy yourself, basically spend money on your self right? so if you have got the money why can't you spend it on the woman/gf you love??
the bottom line is if you have it, spend it.
and if you don't have it, look for it. if she no ask today, she go ask tomorrow.

lol yu definitely have a point there. Let's see wat the ladies hav to say so we can come to a conclusion.

Cutehector:
kilokeys lol I knw dat money is highly important in marriage as u can clearly see I wrote it clearly in my topic dat I wasn't referin to marraige

yeah.. and i answered.. No.

but its better nt to date if u are in survival mode (no job, no petty cash)

kilokeys:
yeah.. and i answered.. No.

but its better nt to date if u are in survival mode (no job, no petty cash)

ok noted.

waiting for the ladies to come tell us hw money is not needed..

MONEY=hmmm

Cutehector:
lol yu definitely have a point there. Let's see wat the ladies hav to say so we can come to a conclusion.

ok lets see what the ladies have to say, that is the ones wey go gree talk truth o.

henribj:
ok lets see what the ladies have to say, that is the ones wey go gree talk truth o.

lol abi. I just pray for once they will be sincere in nairaland

FLAWLES:
MONEY=hmmm

flawles hian. Since ur d only lady to coment here please do us d courtesy of teln us wat u think

[quote
author=Cutehector post=31482513]so what happens to those who r
strugglin? Dey shouldn't dare go into any rship? I used to think girls
say love is enough[/quote].....bro jst make sure dat u ve some money despite d amount......a little gift , T fare , outing or pocket money wil do d magic.....just use ur little resources well......its not gud 2 keep a lady wen u ve nothing. unless she is playin d role 4u.

code6:
.....bro jst make sure dat u ve some money despite d amount......a little gift , T fare , outing or pocket money wil do d magic.....just use ur little resources well......its not gud 2 keep a lady wen u ve nothing. unless she is playin d role 4u.

ok.

Cutehector:
lol abi. I just pray for once they will be sincere in nairaland

wait o, are you saying the ladies in NL are liars?
my hand and leg no dey o

code6:
.....bro jst make sure dat u ve some money despite d amount......a little gift , T fare , outing or pocket money wil do d magic.....just use ur little resources well......its not gud 2 keep a lady wen u ve nothing. unless she is playin d role 4u.

well said man

Cutehector:
flawles hian. Since ur d only lady to coment here please do us d courtesy of teln us wat u think

.mehn ion know bt like me?? My bae is nt dat rich and me self i dnt ask em fr money either(i dnt no why bt i juss can't ask him for money or anytin;even if he insist i refuse)bt for doz oda dudes ion love? I de drain dem ooo

FLAWLES:
.mehn ion know bt like me?? My bae is nt dat rich and me self i dnt ask em fr money either(i dnt no why bt i juss can't ask him for money or anytin;even if he insist i refuse)bt for doz oda dudes ion love? I de drain dem ooo

it is well. Ur one of d reasons I dnt keep ladies

Cutehector:
it is well. Ur one of d reasons I dnt keep ladies

.muah

FLAWLES:
.muah

oh she kissed me, my head is swelling ryt now

Truth is that money is important in a relationship. Nobody wants a financially handicap nigga even if we tell ourselves lies by saying ‘‘Aint dating you cause of your money" It can be true though. A feather is added to the cap of a girl whose boyfriend is good to go.
#DaRespect!


Lack has always bin a b*tch.

Cutehector:
oh she kissed me, my head is swelling ryt now

.swelling? Na BOY catch u sooo

FLAWLES:
.swelling? Na BOY catch u sooo

lol kiss me again.

Who ever said money is not important in a r/ship doesn't knw wht he is saying. Money is important no matter how small. I use to think so until I dated a broke guy for how long will ur woman continue to come to ur house without u offering her tp for once yet u will always like to see her, u don't offer her money for her hair do or evenn body cream no matter how small even though she doesn't ask yet u will want her to look Good and sexy. Even if a woman does everything for her self a day will come when she will throw it back at ur face bcz a woman will always be a woman she expects u to do somethin for her no matter how small









Bottom line is, money is very very important in a r/ship at least for the simplest of thing that keeps a r/shp going only love is not enough.