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How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by Amsmartcred(op):
Romantic couple having dinner at home

You’re crazy about that special guy. But you don’t know how to tell him you like him, without simply just blurting it out. Here are some subtler ways of letting him know how you feel
We’ve all been there: you’re crazy about a certain guy, but you’re too shy to tell him how you feel. Women aren’t used to approaching men to ask them out, so even though it would be easier to just spit out the words, you don’t have to do it if it makes you too uncomfortable. Instead, you can give him subtle signs that you’re interested.
Of course, men aren’t always the most perceptive creatures, which means that your subtle signs can’t be too small. If they are, then he’ll never have any idea of how you’re feeling. Here are a few
ways to show him that you like him that shouldn’t make you blush too much:
1. Ask Him Out
You don’t have to make it obvious that your outing will be a date. You don’t even have to be the one asking if he’s free. All you have to do is hint that you’d like to go somewhere with him. If you’ve been dying to see a new movie, mention it to him and say that none of your other friends will take you. If he likes you back, he’ll volunteer to go with you, no matter how corny or girly the film is.



2. Compliment Him
Give him compliments whenever you can, but don’t go overboard. If he picks up a heavy box for you, comment on his strength. If he changed his style of facial hair, comment on how stylish he looks. Just don’t randomly comment on how he’s the most gorgeous guy you’ve ever seen. If you say that out of nowhere, he could get scared off.
3. Touch Him
You don’t want to do anything that would make him feel uncomfortable, which is why small, subtle touches are better than obvious ones. When he tells a joke, touch his thigh as you laugh. When he has a piece of fuzz on his shoulder, remove it for him and dust him off. If you have a secret to tell, lean in close and whisper it to him.
4. Make Eyes at Him
Portrait of a secretive elegant young bruette beauty holding festive mask
One look can speak one thousand words. When you’re in the middle of a conversation, make sure that you’re looking directly at him. It can be hard to do so without blushing, but you’ll get the hang of it. You want him to be able to see just how enthralled you are in what he’s saying. It’s the easiest way to let him know you’re interested.
5. Flirt with Him
You have permission to get a little flirty. What’s the easiest way to do this? Pretend you’re a little kid on a playground. Tease him whenever he says something silly and have playful arguments with him. It sounds childish, but it’s actually one of the best ways to flirt.
6. Don’t Mention Other Men to Him
Okay, you’re actually allowed to mention other men as long as you do so in a certain way. Don’t point out every hot guy that walks past or gush about your celebrity crush. If you’re going to mention another man, talk about one who asked you out that you decided to turn down. That way, it’ll remind him that you’re available. Plus, he’ll probably ask why you turned him down and you can claim that you prefer funny men or intelligent men—name whatever trait that he has so that he gets the hint that you want someone just like him!
7. Add Him on Social Media
It sounds silly to show him you like him through social media, but the Internet is such a huge part of our modern lives. If he posts an attractive picture on Instagram, make sure to like it. If he asks all of his ‘friends’ for movie suggestions, be the one to answer him. As long as you don’t reply two seconds after he posts, you won’t look like a stalker. You’ll just seem reliable.
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Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by BeeBeeOoh(m): 11:00pm On Mar 13, 2015
If you are a girl & you listen to this Op, OYO my sister..
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by OohMpa: 11:10pm On Mar 13, 2015
[color=#808000]Long sermon. Let Ooh Mpa give you short version angry

Nne: Hey.....
Nna: Hey you....
Nne: I wanna tell you something
Nna: I'm listening

*Nne pulls down bumshot and lemoves Nna boxers*

After 45 mins of Parakatumba.....angry

Nna: I like you too

Case dismissed angry angry[/color]
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by tosyne2much(m): 11:13pm On Mar 13, 2015
Remind me when this gets to the headquarter cool

Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by Nobody: 11:15pm On Mar 13, 2015
What if he doesn't like forward ladies, being touched, he sees eye contact as disrespectful, hates flirts, and don't spend quality time on social media, what will I do?


Simple.
Walk up to him and tell him you really like him.
If you're not bold enough, look for his phone number, call and text the living day lights out of him. If you can't rest, he won't rest too.

There is no Mr. Right. Atimes, the i.di'ot needs to be drawn from the left side to the right.

Peace..
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by Nobody: 11:16pm On Mar 13, 2015
OohMpa:
[color=#808000]Long sermon. Let Ooh Mpa give you short version angry

Nne: Hey.....
Nna: Hey you....
Nne: I wanna tell you something
Nna: I'm listening

*Nne pulls down bumshot and lemoves Nna boxers*

After 45 mins of Parakatumba.....angry

Nna: I like you too

Case dismissed angry angry[/color]
You grin
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by CHM11: 11:18pm On Mar 13, 2015
After doing all this to a typical Naija guy, he will just bleep bleeep and bleeeeeeep your congo till it looks like grandma's lips then he will move on to the next.

Woman your smile is enough greenlight to get a real man talking..if he doesn't respond positively to your smile then you've got yourself a man-child.
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by spyg1(m): 11:33pm On Mar 13, 2015
@OP, any lady that does the abovementioned, i do take it that she is a prostitute or a cheap girl and I hate cheap things.
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by larryozomah(m): 12:42am On Mar 14, 2015
dovelike:
What if he doesn't like forward ladies, being touched, he sees eye contact as disrespectful, hates flirts, and don't spend quality time on social media, what will I do?


Simple.
Walk up to him and tell him you really like him.
If you're not bold enough, look for his phone number, call and text the living day lights out of him. If you can't rest, he won't rest too.

There is no Mr. Right. Atimes, the i.di'ot needs to be drawn from the left side to the right.

Peace..
I had to login just to comment on this....babe idi right biko
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by LewisO: 1:50am On Mar 14, 2015
tosyne2much:
Remind me when this gets to the headquarter cool
grin
Re: How To Tell Him You Like Him Without Saying The Words by ivyT(f): 2:28am On Mar 14, 2015
Nos 2,3,4 make sense

Flirting might send d wrong message wink
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