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djeezy:
Why should you crush on anybody while in a relationship. It isn't healthy at all. That's how cheating starts. By the time you start crushing on another person, you become susceptible to their advances and later you blame the devil for being unfaithful. If you crush on another person it means you don't love your partner. It isn't wrong to admire someone just as op said but to the extent of crushing, hell no. I remember those days when girls in relationships crushed massively on me to the extent........Story for another day.

seuntola:
My case xactly; my gf is crushin/in lov wiv anoda guy... (Sm1 she sees evryday)

Na die o... Shal we kill ourslvs??

Na to fynd beta girl crush.

OtunbaJega:
My thoughts exactly.... It would be nice if you share the story oooo...

bennygreat1:
A very wrong idea.. But I found out that it happened to the gurls mostly.. And that's where comparism between ur partner n the guy U re crushing on starts.. Cheating is not also far from it..

Gurls and Crush..... Hmmm......

OtunbaJega:
Have you discussed with her about your concerns?. You might help her take the guy off her mind.. If she continues to show signs, probably she is not in love with you.

seuntola:
Certainly, we hv discussd it... Tk him off her mynd?? , person wey she dey see for dept evryday... Me dey my house dey lov up. At least she no wan let me go. M cul wiv dt

OtunbaJega:
I agree with the fact that it is most common among the female folks. The reason is not far from the fact that ladies of the present age are fascinated by flashy things, e.g money, accent, looks etc, with the exception of a rare few. Guys are not immune either, the lustful thirst of ladies with big boob.s & a..ss is often the case for some guy.

Little wonder there are many broken relationships..... God save us

bennygreat1:
Ya I grab what U re saying... But sincerely when I said gurlz I knw what am talking about... Have u had a gf that tells U she's having a crush on some other guy

OtunbaJega:
I hope she is not cheating on you though. What's with this crush thing, Wetin these ladies really want sef?, they are so insatiable

seuntola:
Its quite normal. The sweetest part of relatnships r d "crushn stages".. D euphoria dies soon after one entas it... N they begin 2 luk for dt spark elsewhr.

I don date oda ppl gf too, na their turn.

Mhizizzy:
Crushing while in a relationship Is a common tin. For both girls and guyz

It is basically an attraction for wad u see in dah person

Controlling it is a mature way to avoid cheating

Divert ur tots to ur partner in such situation nd spend more tym together

OtunbaJega:
I hope she is not cheating on you though. What's with this crush thing, Wetin these ladies really want sef?, they are so insatiable

FLAWLES:
Point of correction OP,it is not childish or senseless; owkay? You can't stop or prevent urslf from having a Crush fr sm1.....you juss gato use ur brain

Youngpo413:
I pity guys who takes them serious...the best thing to do is to fucccck and dump as many as possible

OtunbaJega:
No... I am single but I have female friends who go about with this crush thing on my TL. It pisses me off big time, knowing most of them claim to be in a relationship.

OtunbaJega:
Really?.. How do you arrive at "you can't stop or prevent urself from having a crush for someone"?...please enlighten me a bit more. Besides, what is the purpose of commitment in a relationship?.

FLAWLES:
.commitment? Whoz asking you to cheat or side-chick ur girlfriend?Op i em in a very serious relationship+i love my boyfriend(so much)i can't imagin myself cheating on my boyfriend buh i have a Crush,(i have a crush dosnt mean i should start sleeping wit him cuz m crushing; NOP)Crush are doz pple u look @ and smile,u juss admire dem;

djeezy:
Why should you crush on anybody while in a relationship. It isn't healthy at all. That's how cheating starts. By the time you start crushing on another person, you become susceptible to their advances and later you blame the devil for being unfaithful. If you crush on another person it means you don't love your partner. It isn't wrong to admire someone just as op said but to the extent of crushing, hell no. I remember those days when girls in relationships crushed massively on me to the extent........Story for another day.

jomile:
FACT

OtunbaJega:
No wonder dude sees female folks of nowadays as mere sex objects. Sell urself out cheap in the name of crushing...odikwa risky

djeezy:
Why should you crush on anybody while in a relationship. It isn't healthy at all. That's how cheating starts. By the time you start crushing on another person, you become susceptible to their advances and later you blame the devil for being unfaithful. If you crush on another person it means you don't love your partner. It isn't wrong to admire someone just as op said but to the extent of crushing, hell no. I remember those days when girls in relationships crushed massively on me to the extent........Story for another day.

AfricanApple:
what! who told you you cant have a crush on someone else while in a relationship, what is not normal is keeping the crush, its natural even while you are truly in love with your partner, control is always the saving grace. thank you

cokacoola:
you galafriand is hasing slex outside the relitoinship and you hear asking if is right, plasea mods loakup this thrad

djeezy:
Why should you crush on anybody while in a relationship. It isn't healthy at all. That's how cheating starts. By the time you start crushing on another person, you become susceptible to their advances and later you blame the devil for being unfaithful. If you crush on another person it means you don't love your partner. It isn't wrong to admire someone just as op said but to the extent of crushing, hell no. I remember those days when girls in relationships crushed massively on me to the extent........Story for another day.

OtunbaJega:
I dont understand you o