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Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by CrazyMan(m): 1:32am On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben:There is no shame in being a single parent. So focus on the fact that you are lucky to have been blessed with a child. Surround yourself with people who can support you and help boost your confidence. If you spend your whole live your life thinking about the negative things people are saying about you, believe me, you'll end up worse than a psychiatric patient. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 6:11am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Having a child outside wedlock makes a lady a single mom but What does having a child ouside wedlock make a man? Not a single dad? For every single mom out there, there's a man who's supposed to be the father of the child but decided not to. To our hypocritical brethren, deciding to run away from your responsibilities makes you a better person than your partner who chose to woman up and bear your own half of the consequences I guess. If that is not retarded, I don't know what is. And pls spare us the lame excuse of not being ready to be a father. If you're having sex,you're can be a parent at any time as long as you're not shooting blanks. Protection or not. Sorry that's true. Protection fails sometimes as we all know. Just know it can happen. So if that happens, well you may not be forced to become a parent to that child, but you can do us a favor and stuff your hypocrisy and judgmental bullsh1tt where the sun don't shine. you cannot be better than some one who's guilty of the same sin as you but chose to face the music when the result came than run. [size=18pt]this is for anyone who has ever had sex outside of marriage but for some inexplicable reason has superiority complex towards folks who got pregnant outside of wedlock [/size] #tiredofhearingstupidtalkaboutsinglemoms. 19 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 6:23am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Actually watching Tyler Perry's single mom clubs at the moment. How coincidental |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 7:06am On Mar 18, 2015 |
cococandy: As above, so below 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 7:26am On Mar 18, 2015 |
GOODMORNING.. In MEDICAL PRACTICE, DOCTORS will always prefer and say good about a LADY who has a CHILD or CHILDREN , compared to a MATURED SINGLE LADY with no KIDS. BECAUSE getting PREGNANT ALONE , solves 5 debilitating AILMENTS suffered mostly by MATURED SINGLE LADIES without KIDS. Most Good DOCTORS will always tell U , to keep a pregnancy especially when you are MATURED and have a JOB 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by pretydiva(f): 8:25am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1:true talk |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 8:33am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: It is nice to know that there are young men such as this one who still keep their Virginity and say no the sin of fornication. You're an example. Pls keep it up and don't let any woman no matter how pretty tempt you into the crime of fornication. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by flowjoe: 8:53am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Single moms deserve the highest honor #proudsonofasinglemom 4 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by wrench: 8:55am On Mar 18, 2015 |
emperorchedda:Bro, Say It Like You Mean It. 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by adanduka: 8:56am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: I hope your casting the first stone means you're innocent of the fornication crime. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Romzy007(m): 8:57am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Respect to all single mothers... |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Donpizzle(m): 9:04am On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben: NO to ABORTION nd FORNICATION......... |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by ichidodo: 9:04am On Mar 18, 2015 |
You better stop mopping about and give that child a father figure....else society bears the brunt of his/her deliquencies. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by ireneidiva(f): 9:05am On Mar 18, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Who says no one is free A lot of people took the 'no marriage, no sex' stand. The OP should learn her lesson and move on. Learn her lesson because I know women that have about 4 kids from 4 different men by the way. 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by passionate88: 9:05am On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben:and NO to condom.. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Edusouls(m): 9:06am On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben:yesoo i understand you girl you are so right, in our society we are so hypocritical,we show holier than done attitiude, we pretend a lot,while at the back we do worse things,especially ur fellow women you people are each others worse enemies,abortion is the other of the day nowadays,while they look single and clean,at the back they have killed lots of innocent blood,and these women are the ones that will openely castigate their counterparts who is far much better than them in the heart,for having a child out of wedlock,sister we re just humans, God is the final judge, dont mind humans, at last after the race, the miles will be counted..and i assure you the winners will be the least expected, and they will laugh best... 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Edusouls(m): 9:11am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Renylee:sherap,mrs judge,swear that you have no boyfriend and you havent tasted a man's prick till today.? What did they went into? They are your fellow women even better in the heart, all of you are into the game of pre marital sex and love,just because they where open and not dangerously hidden like most of you night snakes.. 3 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by JuanDeDios: 9:14am On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben:No, you have it mixed up. Your "crime" was failing to do what's required to avoid an unplanned pregnancy. Just saying - I have nothing against sex, pre- or post-marital. Or pregnancy. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by alentyno: 9:14am On Mar 18, 2015 |
cococandy:Please don't tell me you believe tallesty1 is a virgin. Dammit you're not even a newbie! |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by tivta(m): 9:15am On Mar 18, 2015 |
goodmorning40:. As long as the man did not force her to have sex, he is only liable to take care of the child and not MARRY the woman out of pity. It takes to tangle. Women should learn how to always protect themselves, there are medications you take after unprotected sex and even for the fear of HIV the woman should have quickly gone to the clinic for first aid treatment. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by tunjiafolayanka(m): 9:17am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Being a single is not a crime.Besides, they seem to be the best if you are able to find one who is neither aggressive nor violent. I had once dated a single mother who was very good in bed.In fact she squirts on each round. I eventually left her cos of her high level of uncontrollable temperament. Another thing is the ability and or willingness of a man to accepting the lady's ordeal which is even a good sign that she is fertile.Guys should also be prudent enough in disclosing this to your parent.Not all mothers embraces their sons marrying a single mother |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 9:18am On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben:...Ms Innocent,the crime of some single mum is not due to saying NO to ABORTION,it goes beyond that.many of those ladies love independence. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by stinggy(m): 9:18am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Intending single dad in the house. Rityben, fvck the society. Live your life like it's yours and yours alone. Your life, your rules |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Edusouls(m): 9:18am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1:your sense of justice is like that of monkey, 95% of girls engage in pre marital sex, whether protected or not, and most girls conceive before ages 17 to 19, the only difference is that these ones are good and open enough to give birth instead of the vast majority of deadly and hidden girls that carnaly and silently murder their own flesh and blood...so whats your pointless argument.. 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by JuanDeDios: 9:19am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Renylee:You are right. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Edusouls(m): 9:19am On Mar 18, 2015 |
dre11:yesoo my guy, i love ur sense of justice... |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Edusouls(m): 9:21am On Mar 18, 2015 |
emperorchedda:yes they are the tested and trusted good ones.. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by tivta(m): 9:21am On Mar 18, 2015 |
I hate to add salt to injury, but as long as she is not a victim of rape or divorce, she has her self to blame. She should be intelligent enough to know that any form of unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. First before the penetration ALWAYS insist on CD, after that ALWAYS take morning after pill. If all that fails THEN you can say it is GOds doing. Don't blame men for impregnating you when they never forced you to have sex. You are incarge of your own body take care of it. Even for those who were raped, your first line of duty is to head to the clinic to prevent disease transmission and unwanted pregnancy. I blame lack of knowledge of human biology for the high rise of single mothers(most go to school for certificate and not EDUCATION). Women take charge of you life. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by UncleJudax(m): 9:22am On Mar 18, 2015 |
emperorchedda:Talk is still cheap. The rise of USDollar hasn't affected it |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 9:22am On Mar 18, 2015 |
How about saying no to pre marital sex? Am sure one jobless mofo will ask you this.... 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by yagbaboy1(m): 9:23am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Someone goes around having unprotected sex all around, left right and centre. Yes! Society will frown because other people got married legally before giving birth. Wether them girls like it or not. Single mothers are a disgrace and shame to the society as normal mothers are with their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by skentelelady(f): 9:24am On Mar 18, 2015 |
coogar: I don tthink society still frowns at single mothers. This maybe happening in the remote areas i guess I am a single mum based in Lagos. In my environment (Resident, Church and office), people esp married women dont look down on me because i am responsible and respected. They try to mingle with and get close to me but based on the kinda person i am i dont like familiarity. I give my child the best. At her school they know i am a single mum but kudos to my child's welfare and upbringing. Every parent is her friend and when i attend any school functions, parents ask me, are you her mum? what a pleasant and lovely girl etc I think the way you present yourself in that society goes a very long way in the way you are addressed These are my observations 11 Likes 1 Share |
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