I've known her for 2years


Participants:
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@Me, ; =*(*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<

Messages:
@Me:
Are you in a relationship now?
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Y?
@Me:
If I ask you out would you accept?
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
I don't get u?
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
wta brought dis? :|
@Me:
I'm asking a question
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Seems u av lost ur manners
@Me:
Is it wrong to ask you out?
@Me:
Or how exactly did I lose my manners?
@Me:
Have I disrespected you in anyway?
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Oh so,coz I chatted u up abt pix 2 over up my boss feelin i turnd his jab down or wah?
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Haba!
@Me:
No
@Me:
Not that kyut
@Me:
I've known you for almost 2 years now
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
U know be4 nw na
@Me:
Yes
@Me:
That's my point
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
U knw I dnt take certain tinz 4 a joke!
@Me:
If at this point I can't have a civilized conversation with you then I don't understand.
@Me:
I presume we ae friends
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Seems,I'm ova nice 2u n its gives u rite 2tlk 2me in such manner
@Me:
I have not insulted or cussed you
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Ask me out ow na?
@Me:
What manner exactly?
@Me:
Tell me my mistake
@Me:
What do you mean ova nice to mE
@Me:
Tell me what I'm doing wrong
@Me:
And how it is wrong
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
U called dis nonsense civilize conversation yea?
@Me:
I have not exactly asked you out
@Me:
I asked that if I do
@Me:
What would you say
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Den I fink u'av gone bananas
@Me:
Are you under 18?
@Me:
Aren't you an adult?
@Me:
Jezz
@Me:
Okay
@Me:
Forget it
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
R we mate in anyways?
@Me:
Wow
@Me:
So the age game
@Me:
Sorry madam
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Ow old r u if I may asked sef?
@Me:
Lol
@Me:
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; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Can u even if take care of u,not 2tlk of date a chic like me
@Me:
Wow
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
I tot u were dis fin berra,den I'm wrong
@Me:
Apologies domina
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
I see u as a working partners,I dnt see beyond dat!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
I knw we could do sturv 2gether someday
@Me:
isn't that what you should have said since
@Me:
Instead of insulting my person?
@Me:
Do I have a gun to your head to force you to do what you don't want again?
@Me:
In what universe is asking a lady out wrong?
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Buh!I fink u av dis same low finking like majority of naija boys!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Haba!
@Me:
Most def not in this one
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Once!some1 is tryin 2be free wiv u,u take it personal!
@Me:
Should I result to throwing insults at you back?
@Me:
Because I'm having it up to here
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Even if we mates sef,I can't date a guy like u!
@Me:
I never disespected you
@Me:
Fine
@Me:
Don't disrespect me
@Me:
I don't know how old you are claiming to bbe
@Me:
But stop with the insults
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
1coz,I'm a lady n we grow faster n more mature den men!
@Me:
Because if you are matured as you claim to be you will know this isn't the right way to talk to someone
@Me:
Since I did not disrespect you
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Not an insult now...buh rather a polite 1!
@Me:
So because ladies grow faster than men then they should leave their brains behind or what?
@Me:
Please stop
@Me:
If you are really grown act like one
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
U should tot abt dis be4 jump on it!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Gosh!
@Me:
Act like a lady and not some area tout on the street
@Me:
Please
@Me:
Not for my sake
@Me:
But next time
@Me:
Thanks
@Me:
I gotta go now
; =(*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
U'av seen me be4 n dat should tell u if we can date or wah eva!
@Me:
Me
@Me:
Goodnight
@Me:
I got work in the morning
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Lolz!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
U acted like uncivilized village boy!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
wh feel as a boy,u could tlk 2any girl u see!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Be careful,so u don't try dis in physical!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Not insulting u now...buh is fact!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Is a pity!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Imagine d insult o!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Even if I was single sef,is u kind dat I would dating!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Coz u started holding cam
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Go ask abt me dear,I'm not dat nice...
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
If I'm nice 2u,is coz I tot u gat it upstairs!
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Buh!now I knw....
; =* (*)*fly*27th \=D/ <=-P =-)<:
Jus coz I asked 4 pix o...
@Me:
Lol
@Me:
Okay I'm up now since we are advicing ourselves let's do it
@Me
No on a second thought let me not stoop low to your level and start bandying words with you
@Me
I just think you are suffering from low self esteem

Bereft of clarity o.

Both of you are kindergarten freshers.

Present something readable and you may get answers.... you were trying to go tru d backdoor asking how she would feel if you ask her out? what were you expecting to hear??

Guy ur really a gentle man. Walahi any lady that feels like Beyancee to me I will take her to cleaners and delete her ass. No time. By then she will start re-accessing herself. Nothing pains ladies like taking them like kids and bruising that their "beauty" ego. She will try to get back to u to get even and by den u feign I dont need u again. She wud be soo drained of thought that she wud like to know what drives u to have dressed her down that way. By den u go just yansh am waka. No time.

OP to be honest the both of u didn't act mature.. in fact that babe should really have insecurity problems. she was claiming to be mature, mature ladies know how to turn a guy down politely and not try to insult them.

bro on the other hand your approach in asking her out was childish.. no mature dude would ask a girl out that way.

Even kindergarten pupils now fall in love....nawa oo

Agreed guy my approach was poor... Honestly I was high last night when I started the. But her response caught me off guard, because this is someone that I've shared a lot with the least I expected was for her to say no and we move on... But the rudeness! I now realized she isn't so normal afterall I guess I didn't know her that much.

Babies

and if she ansaz yes, U'd den ask ha out or tel ur frnds dats she has bn inlove wit U ryt?
Y nt jst ask ha out konfidently?

Mhizizzy:
Babies

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With their smelly pvsssy.

@phiniter

Post her picture here so we'll know if you are below her stance.

@op, I would blame you for your manner of approach. Believe me, it was so arrogant and childish. Only a slut or gold digger would fall for you that way.

From what I read in your chat, its obvious that you two aren't really that close. You might have known her for two years but from your chat with her, its safe to conclude that you guys are more like colleagues or partners nothing more.

If you wanted something more than ordinary friendship with her, you should have acted more mature i.e man up, take her on a date and tell her what you have in mind, or study her body language properly to know if she reciprocates your secrete affections. If she does, then you can take the bold step.

What you should know is that that
You don't toast a working class girl through a social media and expect her to take you seriously. Did you bother to know why she kept on asking you about your age? Truth is she was convinced that you're still a kid. Even though in reality you might be older than she is, you failed to prove it.

When approaching a girl next time, keep your arrogance away and show her some respect. Even though you and I know that all you're after is her vagina, be matured about it and have a sense of humor, and believe me, she'll give you a chance.

You should learn from this and be more mature in your next adventure.

Good luck.

You brought this upon yourself man. Why did you not stop the discussion before she got really rude? You got to read the signs bro. Know when you're chatting with a conceited girl.

VickJames:
Both of you are kindergarten freshers.

you can say that again hey!

Blackett:
This is the most _stupid conversation between the 2 most boring people I came across today on Nairaland. . . I mean, wtf is this _shit?

Lmao I can't stop laughing

Pdizzle:
You did no wrong, by the way she's too uncouth for you.

With the responses on this thread, i thought i was the only one who saw that.
Op, you responded well, politely and gentlemanly. You are also well-spoken and clear-headed. Perhaps you might have approached asking her out a little weakly, it still didn't take anything away from your poise and politeness. The lady, on the other hand, appeared really bereft of sense. Her English is lazy and poor. Her attitude condescending, and her general feel lacking in grace and quality. A lady more disciplined would certainly have let the weak proposal slide or not acted upon it at all until you come out boldly. She didn't do any of that.
I don't know what the relationship is between you two, but bro, you'd do well letting her slide. She clearly is in a class way lower than yours. Don't let emotions cloud your reasoning.

chai guy i swear u try o..
if it wer me, d convo wud hav ended at "are we even mates"...

....and she wud regret ever knowing me, coz i would make her life miserable, and make her feel small and worthless