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missclasssy:

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Number three is nopt true cos not all ladies carry make up kit in their handbags. I don't, non of my friends do.
I'm not denying the fact that some do.
Again, I don't always wait for a guy to pay my TP. When I'm going out with a guy, I make sure I have my TP and enough money for the occasion.


One thing I know about philosophical questions is that no matter how intelligent or smart one is, one can never give satisfactory answers to them.

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]I will pick the questions one after the other

1) I don't think It's every lady that displays this kind of attitude.
I would say it depends on the kind of person the lady is. How mature and how emotionally wise she is.
You should also blame the guys, cause most of them have the mentality that they are the ones to pay, most times perhaps trying to unnecessarily please the lady.
I myself have paid the fares of my male friends a couple of times

2) Ladies need guys the same way guys need ladies
Its that natural thirst for companionship that gets stronger when it's the opposite sex involved
We all need someone to talk to, someone to share thoughts with.
Someone to love, a shoulder to lean on.
Someone to have sex with.
The list in endless.

3)Well, I am also guilty of this.
We ladies want to look pretty all the time but some take it over the top.
You will see them always looking at their faces in the mirror applying make up in spaces of 30mins, I would blame this habit on insecurity
But the truth is that we ladies want to look beautiful all the time, we just can't help it.

4) Well this is natural. They are basic components for sexual attraction and arousal.

5 Guys should answer this

6)When a lady says that all men are the same that's generalization, but we shouldn't rule out the fact that there are certain characters and behaviors that all men exhibit.

Every lady has that mental image of the kind of man they want and if they find someone they feel meets those "fantasy like" criteria and something happens along the way, they may make the above statement as a way to vent their displeasure and pain.

If someone asks them why they are single, they would just say that "all men are the same".
It's a kind of defense mechanism.

7) I believe every human has an inherent allure for evil or for something that's seems wrong

Ladies are naturally attracted to guys that display that "bad boy" characteristics to which dishonesty is one.
We want honest "good" guys but we just can't stop liking the "players"
It's just that innate allure I talked about.

Cc
Emusmith[/color]

Bluetooth2:
What is philosophical about this particular question ?

Bluetooth2:
What is philosophical about this particular question ?

joywendy:
seriously?

out of boredom i have decided to answer your not so philosophical questions;

1. It is not a must for the guy to pay the transport fare, if the guy wants to pay then he can. It depends on the both parties involved

2. Why do guys need ladies? ( this is not a question that should be asked on any sane grounds)

3. How does what a lady have in her bag disturb you? Btw not all ladies have a make up kit in their bags

4. Wetin concern me with that?

5 and 6. Not all men and ladies say that. (Big generalization here)

7. It is a matter of perspective, some people cant differentiate between the truth and a lie. Some will rather accept the lie than the truth due to "blind trust" or "love". It is a choice,same with guys too.


In conclusion too much generalizations and stereotypical thinking everywhere. This is not philosophical in anyway, i think you need to re examine you philosophy note.

Thanks.

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]I will pick the questions one after the other

1) I don't think It's every lady that displays this kind of attitude.
I would say it depends on the kind of person the lady is. How mature and how emotionally wise she is.
You should also blame the guys, cause most of them have the mentality that they are the ones to pay, most times perhaps trying to unnecessarily please the lady.
I myself have paid the fares of my male friends a couple of times

2) Ladies need guys the same way guys need ladies
Its that natural thirst for companionship that gets stronger when it's the opposite sex involved
We all need someone to talk to, someone to share thoughts with.
Someone to love, a shoulder to lean on.
Someone to have sex with.
The list in endless.

3)Well, I am also guilty of this.
We ladies want to look pretty all the time but some take it over the top.
You will see them always looking at their faces in the mirror applying make up in spaces of 30mins, I would blame this habit on insecurity
But the truth is that we ladies want to look beautiful all the time, we just can't help it.

4) Well this is natural. They are basic components for sexual attraction and arousal.

5 Guys should answer this

6)When a lady says that all men are the same that's generalization, but we shouldn't rule out the fact that there are certain characters and behaviors that all men exhibit.

Every lady has that mental image of the kind of man they want and if they find someone they feel meets those "fantasy like" criteria and something happens along the way, they may make the above statement as a way to vent their displeasure and pain.

If someone asks them why they are single, they would just say that "all men are the same".
It's a kind of defense mechanism.

7) I believe every human has an inherent allure for evil or for something that's seems wrong

Ladies are naturally attracted to guys that display that "bad boy" characteristics to which dishonesty is one.
We want honest "good" guys but we just can't stop liking the "players"
It's just that innate allure I talked about.

Cc
Emusmith[/color]

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]Just be yourself....
You might suck at being a player[/color]

Spaxon:
emusmith

pak:
Your initial response on the first page of this thread was intelligent and interesting.

But I'll disagree with you about sucking at being a player. Every body can be a player if he wants to, it's being good that's difficult and rare.

The only difference is that some men have more developed conscience hence might not be comfortable going to bed knowing they have intentionally hurt another human being.

To be a player, especially if you have some money ? easiest thing in the planet. Convince a girl to sleep with you and then suddenly stop calling her for about a week. It's hurtful but it works like crazy. Rationally yu think the lady would walk away knowing you are a jerk ?? wrong, more often than not she feels used and seeking closure to her emotional wound she develops an unhealthy attachment. Call her back a week later, get her to bed again (her defenses are weakened. to her,you actually have little to lose again) then start flirting (or cheating) with other ladies. By this time, her emotions are so wound up, her self-esteem has been hit and at that point, the vicious cycle has been established. The player can even beat her up and she still sticks. Every body around sees her as mad but she can't just easily walk away. Players intuitively (without having to analyze the way I have just done) all these and they exploit it to full effect.
That's why it is difficult for men with a lot of experience with women, apart from those with integrity and a good conscience, to take women very serious in relationships, sorry to say, when it comes to emotions, women are more often than not irrational.

emusmith:
Yea yea

Spaxon:
my dearie go and sit in d kitchen... dinners ready

pak:
Your initial response on the first page of this thread was intelligent and interesting.
But I'll disagree with you about sucking at being a player. Every body can be a player if he wants to, it's being good that's difficult and rare.

The only difference is that some men have more developed conscience hence might not be comfortable going to bed knowing they have intentionally hurt another human being.


To be a player, especially if you have some money ? easiest thing in the planet. Convince a girl to sleep with you and then suddenly stop calling her for about a week. It's hurtful but it works like crazy. Rationally yu think the lady would walk away knowing you are a jerk ?? wrong, more often than not she feels used and seeking closure to her emotional wound she develops an unhealthy attachment. Call her back a week later, get her to bed again (her defenses are weakened. to her,you actually have little to lose again) then start flirting (or cheating) with other ladies. By this time, her emotions are so wound up, her self-esteem has been hit and at that point, the vicious cycle has been established. The player can even beat her up and she still sticks. Every body around sees her as mad but she can't just easily walk away. Players intuitively (without having to analyze the way I have just done) all these and they exploit it to full effect.
That's why it is difficult for men with a lot of experience with women, apart from those with integrity and a good conscience, to take women very serious in relationships, sorry to say, when it comes to emotions, women are more often than not irrational.

Chubhie:
I've had to philosophically ask myself why I truly needed a feminine specie cos I've developed myself to a point where I virtually derive pleasure in sorting myself in all things. From making my own dish in a certain way and experimenting and amusing myself amongst other stuffs. The very day I sat down and examine these thoughts about What's In It For Me in the long haul with a pretty damsel? The most plausible I could deduct is about the inherent need to produce my kind but then what if I elect to just observe a fleeting world of vanity and decide that such a cold world is never ideal to bring more kids into?

emusmith:
As a general course, everyone studied Philosophy as a course in the University. If you did, you will lucidly understand my point.

A philosopher always wants to know the WHY to every thing on earth, unlike the common man who embraces indoctrination with a smile. He calls him "Ignoramus"- He that knows not and think he knows.

This thread is all about Relationship Philosophy . It may sound silly but that's Relationship Philosophy.



1. Must the guy always be the one to pay the fare in a transport bus?

2. Why do ladies really need guys?

3. Why do ladies always have a make-up kit in their bag?

4. What is the connection between a female's upper and back region and the eyes of a guy?

5. Why do guys call themselves "polygamous in nature" and yet want a monogamous family?

6. If ladies say "all men are the same", why are they still single? Can they just choose any?

7. Why do ladies claim that their Turn Off is Dishonesty but always fall in love with liars?


It may sound irrational to you but in it has the answers to many "encoded things" hehehehe.


Oya, NLers contribute

emusmith:
I'm not hungry right now...

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]I will pick the questions one after the other

1) I don't think It's every lady that displays this kind of attitude.
I would say it depends on the kind of person the lady is. How mature and how emotionally wise she is.
You should also blame the guys, cause most of them have the mentality that they are the ones to pay, most times perhaps trying to unnecessarily please the lady.
I myself have paid the fares of my male friends a couple of times

2) Ladies need guys the same way guys need ladies
Its that natural thirst for companionship that gets stronger when it's the opposite sex involved
We all need someone to talk to, someone to share thoughts with.
Someone to love, a shoulder to lean on.
Someone to have sex with.
The list in endless.

3)Well, I am also guilty of this.
We ladies want to look pretty all the time but some take it over the top.
You will see them always looking at their faces in the mirror applying make up in spaces of 30mins, I would blame this habit on insecurity
But the truth is that we ladies want to look beautiful all the time, we just can't help it.

4) Well this is natural. They are basic components for sexual attraction and arousal.

5 Guys should answer this

6)When a lady says that all men are the same that's generalization, but we shouldn't rule out the fact that there are certain characters and behaviors that all men exhibit.

Every lady has that mental image of the kind of man they want and if they find someone they feel meets those "fantasy like" criteria and something happens along the way, they may make the above statement as a way to vent their displeasure and pain.

If someone asks them why they are single, they would just say that "all men are the same".
It's a kind of defense mechanism.

7) I believe every human has an inherent allure for evil or for something that's seems wrong

Ladies are naturally attracted to guys that display that "bad boy" characteristics to which dishonesty is one.
We want honest "good" guys but we just can't stop liking the "players"
It's just that innate allure I talked about.

Cc
Emusmith[/color]

Spaxon:
look at him forming am not hungry......... ..
afta u go steal d food

emusmith:

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]I will pick the questions one after the other

1) I don't think It's every lady that displays this kind of attitude.
I would say it depends on the kind of person the lady is. How mature and how emotionally wise she is.
You should also blame the guys, cause most of them have the mentality that they are the ones to pay, most times perhaps trying to unnecessarily please the lady.
I myself have paid the fares of my male friends a couple of times

2) Ladies need guys the same way guys need ladies
Its that natural thirst for companionship that gets stronger when it's the opposite sex involved
We all need someone to talk to, someone to share thoughts with.
Someone to love, a shoulder to lean on.
Someone to have sex with.
The list in endless.

3)Well, I am also guilty of this.
We ladies want to look pretty all the time but some take it over the top.
You will see them always looking at their faces in the mirror applying make up in spaces of 30mins, I would blame this habit on insecurity
But the truth is that we ladies want to look beautiful all the time, we just can't help it.

4) Well this is natural. They are basic components for sexual attraction and arousal.

5 Guys should answer this

6)When a lady says that all men are the same that's generalization, but we shouldn't rule out the fact that there are certain characters and behaviors that all men exhibit.

Every lady has that mental image of the kind of man they want and if they find someone they feel meets those "fantasy like" criteria and something happens along the way, they may make the above statement as a way to vent their displeasure and pain.

If someone asks them why they are single, they would just say that "all men are the same".
It's a kind of defense mechanism.

7) I believe every human has an inherent allure for evil or for something that's seems wrong

Ladies are naturally attracted to guys that display that "bad boy" characteristics to which dishonesty is one.
We want honest "good" guys but we just can't stop liking the "players"
It's just that innate allure I talked about.

Cc
Emusmith[/color]

emusmith:
As a general course, everyone studied Philosophy as a course in the University. If you did, you will lucidly understand my point.

A philosopher always wants to know the WHY to every thing on earth, unlike the common man who embraces indoctrination with a smile. He calls him "Ignoramus"- He that knows not and think he knows.

This thread is all about Relationship Philosophy . It may sound silly but that's Relationship Philosophy.



1. Must the guy always be the one to pay the fare in a transport bus? [b]NO

2. Why do ladies really need guys? 4 MONEY and PIKINS

3. Why do ladies always have a make-up kit in their bag? TO ALWAYS LUK FAKE

4. What is the connection between a female's upper and back region and the eyes of a guy? Hmm well SEX

5. Why do guys call themselves "polygamous in nature" and yet want a monogamous family? I DUNNO O

6. If ladies say "all men are the same", why are they still single? Can they just choose any? NA DEM SABI

7. Why do ladies claim that their Turn Off is Dishonesty but always fall in love with liars? [/b] BE[b]COS THEY ENJOY BAD GUYS MORE
[/b]

It may sound irrational to you but in it has the answers to many "encoded things" hehehehe.


Oya, NLers contribute

Spaxon:
happy Easter

wristwatch:
Answer 2 d questions sir