SAMBARRY:
did I mention anybodys name? Nawa o

You don't have to mention names to know who you're referring to. If you feel what you said is right then I have no further thing to say. Happy Easter to you

pickabeau1:


Dont bother with her
I dont know why she can't post on this section without roping either myself or coogar into her web.

Thanks

No biggie , there's a lot of angst in the world now and if we don't change our ways we may likely go extinct in the not so distant future. I made a vow to desist from using derogatory , unsavory words on any fellow human , the change begins with us

neoapocalypse:


No biggie , there's a lot of angst in the world now and if we don't change our ways we may likely go extinct in the not so distant future. I made a vow to desist from using derogatory , unsavory words on any fellow human , the change begins with us

Hmmm......deep

Happy Easter

pickabeau1:


Hmmm......deep

Happy Easter

Happy Easter to you too

omexy4real:


There are certain characters shown by some men that depicts irresponsibility. these acts or rather attitudes has left many homes,friendship shattered because its aftermath effects are usually disasterous. this article will be pick-pointing some signs that shows irresponsibility in men. these points are not to judge but to expose the wrongs which makes a man irresponsible. these things are better talked about than overlooked
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1. Discussing Family issues in Public:

This act is one which has to do with sharing with the public an issue which is a family thing. the public will only hear but can never understand with you or give any serious helpful recommendationsbecause when everybody is talking, nobody is talking.

2. Arguing or Nagging When a Responsibility Arises:

Some men display this act when their wives or children talk to them about a need in the home. the truth is whether you have the capacity to do it or not, just listen and never argue because it will mean you do not desire to take up any responsibility that pertains the home.showing care is paramount.

3. Starving The Home Of Your Time:

The greatest gift one can ever give his loved ones is time. when you share the time you have with your family, trust and love will grow but the absence of time sharing gives room for suspicion and hate which will lead to fightS and quarrels most times.

4. Having More Love For The Outside Than The Home:

When you cherish your friends ,work or outside events than your home, you'll gradually shift your love for the home to the outside world. this singular act alone demolishes the foundation of your home.
Watch out for the things that steals your heart away from your beloved home.

5. Transferring Aggressions On Your Family Member:

Sometimes you may be annoyed or offended at work or something. these events are normal but what becomes abnormal or wrong is when you get home and shift the aggression on your innocent loved ones. this will give room for more anger which may give birth to hatred and resentments.you can learn more on the effects of transferred aggression Here.

The above signs are better taken note of than ignored. some men are guilty of the above acts but that doesn't mean they are bad cause sometimes they may not know that it is that serious in terms of its effects on their homes. all men can be loving and caring if they put their heart to it.


SOURCE: http://www.ikeaniblog.com/2015/02/5-signs-of-irresponsibilty-shown-by-men.html

So so true. My dad possesses all these. I'll never be like him. I've programmed myself to be the best dad.

neoapocalypse:


You don't have to mention names to know who you're referring to. If you feel what you said is right then I have no further thing to say. Happy Easter to you

ok sorry pickabeau

Yomieluv:
Loving friends more than the family broke my brother's marriage..

He would be at home,yet be chatting with his numerous babes outside,he keeps late niteout,he drinks alcohol like a drowning fish.

He does opposite of a married man,the marriage only lasted 3years,the rest is history..

I can't just allow my marriage to crash,I pray God gives me a very good wife,who understands,and values the essence of marriage..

Op,nice point.

More reason I love Nairaland.

You're already guilty of one the issues raised by the op by bringing your brother's infidelity which lead to the dissolution of his marriage to a public forum.

Oya ! Lie down flat ,you need some community sanctioned flogging.

I am irresponsible and I like it.....its been paying me well

Very good post.

I have always said that marriage is not meant for every body. infact why all the drama?you can still be happy alone

Women take care of the house,take care of the kids,wash clothes,go to work and you find them trying to split bills with an irresponsible man & she also fights hard to keep the man.Na wa ooo where is all this strenght from?

marriedvirgin:
I have always said that marriage is not meant for every body. infact why all the drama?you can still be happy alone

Women take care of the house,take care of the kids,wash clothes,go to work and you find them trying to split bills with an irresponsible man & she also fights hard to keep the man.Na wa ooo where is all this strenght from?

Married virgin

pickabeau1:


Married virgin

maybe virgin marriage could sound better

marriedvirgin:



maybe virgin marriage could sound better

Lol

The only point I disagree with is not nagging or complaining when faced with certain responsibilities. Sometimes it is not good for the man to be the only provider in the house. Women must learn how to assist in case of rainy days. For example my uncle loved his wife very much, she didn't work so he took care of all the bills, when he lost his job he became very depressed and frustrated, the woman started nagging, after wiping out all their savings, they lost their house and had to move in with family members. The lesson here is that change is very constant, women should not dump all their financial responsibilities on their husbands and husbands should encourage their wives to work or do business.

greatgod2012:
@op, thanks for this beautiful thread. But your thread title should have been directed not only to men(husbands) but also to women (wives) as well. Something like '5 signs of irresponsibility shown by married people' would have been better.

Let everyone who is guilty of any of these bad signs adjusts and make amends for the sake of one's marriage.

Olorun a ko wa moo se o. Amin.

Thanx 4 the correction. Am most greatful

6. Blaming hard times on another person.

kaboninc:


Really?

yea,it sounds wierd right but that just the way it is may God help him...

eni4real:
6. Blaming hard times on another person.

Bro. how will you feel if the mods give you a 10-year ban on Nairaland?
think if it were you,

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