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Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by redhook(m): 8:45am On Apr 10, 2015
From dis list of inaccuracies(or fantasy points) dat I just read, its obvious dat the o.p and her friend r still very limited in the various types of dudes they may have met in life! Life and luv is a game filled wit a lot of "CHARACTERS" who r all acting out a script including U both! Spare me the sanctimony abeg! Evrybody is shady in 1 way or another! Peace!
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:45am On Apr 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]When it's time for marriage i'm 100% sure a girl will not carry a bad boy to go see her Dad&Mum.

It's the same way we guys wouldn't take a bad girl to our family when marriage comes.

At the end of the day this same bad guys/girls will become good in someone's eyes.

Someone will definitely marry them.[/color]
No you are getting it wrong.

There is this popular notion . "I can change him". And the guy will play along.
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by Enockia(m): 8:48am On Apr 10, 2015
Blackett:
[color=#150000]So, God fearing guys cannot have six packs? [/color]
help me ask ooo
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by naijaboiy: 8:52am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
No you are getting it wrong.

There is this popular notion . "I can change him". And the guy will play along.
[color=#1980BC]Yea I know that.
My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally.

To me a bad guy is someone who doesn't come too soft when it comes to dealing with girls. He knows when to be nice and when to be stern with them.

That's what I know a bad guy is and girls get attracted to such guys. When they see you are the type that doesn't give all the attention they need,,their attraction for you will increase.

The guy you are talking about here is just totally different. I don't need to have dreads or drink alcohol to attract girls.

So in my point being too much of a good guy won't get you anywhere. Even the girl you'll get will not have respect for you.

I'm guessing that your friend did same to you too cos you are too nice for her to date so she kept you in the FRIEND ZONE. cheesy[/color]
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:59am On Apr 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Yea I know that.
My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally.

To me a bad guy is someone who doesn't come too soft when it comes to dealing with girls. He knows when to be nice and when to be stern with them.

That's what I know a bad guy is and girls get attracted to such guys. When they see you are the type that doesn't give all the attention they need,,their attraction for you will increase.

The guy you are talking about here is just totally different. I don't need to have dreads or drink alcohol to attract girls.

So in my point being too much of a good guy won't get you anywhere. Even the girl you'll get will not have respect for you.

[size=18pt]I'm guessing that your friend did same to you too cos you are too nice for her to date so she kept you in the FRIEND ZONE[/size]. cheesy[/color]
My reply to the bolded. We grew up together, we don't have a romantic/sexual urge any more.
"My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally."
If you dont do any of these, you are boring.
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by TheSonOfMark(m): 8:59am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
It's been modified. The previous was suppose to be posted on a certain Lalasticalalà topic.
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:04am On Apr 10, 2015
[quote author=TheSonOfMark post=32548906][/quote]Better
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by naijaboiy: 9:10am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
My reply to the bolded. We grew up together, we don't have a romantic/sexual urge any more.
"My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally."
If you dont do any of these, you are boring.
[color=#1980BC]Really? cheesy

So if I smoke excessively to kill my lungs and drink too much to harm my liver i'm no longer boring? cheesy

That's new. grin[/color]
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:15am On Apr 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Really? cheesy

So if I smoke excessively to kill my lungs and drink too much to harm my liver i'm no longer boring? cheesy

That's new. grin[/color]
You claimed "Being polite or strict at the right time" makes you a bad boy. That is a trait of a nice guy to me.

Whats your definition of "Bad Guy"?

To me Womanizing, drunkenness, excessive clubing, smoking are what makes you bad.
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by Slimzjoe(m): 9:16am On Apr 10, 2015
Are nairalanders not tayad of the Nice guys and Bad guys talkhuh??
Op even went on to say only Bad guys have 6packshuh
#smh
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by Nobody: 9:18am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
My reply to the bolded. We grew up together, we don't have a romantic/sexual urge any more.
"My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally."
If you dont do any of these, you are boring.
reply to me? undecided huh

when did we have that discussion? undecided
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:23am On Apr 10, 2015
Slimzjoe:
Are nairalanders not tayad of the Nice guys and Bad guys talkhuh??
Op even went on to say only Bad guys have 6packshuh
#smh
Read carefully guy. Not only. Its a trait.
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:23am On Apr 10, 2015
Bolded:
reply to me? undecided huh

when did we have that discussion? undecided
U r a case grin
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by naijaboiy: 9:28am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
You claimed "Being polite or strict at the right time" makes you a bad boy. That is a trait of a nice guy to me.

Whats your definition of "Bad Guy"?

To me Womanizing, drunkenness, excessive clubing, smoking are what makes you bad.
[color=#1980BC]Anybody can choose to smoke,,drink and club. Not necessarily to attract girls but just for the fun of it.
I do those things you mentioned there(not excessively though). And I don't see it as something that helps me get girls.

That "bad guy" ish is in your charisma. The character and personality you carry. The tough guy who doesn't give a fhuuck about anything and does things his way.

Anybody can party,,smoke or drink it doesn't guarantee that you'll get girls. undecided[/color]
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by Slimzjoe(m): 9:28am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
Read carefully guy. Not only. Its a trait.
trait - /treɪt,treɪ/
noun
1. a distinguishing quality or characteristic, typically one belonging to a person.

Incase u don't know the meaning of Trait too
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:30am On Apr 10, 2015
Slimzjoe:
trait - /treɪt,treɪ/
noun
1. a distinguishing quality or characteristic, typically one belonging to a person.

Incase u don't know the meaning of Trait too
Wrong choice of word. Pardon me.
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by Nobody: 9:31am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
U r a case grin
grin Case ke?

you just started calling my name anyhow & even went as far as claiming we grew up together angry

Pls i don't know u!
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:32am On Apr 10, 2015
Bolded:
grin Case ke?

you just started calling my name anyhow & even went as far as claiming we grew up together angry

Pls i don't know u!
Guy read at context level and stop trying to derail the thread. undecided
Re: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by Nobody: 3:55pm On Apr 10, 2015
OP, you are wrong. Bad guys are necessarily not sexually explosive. They might exhibit the aura but that doesn't make them such.

Bad guys are necessary not cute with six packs. We tend to tag cute guys bad guys but that's wrong.
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