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Thatis a serious matter my brother in the Lord!!!

She's simply in love with your D

Sori! Such is life! If u can't beat them u join them!

you need to seek repentance for committing fornication. Then have a talk with her. I'm sure she will listen. Don't look down on yourself. Ask God for forgiveness. We all make mistakes. Good luck bro.

hmm, this your story eh

If you know you are right, stick to your guns

Hmm,
Knew this was gonna hit front page!

Now ma advise,, bounce,, she aint the serious type,

I know a lot of guys enjoy the sex and all that so dey sure gonna blame u, but the fact is a lady who is in a relationship with u just for sex aint worth it,, there is a probability even after marriage, if u go on a long journey, she gonna seek her fun elsewhere.
Am sure u won't wanna have such a woman as a wife, so I say again,, bounce.

@op luk 4 her n ask her why she broke up with u.

It means you aren't ready for a relationship,just let her be,by making her an ex...So that way,you guys gon be just friends & relate in a platonic level.


Op its 2:41am & i don't know if its your post that has gotten me so angry or the fact that am dying to have a glass of cold water,but have non in my refrigerator & i can't sleep

Thought Tz Only Guys That End Relationships Cos Of Sex!
U Cnt Eat Ur Cake Nd Have It.

Think further about the words used to convey your thoughts when you told her about your intentions. From what I read in ur explanation, I would say she took offense most especially because of the time frame you set for yourself. In order words you simply told her you don't plan to get married until after three years. Definitely she's been with you 2 years already and even though you may not know it, she doesn't want to wait another 36 months o find out whether you love her or not. So my question to you is " Is she worth forever"? If so then engage her if not ..............still entertain her.

In years of dating jst only 6 times u guys had sex? . Hmmm, that one na a day sex schedule na

Praise da Lord somebody

ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.

6 times sèx only in a period 2 years is enough to end any relationship. If she gets it otherwise you will come crying to NL for advice. I suggest you go and date a nun.

The poor girl is sexually frustrated

If I was her I'd leave you too.

It's a good thing she left you now, the marriage would have been horrible for her.

Broke up with you cus of sex? Dude drop her number, lets meet her!

But hope you know that we know that this story is a lie sha?

Guy you wan turn Priest? Abi you wan become Eunuch? I started doing the do at 15 and by the time I got to your age, hmmmmmmm well just give her number to the guy above me

So people now have sex, go to the wall and mark how many times they have sex in their relationships, like Unoka (in "Things Fall Apart" ) marks how much he owes people? Op! Op!! Op!!! How many times I call you?

Well, your story was a very nice read. Goan publish it and I'll be the first to buy and read.

dis guy sha... u arr always seeking for attention. Believe him at ur own peril

Guys that self service never find sex appealing..Nawa oh

when next u copy n paste, try to back space!

OP maybe she has come to realise that you dont appreciate her, maybe due to tight schedule or whatever. Or maybe the words u used in telling her about the break in sex. u need to reflect on the two wasted years nd learn a lesson about the women folk.

I respect u...@24 jst a single pus***......God 4giv me sha...

Please Let her go! Girls plenty plenty!!

sorry

make i go read first