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agarawu23:
the patient dog eat the fattest bone if the bone is worth waiting for

lasstropinky:
By next year the guy will have been in Uni granting him the freedom

Tallesty1:
Apparently because the shapper dogs has eaten all the flesh.



The funny part of this is here. Now my friend is a medical student in a Nigeria University while the guy is yet to gain admission into University though they will both graduate at the same time from uni as the guy will be running a 4 year program in a Nigeria uni here.

lasstropinky:
Your Advice will be appreciated..

InZA:
As a guy who's fairly sincere, I understand his sentiment towards not meeting her now, as someone suggested he wants to "arrange" himself first, there's nothing wrong with this honestly, but this is April 2015, and he wants to wait all the way till next year?....How many arrange hin wan arrange . Something doesn't just add up, is it that it will take him a year to save enough transport fare to go see the woman he supposedly wants to spend the rest of his life with?...I would have said the woman should make arrangements to see him too but really as the man in the relationship, the onus is on him to make that arrangement, not the woman....After all, in the most basic traditional sense, he is the one marrying her.

I have very little confidence in OTA relationships but I won't deny that i've heard or maybe seen some cases where it has turned out just fine. In summary, she should date other men and let him know that though she loves him or thinks she loves him, this is life here and we are all tempered and confined by time, she doesn't have all the time on her hands and if he's truly serious about his intentions..he has to come down to where she is to see her, anything short of that would prove that he is nothing more than an online emotional predator.

ronald4lif:
You talk with so much certainty as if you're the guy. Are we missing something here?

Please if you're the guy board a bus on a weekend and go pay your woman a visit. You know what stories to cook up to your parents so do the needful. Or is there a false impression you've given this girl and you're scared she'll find out the truth when you meet her? You see, if that's the case you'll still postpone your meeting after next year. Why not stop wasting her time and playing with her emotion?

And if she's your friend like you narrated, please tell her to tell this "guy" that she must see him this year not next. And should be as soon as possible or he forget it.

ronald4lif:
You talk with so much certainty as if you're the guy. Are we missing something here?

Please if you're the guy board a bus on a weekend and go pay your woman a visit. You know what stories to cook up to your parents so do the needful. Or is there a false impression you've given this girl and you're scared she'll find out the truth when you meet her? You see, if that's the case you'll still postpone your meeting after next year. Why not stop wasting her time and playing with her emotion?

And if she's your friend like you narrated, please tell her to tell this "guy" that she must see him this year not next. And should be as soon as possible or he forget it.

lasstropinky:
I will do that Bro....thanks for the advice

jemimaa01:
I could never advice anyone to give her all to someone she has'nt met,let alone someone who isn't ready to meet you,for only God knows reasons...so my advice would be for her to move the hell on.now,the guy in question is yet to get into uni,this automatically means that when he gains admission he would meet many other girls,and he could leave her,marriage promise or not..so my dear,try and talk some sense into your friend,she's definitely making a mistake IMO.

InZA:
So you're the lover boy abi....

Tallesty1:
Apparently because the shapper dogs has eaten all the flesh.



The funny part of this is here. Now my friend is a medical student in a Nigeria University while the guy is yet to gain admission into University though they will both graduate at the same time from uni as the guy will be running a 4 year program in a Nigeria uni here.

lasstropinky:
Haha....I mean to imply I will tell her to get the guy over....