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Help!!! I Need Advice by BlazinFrost(op): 12:05am On Apr 17, 2015

There's this girl that i've liked for a long time. We didn't use to talk so much before, but since I went to school and came back for the holidays, we've become really really close. There's about a 85% chance that if i ask her out, she'll say yes. Now the problem is that she'll soon be going to school in another state. I don't know whether to ask her out now and pursue a long-distance relationship or let her go to school for about a year after which she'll have seen how things work out in schools. She's extremely pretty and I'm sure immediately she resumes, guys will be on her case 24-7. If I ask her out now, she might meet another guy that she likes and regret dating me or she could go to school, see what other guys have to offer , reject it and when I finally ask her out, she'll be able to accept, fully knowing what other guys have to offer. WHAT SHOULD I DO? embarassed

Re: Help!!! I Need Advice by Cutehector(m): 12:08am On Apr 17, 2015

Bro pls dnt make dat move! Its very dangerous.. Dnt ask her out. Let go

Re: Help!!! I Need Advice by Nobody: 12:12am On Apr 17, 2015

You see the poster above me make some sense.......

The poster below me is actually engaging the macabredance....where compability is part of this Relationship tongue

it will be sardonic... it will be lucribrous... a case of pismal dismal if OP does not dismis this nonsenstic advice

Re: Help!!! I Need Advice by ronald4lif(m): 12:14am On Apr 17, 2015

You stand nothing to lose by asking her out now. Even if she goes to school and get someone else you've left your mark as a one time boyfriend to her. That way it will be easier to win her again should the need arises in the future.

But if you don't you might not get as much chance as you're having now. The feelings she got for you presently might wane off.

Don't let this chance pass you by, you might not be second time lucky. And you have to also try to make it work after she must have left for school.

Re: Help!!! I Need Advice by pTomz(m): 12:15am On Apr 17, 2015

JST LET GO BRO

Re: Help!!! I Need Advice by kpolli(m): 12:25am On Apr 17, 2015

BlazinFrost:
There's this girl that i've liked for a long time. We didn't use to talk so much before, but since I went to school and came back for the holidays, we've become really really close. There's about a 85% chance that if i ask her out, she'll say yes. Now the problem is that she'll soon be going to school in another state. I don't know whether to ask her out now and pursue a long-distance relationship or let her go to school for about a year after which she'll have seen how things work out in schools. She's extremely pretty and I'm sure immediately she resumes, guys will be on her case 24-7. If I ask her out now, she might meet another guy that she likes and regret dating me or she could go to school, see what other guys have to offer , reject it and when I finally ask her out, she'll be able to accept, fully knowing what other guys have to offer. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Stop thinking and do it

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