Holywizard:
use ur head dear cos ur hubby might be worse

prissyluv:
What of making yourself visible when next the man visits your office? That should send a signal to him you know...

prissyluv:
What of making yourself visible when next the man visits your office? That should send a signal to him you know...

Holywizard:
use ur head dear cos ur hubby might be worse

Wendy80:


My Dear, I saw him this morning, it wasn't planned though and wanted to give me that you look familiar kind of look. I greeted them and hurriedly walk away. From a distance, when I saw my colleague going into the office I quickly walked back to him
Let me clear my desk jare. Long gist.

5minsmadness:

Wendy80 I think u should follow this advice.

I used to be in favour of telling the unaware partner about what is going on until something nasty happened.

You'll be amazed how quickly the tables can turn on you if you don't handle it well.


My first advice is MYOB, but if your conscience won't let you then take an opportunity to let the man see you and make sure he recognises you and leave it at that. Let his own conscience judge him.

Or U can use the anonymous SIM message method to let THE GIRL know that he is married.



It's a tough place to be in sha.

prissyluv:


I have been waiting...

Wendy80:
He said I don't even know what business he has with her and I said it's even better I don't know cos the more I know the more things I have to say to my friend(his wife).
He sha tried to deny and wanted to create joke out of it.



On a lighter note, I got home and told hubby, he was so proud of me that I used a stone to save 2birds

Wendy80:
....i asked how his wife is doing that I've not seen her for a while now. He said she's good so I said I see him here often and he was like yeah, I come for business transaction and see few 'friends'
He was obviously acting cool until I told him I hope ds 'business transaction' knows he's married with 2kids
I told him my colleague really wants to settle down cos everyone around her s either engaged or married and she believes He's the 'one' why does he want to be a hindrance and cause her pain.

Wendy80:


There u are

Nigga44:
Another nairaland super story?

khatea:





Thumbs up woman! U r brilliant.
If U c dt he's still being serious wt Ur colleague after this converstation U had with him, U can get his wedding/family pix(d 2kids inclusive), send it tru bbm or watsapp to ur colleague wt d caption "We need to talk woman to woman". I hope dis works wonders


NB: Let Ur hubby knw U next plans

prissyluv:

Good job dear. Let me see how he will continue. Chai! Umu nwoke dikwanu egwu oooo. Egwu ha na-atum oooo.

Wendy80:

I pray it works oh. I don't want it getting to the level of involving his wife cos I no fit oh. Not every wife can handle such news. B4 I turn to that woman who's ear was bitten off by a wife she went to tell about seeing her husband with anoda woman

Wendy80:
I appreciate your contributions. Just b4 I left the office this evening, I saw clearing her desk hurriedly saying her 'Baby' is coming for her. 20mins later I saw 'him' driving away with her. Its no longer picture oh, I saw him live.
I'm beginning to wonder if he doesn't know where I work or has he forgotten or just doesn't care
Na wa oh

Ewuro4:
Time to disengage two lovebirds & determined grown adults who've spent quality time together 'couple style' ??

I laugh in obudu.

Wendy80:


'I laugh in Obudu' got me LoL.
The enjoyment no be here oh. She sure had fun

Wendy80:


'I laugh in Obudu' got me LoL.
The enjoyment no be here oh. She sure had fun

lobell:


Hey, what became of your friend, her husband and your colleague? Hope you do not mind my aproko?

Wendy80:


Aproko somebody been awhile oh. that man is a chronic cheat. Marriage broken since 2016 or so. I didn't need to tell my friend, she knew about his philandering ways and took a walk. My colleague (former colleague now) continued dating him even after telling her his marital status. I learnt she's married now though.