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There is this my cousin who is an only child. His parents have been pestering him to find a wife. The mother has even joined in the search for wife for him, but has not found his taste as he has rejected all the girls his mother has found for him. He will be 32 by july this year.

Earlier this year he started hanging out with this fine girl he claims to love. He noticed that each time he discuses with the girl, she will always be mentioning 'her dad this' 'her dad that'. She hardly speaks of her mother

My cousin enquired, on thinking the mother has died but he learnt the mum is alive.
Out of curiosity he made more enquiry and learnt the parents are divorced. And the children including his girlfriend live with the dad.

We figured the girl is hiding it as she has not said anything about it since they started dating.
The problem is that my cousin has been thinking of settling down with her.
He is asking me for advice, and i don't know what to tell him. He thinks the daughter of a divorcee will likely be a divorcee.

Abeg nairalanders make una help with advice o. Cos if this my cousin leave this girl we no know when em go fit find another girl of his choice. And his parents dem don dey upset already.

This question fit make pesin drown for lagoon.

Nope it doesn't make her a potential whatever...especially if she's been raised in love by her single parent.

Infact, survivors from broken homes tend to forge stronger bonds with their partners so as not to put their own children thru whatever they had gone through as a child.


#my2cents

Caseless:
This question fit make pesin drown for lagoon.

Abeg no drown o. Not when Ambo has won

Twaci:
Nope it doesn't make her a potential whatever...especially if she's been raised in love by her single parent.

Infact, survivors from broken homes tend to forge stronger bonds with their partners so as not to put their own children thru whatever they had gone through as a child.


#my2cents

Your 2 dollars is appreciated