I met her on bbm over a month ago..ever since we've become so close and even share top secrets with each other.i was so Happy when she told me she got no bf.so i was planning to ask her out nd pour out my feelings for her..but i was shockd wen she updated her status recently that she is a lesbian nd not interested in guys..i dnt know if i shld forget about her or try to convince her..can a lesbian love normally? #am confused.

Get her and her girlfriend together and have a 3some

mstik:
Get her and her girlfriend together and have a 3some

Is dt wat u do? Smh.

Chairman, let her be cos they are 0.0000000001% prone to change....She can not change for you, never!

Move on though you could still be friends with ther on a platonic level

If u really love her and not after punny , talk 2 her 2 stop what she has gotten herself into....Shikena.

it doesnt change anytin

she only trust nd confided in you, dnt disappoint her

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@OP
pls can you care to tell us what you love about this damsel that you barely know?

happyjuliet:
If u really love her and not after punny , talk 2 her 2 stop what she has gotten herself into....Shikena.

I really luv her..but dnt hw to tel her i luv her again cos of dis new developmnt.

MRBrownJ:
@OP
pls can you care to tell us what you love about this damsel that you barely know?

She is very funny nd she mkes me happy.

You must be joking to think you can talk someone out of her sexuality.

It's who they have become, either accept it or hope for a miracle!

Aroboi:

She is very funny nd she mkes me happy.

thats it?! is that all?! she makes you happy?!
btw she could have written she was a lesbo in order to stop guys from contacting her etc talk to her 1st

MRBrownJ:


thats it?! is that all?! she makes you happy?!
btw she could have written she was a lesbo in order to stop guys from contacting her etc talk to her 1st

Av bn tinking same 2..guess i jst av 2 tlk 2 her.

Shut up

Aroboi:

Is dt wat u do? Smh.

mstik:
Shut up

Hmmm..anothr crazy dude.u nid hlp bro.

mstik:
Get her and her girlfriend together and have a 3some

alike minds

my manchi,run o,they don't change,just a matter of time before she wants to press and suck boobs and pussy,speaking from experience

Poster, I don't mean to burst your bubble, but please wake up. You are asleep. You only talked over BBM for a while and voila, you're in love? Abegiiiiii!!! Love is much deeper than that. Also, you say you wanna ask her out and pour out your heart to her... Please don't do that. That's going to friendzone you faster than you can think of what the first letter of your name is. Speaking of which, you probably are in the friendzone already, seeing as you already share "secrets" that don't include her telling you that she is lesbian.

I will grant you that the "I'm a lesbian" update might be an attention seeking tactic of hers, but if she's a true lesbian, she's lost bro. A lesbian is different from a bisexual (she may not know the difference, I will grant you that also) and a lesbian will not do guys at all, so I'd suggest you guys talk more and you pry out vital information from her about her sexual preferences and what influenced them. That will help you make better decisions as to whether you should abandon ship or dig your feet in.

Finally please don't be an emotional mushy sappy wuss while you're at it. Don't react emotionally, respond logically. Also try to spend physical time with her before you think of "falling in love". People are much different in real life than their online personas may otherwise indicate.

humanbean:
Poster, I don't mean to burst your bubble, but please wake up. You are asleep. You only talked over BBM for a while and voila, you're in love? Abegiiiiii!!! Love is much deeper than that. Also, you say you wanna ask her out and pour out your heart to her... Please don't do that. That's going to friendzone you faster than you can think of what the first letter of your name is. Speaking of which, you probably are in the friendzone already, seeing as you already share "secrets" that don't include her telling you that she is lesbian.

I will grant you that the "I'm a lesbian" update might be an attention seeking tactic of hers, but if she's a true lesbian, she's lost bro. A lesbian is different from a bisexual (she may not know the difference, I will grant you that also) and a lesbian will not do guys at all, so I'd suggest you guys talk more and you pry out vital information from her about her sexual preferences and what influenced them. That will help you make better decisions as to whether you should abandon ship or dig your feet in.

Finally please don't be an emotional mushy sappy wuss while you're at it. Don't react emotionally, respond logically. Also try to spend physical time with her before you think of "falling in love". People are much different in real life than their online personas may otherwise indicate.

Tnx man.

humanbean:
Poster, I don't mean to burst your bubble, but please wake up. You are asleep. You only talked over BBM for a while and voila, you're in love? Abegiiiiii!!! Love is much deeper than that. Also, you say you wanna ask her out and pour out your heart to her... Please don't do that. That's going to friendzone you faster than you can think of what the first letter of your name is. Speaking of which, you probably are in the friendzone already, seeing as you already share "secrets" that don't include her telling you that she is lesbian.

I will grant you that the "I'm a lesbian" update might be an attention seeking tactic of hers, but if she's a true lesbian, she's lost bro. A lesbian is different from a bisexual (she may not know the difference, I will grant you that also) and a lesbian will not do guys at all, so I'd suggest you guys talk more and you pry out vital information from her about her sexual preferences and what influenced them. That will help you make better decisions as to whether you should abandon ship or dig your feet in.

Finally please don't be an emotional mushy sappy wuss while you're at it. Don't react emotionally, respond logically. Also try to spend physical time with her before you think of "falling in love". People are much different in real life than their online personas may otherwise indicate.

Hmmm...*Thinking*