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my fiancee who i have dated for four
years now. She told me today dat she will
be going to see her pastor so dat d pastor
will confirm if we are compatible, if we
can carry. I dont know wht to do. Shid i
stop her from going or not. Wht if d
pastor said we cant marry. Pls i need ur
opinion.

hmmmm i dont like such ladies. What God will finally do, nobody can see it.





i just pray the pastor is real

Goan meet your own chief priest.

the lady is possibly looking for a way out. she doesnt believe in you any longer or maybe is desperate for marriage.

Exactly what courtship is meant for...to find out how compatible you two are, not the duty of any pastor or chief priest to decide.

No third party in marriage! is an age-old saying that has saved many relationships from turning sour.

You shouldn't seek pastors approval to marry who you love, and I hope the pastor is going to advise on sexual compatibility as well...really funny.

MRBrownJ:
the lady is possibly looking for a way out. she doesnt believe in you any longer or maybe is desperate for marriage.

my brother you're 100% veridical.

What was she waiting for all these years? From experience, I'll say she is only looking for a soft landing; she wants out but doesn't want to take full responsibility for the decision. My piece of advice; let her go see the pastor & don't try to convince her otherwise if she decides to move on.

she no serious

Let her go na. If pastor says no road, my brother pack your load and leave. Don't give her reason to say "...and my pastor said it o..."

Prepare your mind

What's up with ladies seeking the opinion of their pastors before marriage?? Some ladies need to grow up and some "Pastors" need cane.