kennygee:
We don't hate each other.

We just try to outshine each other.

The entire post should be summarised 'jealousy'.

Jealousy almost always leads to hatred.

tintingz:
And they can gossip ehn.

gossip is our life #but na guys own worst pass dey can gossip ehnnn especially about their babes and side chicks

Lots of sizing up among women.

EricRichie:


Show me one girl who isn't jealous of her friends boyfriend and I will show you a girl who is emotionally depressed. ... It just happens naturally... Even if the jealousy isn't profound but at least a tinge of envy exists

I have seen a lot and they are not emotional depressed as well why because good friends don't get jealous over their best friend guys sekena!

God created man on the 6th Day and rested, but since the creation of women neither God nor man has rested.

queebeediva:
I have seen a lot and they are not emotional depressed as well why because good friends don't get jealous over their best friend guys sekena!

I totally agree with you, but let's not forget... You can't read your bestfriends mind... Like I said earlier, the jealousy might not be profound but it exists

MzNelly:
You should've stated "Reasons Why SOME women hate themselves"

Only insecure and low self esteemed women go about hating on themselves.

sense in what you said, but the truth be told, 70% of women are guilty as charged hence the generalization. its now up to you to prove that you are amongst the 30%

Very true.

portable86:

Which one are u guilty of?

lampardizik:



Which one are u guilty of?

am amongst the 30%, i no get time for hating on anything or anyone jare

**Was taking tramol as at the time of posting**... YES YOU ARE SO RIGHT OP. LADY'S BE HATING THEMSELVES UNNECCESARILY. THATS WHY ITS EASIER TO KIDNAP WOMEN THAN MEN, COS DEY ALWAYS SEEKING ATTENTION.... SHIIIIIIT!!!

topic don finish for nairaland.....OP keep recycling old gists,,mtschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

portable86:
am amongst the 30%, i no get time for hating on anything or anyone jare

What of ur drama skills?

You women knows better, just dont be too insecure and judgmental about anyone

Ladies don't hate each other.

Naturally most ladies hate, hurt, and forge less-than-genuine friendships with each other simply because they don’t know how to directly express their competitive nature. Some of them know how to tone it down and behave amicably towards each other, but there’s always that woman lurking around in the shadows close by—that sneering, eye-rolling Negative lady who has seemed to make it her life’s mission to put other women down. It's so depressing..

Aitee1:
Haba...where hath thou space bookers

I feel lyk slapping u

portable86:


Read this interesting piece i got from surfing this site and decided to share with you guys, so lets hear your own opinion. for me, i think the writer made a lot of sense, why are women their own worst enemy? Question


Your girlfriends tell you things like; “ I don’t usually get along with women, I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or your sisters say; “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way. Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival. A number of ladies will tell you that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong. The funny thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why is it so, why do women hate each other so much? I’ld tell you.

1. Jealousy : Most women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive temptress trying to steal their man away.

2. Inferiority complex : Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.

3. Pride : Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.

4. Insecurity : Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women.
So for women who have been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence. Your self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who you are and your appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating. Life is too short, after all. - See more at: http://www.nenyville..com/2015/05/reason-why-ladies-hate-each-other.html#sthash.76Cfsutq.dpuf

Nairalander mod are silly women rapper
www.nairaland.com/firstolalekan created this thread first.
Why is it this one that was put on front-page??

EricRichie:


Show me one girl who isn't jealous of her friends boyfriend and I will show you a girl who is emotionally depressed . ... It just happens naturally... Even if the jealousy isn't profound but at least a tinge of envy exists

OMG!! You must have been around the worst kind of women!

And no, its not natural and women like that needs to be exorcised from the spirit of insecurity. Cos that's insecurity of the highest level. The type that can drive them to commit murder!

So true. I'm a beneficiary of their "in-house" hatred. They prefer me to their own, so they mob me. I love them and I handle them expertly.

portable86:


Read this interesting piece i got from surfing this site and decided to share with you guys, so lets hear your own opinion. for me, i think the writer made a lot of sense, why are women their own worst enemy? Question


Your girlfriends tell you things like; “ I don’t usually get along with women, I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or your sisters say; “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way. Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival. A number of ladies will tell you that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong. The funny thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why is it so, why do women hate each other so much? I’ld tell you.

1. Jealousy : Most women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive temptress trying to steal their man away.

2. Inferiority complex : Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.

3. Pride : Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.

4. Insecurity : Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women.
So for women who have been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence. Your self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who you are and your appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating. Life is too short, after all. - See more at: http://www.nenyville..com/2015/05/reason-why-ladies-hate-each-other.html#sthash.76Cfsutq.dpuf

What's my own!
. Kilo kan mi pelu nkan ti ko kan mi!

Joavid:




OMG!! You must have been around the worst kind of women!

And no, its not natural and women like that needs to be exorcised from the spirit of insecurity. Cos that's insecurity of the highest level. The type that can drive them to commit murder!

You totally misquoted me... I have been around the best women in the world. .. My mum for one... Girlfriend(s) Nd the rest. ..

What I said was nothing but the truth. .. . Get your fact right then come back and quote me...

portable86:


Read this interesting piece i got from surfing this site and decided to share with you guys, so lets hear your own opinion. for me, i think the writer made a lot of sense, why are women their own worst enemy? Question


Your girlfriends tell you things like; “ I don’t usually get along with women, I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or your sisters say; “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way. Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival. A number of ladies will tell you that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong. The funny thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why is it so, why do women hate each other so much? I’ld tell you.

1. Jealousy : Most women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive temptress trying to steal their man away.

2. Inferiority complex : Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.

3. Pride : Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.

4. Insecurity : Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women.
So for women who have been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence. Your self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who you are and your appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating. Life is too short, after all. - See more at: http://www.nenyville..com/2015/05/reason-why-ladies-hate-each-other.html#sthash.76Cfsutq.dpuf

funny enough, some guys foolishly exhibit such habits... Stupid beings.

Wetin concern me concern girls matter.....na dia culture n tradition

I hv 2 girls wee no allow me date a girl cos of jealously.....d worst ws dt i hv nofin 2 do wit dm......stumbling blocks

EricRichie:


I totally agree with you, but let's not forget... You can't read your bestfriends mind... Like I said earlier, the jealousy might not be profound but it exists

ok I rest my case

queebeediva:
ok I rest my case

Loool okaaaaay

octopusfreaky:
topic don finish for nairaland.....OP keep recycling old gists,,mtschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Please if you don't have anything thing useful to contribute, I think its really cool if u just read and moved on.
This is your last warning.