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Marriage - 8 years
Kids - 2

Below are scenarios a Husband has notices in his wife over a period of time, this spans before and after the marriage.
Sorry it's kind of long, but it will surely benefit us one way or the other, a simple YES or NO for each scenario will be appreciated.

Scenarios Before Wedding ( Dating).
1.Entertained her Ex during her NYSC, during the period she was doing her ICAN lessons. Husband visited the venue of the ICAN lesson on the day the EX came into town, She was not at the lesson and her phone was switched off, she claimed she was in class.

2. On Valentine day, Husband Surprises the wife in her house, they arrived together and asked the hubby to leave( after 10 mins) the Husband had to literally beg for a Kiss on a Vals day.She came back unusually late that night she owed it to the ICAN lesson.

Scenario After Wedding.

1. Two weeks into the marriage, Husband and wife were on the bed together, the EX called the wife,she claimed it was her cousin, the Husband found out it was the Ex as he checked her last received call.

2. During the first child's Naming ceremony, wife asked her husband to leave the ceremony and go and pick up her former Course Mate( A Guy) and bring him to the House, Husband said he cannot leave the ceremony and go and pick anybody.Wife took offence and kept malice with Husband for a week.

3. Three months after the Child's ceremony, the Ex bf of the wife was always calling and send sms to the wife threaten to expose their relationship before her marriage, wife never mentioned it to her husband, but will call her friend to warn the bf to stop harassing her.

4. Husband lost his Job, Husband and wife visited Wife's father's house. Each time the Husband does not see the wife, he will call her line, even if she is in the House she will claim she is out of the house, meanwhile she is answering the phone from another room.

5. Husband Gets a New Job, trying to stabilize and settle down - Husband sees his wife with cloths and shoes which of course he did not buy and the wife also does not work. He asked the wife “when did you buy this cloths that you never showed me”, the wife's response was " You never gave me money to Buy them so never ask me how I bought it"

6.Husband and wife are currently leaving in one of the Wife's fathers house, whenever there is a small misunderstanding, or whenever the wife brings up issue of the [husband's past deeds]**** she will keep malice for days or weeks or even months.


[husband's past deeds]**** - 1.5 years into the marriage the husband use to chat with ladies online (Facebook etc) the wife found out and was angry , the husband apologized and promised never to do it again. 3 years later the husband started chatting online again and stopped almost immediately, the wife never found out, till 2 years after he stopped, she saw the history of the chat of over 2 years. The husband confessed yes he did it but stopped immediately, the date stamp of the chat was there to prove. Since then the husband has not repeated that act, yet the Wife brings up the issue every time, which will lead to malice of over a month.

Long tori.

When you start telling lies . . . .chances are?
Do like I do. . . .and say:

NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS DARLING!

Did this happen to you or your friend or you want to write a novel or act a movie?

Gboliwe:
Did this happen to you or your friend or you want to write a novel or act a movie?

Novel ke? Real Life scenario

Hmm e get as e be


didn't they study themselves b4 getting married ?

Hmm e get as e be


didn't they studied themselves b4 getting married ?

Hmm e get as e be


didn't they studied themselves b4 getting married ?


What has the guy done ever since he noticed such

D story is nt complete o

nicerod:
D story is nt complete o

which part is missing?

QuiverBox:
which part is missing?

i dnt even knw o

The husband is a weakling, IMO. I would have left her in the early stage of the relationship and never go into any marriage with somebody stuck with her EX. Too much lies, she controls him, she's angry that he chats with other women but she's sleeping with another guy. Mtcheew. Infact, I'll take another woman out on a date and spend the night with her so she can feell the pain to the fullest and take a walk if she wants to. Does the child belong to him? Because the woman have been seeing the Ex from the day one and still seeing him.

Infact, that man is a FOOL for even complaining!!

KanwuliaJara:
Long tori.

When you start telling lies . . . .chances are?
Do like I do. . . .and say:

NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS DARLING!

I thought you said you are going on a timeout with the girls. Why are still here

Blizzyblinkzy:
Hmm e get as e be


didn't they study themselves b4 getting married ?

Can one study a future spouse 100% before marriage?

SAMBARRY:
I thought you said you are going on a timeout with the girls. Why are still here

If you read properly, the time-out for girls is in August!

KanwuliaJara:
If you read properly, the time-out for girls is in August!

o.ok.i hope you have shopped for the outfit you will wear ahead of time

SAMBARRY:
o.ok.i hope you have shopped for the outfit you will wear ahead of time

Shop ke?
When my closet is full of STUFF?
No need.

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