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Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by saasala(m): 11:48pm On May 07, 2015 |
Hila12: Hurray! King Solomon of ancient Hebrews is alive.... All hail the only king Solomon. But wait o, if you claim the act is not a sin but the thoughts behind it, then masturbating with the images of your spouse in your head shouldnt be sin cos religion says we can nyansh our spouse anyhow. PS: Mods, this is the kinda topic that should make the frontpage Cc: lalasticlala, seun |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by Hila12(m): 12:07am On May 08, 2015 |
saasala: Well, show me one man who can masturbate exclusively to pictures of his wife in his head and I would show you a man that doesn't exist. There are many pictures of countless unclad women in a man's head. Consciously or unconsciously he would visualise these other women (sexier than his wife) with protruding bosoms and bigger butts to keep his ereection. Some men claim to have phone ssex with their partners, but close to the man is his phone/laptop streaming porn videos in mute mode... You see what I mean. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by saasala(m): 12:15am On May 08, 2015 |
Hila12: The king has spoken, who am I to believe otherwise. I am viewing this from the same prism as yours, and I can say that you King Solomon are right. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by mentorandfriend(m): 12:28am On May 08, 2015 |
Pastor Joseph Prince, the foremost preacher of Grace the church has been blessed with in recent times preached a message on this last year. I took time to digest the message. That message was preached in Lakewood Church in Houston. Most ignorant people confuse fellow ignorant people with Ornan's story whenever this issue comes up. Not to beat about the bush, there is nothing wrong with it. I'll paste the youtube link of that message once I get it now. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by teemy(m): 7:10am On May 08, 2015 |
Hila12: I understand your points but within the context of the op's question the spouse is the one being mentioned. The average adult thinks about sex 3-5 times daily and there is obviously no one that has not once in a while skipped thoughts to other fellows but we just drive our thoughts back before they grow roots else we would be in violation of Jesus' standard and this not even masturbation involved. As long as one'e thoughts is towards one's spouse I believe the area is secure within the area of marriage. It is not a sin if one's sexual desire/lust is to one's partner. We do the very same things during intercourse, only some are using distance as a new yardstick to measure sin. On your second point Paul regards sex between married couples as regular sexual relations. Not all the time is sex to create kids and I would say that the purpose of filling up the earth has long been achieved as we have crossed into the overpopulation threshold. If we take on Onan's story we would see the case of a man that has sex with his brother's wife whom he married and refused to give her babies by spilling semen on the ground because the kids from that woman would be regarded as his dead brothers'. A warning to let us know that chop and clean mouth with our partners is not right before God as we are both supposed to be happy about the deed. This covers areas like husbands that rape their wives and so on. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by MrDojo(m): 7:42am On May 08, 2015 |
Chilug: I'm ave no interest d masturbation topic its w@ she said I commented on....... By d way dis World will END without religion..... If nt 4 God I definitely knw I won't be alive 2day.....N u r tellin me d@ d world will be beta off wit out religion......I heavily disagree. Yes u ave yur own point of view |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by Hila12(m): 7:42am On May 08, 2015 |
teemy: Masturbation to the image of a spouse in your head isn't sin itself. Spouses shouldn't allow 'far distances' put asunder the love and sexual connection they both share. But in most cases of this kind of masturbation, spouses especially the men, watch porn simultaneously (this is were sin comes in). Not all men do this, but most are likely to. Using masturbation as an excuse to watch porn is in no way justified before God. Your sentiments about the earth being full isn't wrong, but saying we have achieved the fill up the earth mission is your opinion (not God's). Each time we put personal pleasure above God's plan or supposed plan for procreation we tell God I don't need your kids, all I want is ssex. That is rude and selfish. It is possible to masturbate exclusively to the thought of a spouse, but impossible once porn is included. 1 Like |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by teemy(m): 8:38am On May 08, 2015 |
Hila12:i totally agree that some get themselves out of the line when other people's images get into and settle into their minds during periods of pleasure like calling out an ex's name or utilizing porn. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by teemy(m): 8:50am On May 08, 2015 |
that the earth is full is rightly my sentiments based on global situations and reports. i even had a dream that hillary was us president at a time of global crises and an elderly man in white was calling the shots over a gathering of presidents. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by teemy(m): 8:54am On May 08, 2015 |
i guess you summed it all up in that your last post and well to add excesses pitfalls some go by. |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by nnamdiosu(m): 1:28pm On May 08, 2015 |
Ontarget: so if I believe that killing u is not a sin and I kill you.....its OK right? SINCE WHEN DID GOD START CLASSIFYING SINS BASED ON WAT U OR I THINK? IF ITS UR PASTOR THAT TOLD U ALL THESE HERESY, PREPARE THE GUEST ROOM FOR HIM IN HELL.. OP don't be deceived. half dozen and 6 Are the same thing. its a SIN |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 08, 2015 |
nnamdiosu:There are things that are clearly a sin. EVERYBODY on earth is fully aware that killing is a sin. There is no way someone can believe that killing is not a sin. Killing is not same as masturbating so don't compare the two of them. They are different things entirely. When someone masturbates has he injured himself or another person in any way? So what exactly is sinful about masturbating? |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by nnamdiosu(m): 8:35pm On May 08, 2015 |
Ontarget: bros and who told u that everybody is fully aware that killing is a sin. so boko haram that are killing and believe its not a sin....are right abi? let me ask u a question. if YOU just finished masturbating privately, and ur mom or dad or pastor meets u on the road and say where r u coming from? can u tell them....I just finished masturbating its not right bro, let's just accept it like that. I'm not judging cos I'm not perfect. ..I have my own weaknesses too. but........MASTURBATION IS WRONGGGGGGGGGG |
Re: Is Masturbating With Images Of Your Spouse In Your Head A Sin? by Nobody: 9:06am On May 09, 2015 |
nnamdiosu:Boko haram is a different matter because their god instructed them to fight and kill infidels. Although they have been killing their own innocent people who are not infidels, the fact that Boko haram kills innocent people does not mean they believe it is not bad. It is just like telling me that robbers who kill believe it is not a sin. Now my question is, what is exactly bad about masturbating? |
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